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Posted: 12-03-07 19:47pm

But I really dont want another boy. Liam is sssooo whiny for his age, Macy was so independent by that age and so well behaved and hes just so obnoxious and draining. I think im just in a bad mood cuz i took a late nap and when I do that I get a really icky headache that makes me feel out of it. Anyone ever wish they werent getting what they are getting?


I also want my husband back Crying
or Very sad
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Sandbox Party

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Posted: 12-03-07 19:59pm

Sad

i cant wait for this whole blasted thing to be over... this war was necessary in the beginning but now its just draining and stupid.

i want him home for you too! And Jason for Diane and everyone esles hubbys that are away!
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AyaMiyaki

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Posted: 12-03-07 20:02pm

I'm sorry you miss your husband Sad that must be terrible.

I would try not to worry about Roan acting like Liam though. Alyvia is a girl and she's extremely clingy and high-strung. I think it's more of a personality thing than a gender thing. Finn is a boy and he's super laid back!
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Posted: 12-03-07 20:26pm

Each child is different. I agree with Laura, all our babies have different personalities.
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Becky

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Posted: 12-04-07 03:12am

Yes I much prefer boys to girls! Layla and my sister Courtney are really moody, short tempered and highly strung. Logan is mostly calm, sweet and the complete opposite.

Give me a house full of boys any day!
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rosejackson

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Posted: 12-04-07 04:58am

William is so calm aswell. he has a little monkey side in him though!
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Posted: 12-04-07 07:51am

i know you were really hoping for another girl, so it's normal to be a little disappointed. you can't compare roan to liam though, you never know what kind of personality the little guy is going to have.

when is steven expected home?
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michelle1981

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Posted: 12-04-07 10:00am

It'll pass Dani. When you first lay eyes on him, it won't matter Smile
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Posted: 12-04-07 14:15pm

we dont have a def date yet but somewher around march 15th is the rumor. i wanna buy pink stuff and have another little girl to put in dance and gymnastics. if it were up to me id have all girls. im sure ill get over it but for now im not a happy pregnant lady.
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Posted: 12-04-07 14:19pm

hormones again dani!! lol

once your precious baby is here , you can;t ever imagine trading him in. I cried when i found C was a boy but i wouldnt trade him in for anything.
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PaperScissorsRock

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Posted: 12-04-07 21:33pm

I know before finding out the sex I was terrified of having a boy, it seemed like the worst thing that could happen.

I don't know why, because now I'm excited to have a boy whenever I have more babies. I think it has to do with the fact that I didn't think Erik was the most amazing person, and was scared that a son might be just like him. I was scared to have a mini Erik.

On the other hand now I'm excited to one day have a boy, because the world could do with a mini Nathan, he's be awesome.
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Posted: 12-04-07 21:36pm

lol u admitted u want nathans kids!!! U LOVE HIM! ah that just excites me your happy!. (d@mn hormones i think im gunna cry now)
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PaperScissorsRock

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Posted: 12-04-07 21:40pm

haha

I really really thought I never wanted any more babies after Rowan but Nathan has changed my mind because now I'm so excited to have more but so bummed that it's so far down the line until we can. I mean he's so wonderful with Rowan. He'll be the greatest father (which is weird to say like it's something that will happen in the future because he pretty much already isa father).

And because he talks about babies and making some with me one day. But it's so so so far away. I never thought I'd ever get baby fever.
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beepbeep176

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Posted: 12-04-07 21:42pm

Aww I don't think you're awful. I was terrified of being told I was gonna have a boy. Even now that I know it's a girl I'm afraid it'll turn out boy. I just see the relationship my Fiancee has with his Mom and I really don't want that. But like the others have said personality really relys on the baby and not the gender. I'm really sorry your husbands away, hopefully you'll get to see him soon.
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Posted: 12-04-07 22:31pm

I agree with the personality thing. Ava's whiny, clingy, and always has been high strung. She throws about 2-5 tantrums a day. I'm reading a book right now to help us with that.
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sick_mama17

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Posted: 12-05-07 02:55am

My friend who's daughter goes to jays pre school is always complaining about her girl. Shes whiny, demanding, bossy, has so many tantrums etc. She wishes her second child had been another boy like her first. Same with a grandparent who's grand daughter is at the pre school, she has 2 grandsons and says they were so much easier than the girl.
I couldnt have asked for a better personality in Jay Smile

Each child is different, they all have different personalities. I think it depends on your parenting too. So I wouldnt assume a second boy will be like your first. There's every chance they will be total opposites.
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Idony

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Posted: 12-05-07 10:47am

wait, your pregnant dani? since when? ive been gone WAY to long, what else has happened that i dont know about? lol

how long has your husband been gone?

~alicia~
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Becky

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Posted: 12-05-07 11:22am

yeah idony dani, sarah, bridget, rose and amber are all pregnant (i've probably missed loads out)
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Sandbox Party

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Posted: 12-05-07 14:39pm

dont forget Betsy.
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Posted: 12-05-07 17:21pm

i have missed way too much

~alicia~
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