I understand what you are saying. This man told me long before we were ever together that he had gone in for STD's testing. He had really high cholesterol and he told me the doctor was going to do the STD's testing. I never really could figure out how the two conditions had anything to do with the other.
In trying to understand HPV and the risks it presents to me, my body and finding out that it now is something that I will have to live with for the rest of my life, it is a lot to think about. Also, for me, I don't know how I could be with somebody else now.
I definitely tried to learn as much as possible on HPV and came upon a number of articles which state there is no test for men for HPV. I printed out and showed them to this man.
Still, he says I have it. He doesn't.
Sometimes, we just make bad choices.