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Q: Im Awful...
asked by: yellow ribbon on December 3rd, 2007
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But I really dont want another boy. Liam is sssooo whiny for his age, Macy was so independent by that age and so well behaved and hes just so obnoxious and draining. I think im just in a bad mood cuz i took a late nap and when I do that I get a really icky headache that makes me feel out of it. Anyone ever wish they werent getting what they are getting?


I also want my husband back Crying or Very sad
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Sandbox Party
replied on December 3rd, 2007
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Sad

i cant wait for this whole blasted thing to be over... this war was necessary in the beginning but now its just draining and stupid.

i want him home for you too! And Jason for Diane and everyone esles hubbys that are away!
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AyaMiyaki
replied on December 3rd, 2007
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I'm sorry you miss your husband Sad that must be terrible.

I would try not to worry about Roan acting like Liam though. Alyvia is a girl and she's extremely clingy and high-strung. I think it's more of a personality thing than a gender thing. Finn is a boy and he's super laid back!
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hopefulmjz
replied on December 3rd, 2007
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Each child is different. I agree with Laura, all our babies have different personalities.
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Becky
replied on December 4th, 2007
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Yes I much prefer boys to girls! Layla and my sister Courtney are really moody, short tempered and highly strung. Logan is mostly calm, sweet and the complete opposite.

Give me a house full of boys any day!
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rosejackson
replied on December 4th, 2007
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William is so calm aswell. he has a little monkey side in him though!
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Bridget
replied on December 4th, 2007
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i know you were really hoping for another girl, so it's normal to be a little disappointed. you can't compare roan to liam though, you never know what kind of personality the little guy is going to have.

when is steven expected home?
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michelle1981
replied on December 4th, 2007
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It'll pass Dani. When you first lay eyes on him, it won't matter Smile
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yellow ribbon
replied on December 4th, 2007
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we dont have a def date yet but somewher around march 15th is the rumor. i wanna buy pink stuff and have another little girl to put in dance and gymnastics. if it were up to me id have all girls. im sure ill get over it but for now im not a happy pregnant lady.
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Emma2
replied on December 4th, 2007
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hormones again dani!! lol

once your precious baby is here , you can;t ever imagine trading him in. I cried when i found C was a boy but i wouldnt trade him in for anything.
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PaperScissorsRock
replied on December 4th, 2007
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I know before finding out the sex I was terrified of having a boy, it seemed like the worst thing that could happen.

I don't know why, because now I'm excited to have a boy whenever I have more babies. I think it has to do with the fact that I didn't think Erik was the most amazing person, and was scared that a son might be just like him. I was scared to have a mini Erik.

On the other hand now I'm excited to one day have a boy, because the world could do with a mini Nathan, he's be awesome.
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yellow ribbon
replied on December 4th, 2007
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lol u admitted u want nathans kids!!! U LOVE HIM! ah that just excites me your happy!. (d@mn hormones i think im gunna cry now)
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PaperScissorsRock
replied on December 4th, 2007
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haha

I really really thought I never wanted any more babies after Rowan but Nathan has changed my mind because now I'm so excited to have more but so bummed that it's so far down the line until we can. I mean he's so wonderful with Rowan. He'll be the greatest father (which is weird to say like it's something that will happen in the future because he pretty much already isa father).

And because he talks about babies and making some with me one day. But it's so so so far away. I never thought I'd ever get baby fever.
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beepbeep176
replied on December 4th, 2007
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Aww I don't think you're awful. I was terrified of being told I was gonna have a boy. Even now that I know it's a girl I'm afraid it'll turn out boy. I just see the relationship my Fiancee has with his Mom and I really don't want that. But like the others have said personality really relys on the baby and not the gender. I'm really sorry your husbands away, hopefully you'll get to see him soon.
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jessesgirl
replied on December 4th, 2007
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I agree with the personality thing. Ava's whiny, clingy, and always has been high strung. She throws about 2-5 tantrums a day. I'm reading a book right now to help us with that.
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sick_mama17
replied on December 5th, 2007
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My friend who's daughter goes to jays pre school is always complaining about her girl. Shes whiny, demanding, bossy, has so many tantrums etc. She wishes her second child had been another boy like her first. Same with a grandparent who's grand daughter is at the pre school, she has 2 grandsons and says they were so much easier than the girl.
I couldnt have asked for a better personality in Jay Smile

Each child is different, they all have different personalities. I think it depends on your parenting too. So I wouldnt assume a second boy will be like your first. There's every chance they will be total opposites.
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Idony
replied on December 5th, 2007
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wait, your pregnant dani? since when? ive been gone WAY to long, what else has happened that i dont know about? lol

how long has your husband been gone?

~alicia~
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Becky
replied on December 5th, 2007
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yeah idony dani, sarah, bridget, rose and amber are all pregnant (i've probably missed loads out)
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Sandbox Party
replied on December 5th, 2007
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dont forget Betsy.
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Idony
replied on December 5th, 2007
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i have missed way too much

~alicia~
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