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Q: Premature ejaculation from hand job
asked by: mystery user on December 5th, 2007
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Hello, i am in fact a man and i hope it is okay that i ask this question of the sexual health forum for women. Any way, my question is.... lets say a girl has had a fair amount of relationships and experience in terms of anything from making-out to full blown sex. In my case i'm not entirely sure how far my gf has gone, but i know for a fact she has given a hand job to at least one other guy, multiple times. For me, this girl was only the third girl i have ever made out with (i am 18 years old and so is she) and the first girl to ever give me a hand job. She knows that she was my first and i told her this after my first handjob, which i estimated lasting about a minute and a half. I assume sexual contact will continue, but with her knowing that i am unexperienced, should i expect her to freak out when i ejaculate in very minimal time? (we always usually make-out and snuggle for about and hour before anything goes any further). The first time, she apologized thinking that she made some sort of mistake, but the reality is, is that i get so incredibly excited with this girl. Is she going to expect me to be able to last long in the near future? Do any girls have boyfriends here, who understand that guys get so excited and it is literally impossible to hold ejaculation back (at least for me it is)?
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Tylanas
replied on December 5th, 2007
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You just need more practice, that's all!! With time you will be able to last longer.
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mystery user
replied on December 5th, 2007
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thanks, that is always nice to hear! However, i'm curious if any other women here have experienced this issue with their partners AND had the "problem" resolve itself with simply "more experience"
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Tylanas
replied on December 5th, 2007
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Almost every single person on the planet Smile
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haille
replied on December 5th, 2007
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Re: Premature Ejaculation From Hand Job
mystery user wrote:
Hello, i am in fact a man and i hope it is okay that i ask this question of the sexual health forum for women. Any way, my question is.... lets say a girl has had a fair amount of relationships and experience in terms of anything from making-out to full blown sex. In my case i'm not entirely sure how far my gf has gone, but i know for a fact she has given a hand job to at least one other guy, multiple times. For me, this girl was only the third girl i have ever made out with (i am 18 years old and so is she) and the first girl to ever give me a hand job. She knows that she was my first and i told her this after my first handjob, which i estimated lasting about a minute and a half. I assume sexual contact will continue, but with her knowing that i am unexperienced, should i expect her to freak out when i ejaculate in very minimal time? (we always usually make-out and snuggle for about and hour before anything goes any further). The first time, she apologized thinking that she made some sort of mistake, but the reality is, is that i get so incredibly excited with this girl. Is she going to expect me to be able to last long in the near future? Do any girls have boyfriends here, who understand that guys get so excited and it is literally impossible to hold ejaculation back (at least for me it is)?


Definitely. Believe it or not, some women find it a turn on to be such a hell of a turn on for their guy.

In fact, some women prefer to teach the inexperienced.

Don't stress. Be honest and communicate with her. That's the only way you will know for sure how she feels about it.

By the way, you are only 18. You are expected to be inexperienced mostly at that age.

Just relax and enjoy getting to know who you are sexually.
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filbygirl
replied on December 11th, 2007
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I agree. Do not stress about it! You are only 18 and inexperienced. With more experience, you will notice that you are able to last longer when you want to. I also agree that many times it can be a turn on to be able to get your man THAT excited!

Again, don't stress, ENJOY!!!
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Hell Fire
replied on December 13th, 2007
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My bloke tends to blow rather quick even with a hand job. And hes 31. So the best things ive found is as follows. Hold it off!! I now work him up and as soon as he feels hes possible getting near we have a little brake, not have a cup of t kinda brake but just kiss intead and calm him down a bit, then start again. Now with this he can last a long time. Sometimes he still cums quick but i dont mind as it is nice to know im such a turn on to him!!
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