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Q: Split condom,gf not know.
asked by: doiwku on December 3rd, 2007
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dec. 2nd me and my girlfriend had sex. IT was her first time. I wore a condom but it broke. I ejaculated and im not sure if it was inside of her or not. I really have no ideal cause i like felt some sort of wet ness on her stumic but i still think i didnt pull out fast anough. There was lots of blood inside and around her but i expected that since she was a virgin. She has no ideal the condom broke, well at least to my knowledge. I figured if i got her on birth control like the next day it would stop a pregnancy. I talked to my 2 best friends about it and one of them said that doesn't matter. He said that the pill only prevents the sperm from reaching the egg and that giving her birth control wouldnt help but harm. My plan origanaly was to ask my mom about geting birth control tonight and get some and have my girlfriend take it tomorrow, problem solved. Now that i know that wont help, i dont know what to do. One of my friends said he would get his parents or brother to take us to a clinic. Honistaly i dont care if my mom knows but her mom cant know. I dont want a baby and she doesnt ether. Is there any pregnancy tests out there that can tell after like 5 days? how sould i tell her the condom broke? Is there anything she can take that will stop the baby from developing, like a pill? Is there a way we can stop it easier since its only been 2 days? If she is pregnant and we go to the doctor how soon will the doctor be able to tell? If abortion is the way we have to go then when should we get it done, like i said its been 1 day. Whats the safest, easies and most problem free way to get it done? I know we should get it done befor the 2nd trimester is that true? What method should we use? How should i get her to take the test? What test should i buy? I think im gonna ask my mom about birth control tonight anyways just in case the next time something like this wont happen, and my mom and i will feel more open about taking about sex. Please help me, im really confused and i dont know what i should do!
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young Girl
replied on December 3rd, 2007
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no for goodness sakes no test will be able to tell until; about 3-4 weeks or untilAFTER her missed period
he can get the plan B pill

but how does she not know the condom broke and YOU do? did you net tell her>?!!!!
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doiwku
replied on December 4th, 2007
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how am i supost to get the plan B pill... im a guy and im 15. I know it broke cause i saw it broken, she probly doesnt know...
i pulled out and it was broken
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young Girl
replied on December 4th, 2007
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you didnt tell her? so she doesnt know it broke

oh wow
im shocked
you really should have told her if you knew. thats really screwed up Sad

talkto your mom asap
tell her what happened and that you need to get the plan b pill ASAP
but you should hurry because she doesnt have much time to take it
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doiwku
replied on December 4th, 2007
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will it harm her?
shes almost 15!
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young Girl
replied on December 4th, 2007
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no it will prevent her from getting pregnant
but i think she has to take it before 72 hours

please help her get on birth control and stop haveing sex. you dont want kids right?
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doiwku
replied on December 4th, 2007
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we both want birth control! i was gonna ask my mom about it tonight. but i think ill ask her about plan b instead, like right now!
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doiwku
replied on December 4th, 2007
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great...
so i asked my mom about birth control and she said she wouldnt help me get it because shes not gonna put meds into my girlfriends body and go behind her back.
I dont think i can ask her about the plan b thing...
Im just gonna hope that shes not pregnant.
ill probly talk to my girlfriend tomarrow about the whole ordeal
and i guess we will just have to wait till she has her period. or take a test...
then go from there.
I dont see how i can get my hands on the plan b pill
id need it by tomarrow and i dont have a prescription or a parent to get it
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Maddie34
replied on December 4th, 2007
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Do you have a planned parenthood in your town that you could go to? They've got it there and you don't need a prescription for Plan B.
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PenguinsRus
replied on December 4th, 2007
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How would helping your girlfriend get birth control be going behind her back? Your girlfriend would have to know about that, since she'd be the one taking the pill, right?

Planned parenthood gives out Plan B to anyone of any age if you have one near you. Also, if you have any friends that are over 18, they can get it from any pharmacy. You don't need a prescription to get it at a pharmacy, but you do have to be 18.

You definitely have to talk to her. To have sex, you should trust each other enough to be able to talk about things like this when they happen. It is not good to hide them.

As for your questions about pregnancy tests, you shouldn't take one until 14 days after you had the unprotected sex if you want an accurate result.

If you do get plan B, get it ASAP because the longer you wait, the less effective it is.

Good luck
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Verizon-y
replied on December 9th, 2007
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iI cannot believe his mother did not RUSH OUT to get Plan B. Unreal.

It is really a crime that teens cannot get Plan B like people over 18 can. There is no medical reason for the age limit, it is because "people" are afraid it will make teens "promiscuous".

Plan B is safely used in women of all ages all over the world, and has been for decades.
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Tylanas
replied on December 9th, 2007
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It's too late today...

The fact that you didn't tell your girlfriend doesn't show me a lot of maturity... what on earth are you going to do now!? Well actually I know what you need to do.

You MUST tell your girlfriend the condom broke. You should have told her the moment you pulled out that it was broken. She's going to be PISSED you didn't tell her sooner because now, you've made it too late for her to go get Plan-B. If she becomes pregnant from this I wouldn't be surprised if she dumps you. I personally would. It's all your fault at this point.

Does that sound harsh? Well it is. Now, SHE has to wait two agonizing weeks until she can pee on a test and see for sure if you impregnated her. Then if SHE is pregnant, SHE will have to make the hardest decision of her life: Keep the baby, abort it, or give it up to adoption.
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anniek
replied on December 9th, 2007
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I agree with girlfriend. Tell her and stop having sex! Your only 15 you said yourself. Yeah you want bc but guess what bc is not 100% either so you still run a chance. I have a son that was conceived while being on bc, luckly I was married and it wasn't the end of the world. You HAVE to tell her!!
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