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Q: Sex Question

asked by: kienan on September 9th, 2003

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My gf and I just started having sex about a week ago. The first night, we did it twice, but she told me to stop both times because it hurt too much. So we waited until two days later and tried it again. During foreplay and such, I was ready, but when it came down to it, I lost my erection. I was wondering if it was because it was in the daylight(we're almost always in a dark place), if it could have been because I had other things on my mind, or maybe because I lost my hornyness. I dont want this to ever happen again, so please help.

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carvytaph

replied on September 10th, 2003

Experienced User

First off, have either of you had sex before? If not, then her reason would be because you "popped her cherry" and she's not used to having someone inside of her. If she wasn't a virgin before you, you could have just hit or scraped the inner wall of her and sometimes that will cause pain. There are numerous reasons for that happening.

Secondly, about your erection...That is very common for some guys. I wouldn't see that happening due to the dark/light issue unless it takes your mind off of things. Sometimes when your mind is roaming other subjects and you are not "focused" you can lose your excitedness.

Hope that helps. Good luck.

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