Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Georgia, United States
Need Relationship Advice Posted: 12-03-07 16:33pm
Ok me and my boyfriend Danny broke up last
year. I still am in love with him. my
parents made me brake up with him. and it
really broke mine and his heart. i know he
still likes me because he told me, and i
love him too. i need to know if i should
sneek around and go back out with him or
if i should just let my heart be broken
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Maddie34
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Posted: 12-03-07 16:42pm
Why did your parents tell you to break up?
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Whaturmuva
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Joined: 26 Sep 2007 Posts: 105 Location: ,
Posted: 12-04-07 10:40am
The heart wants what the heart wants. From
your profile it says you are 16, not sure
if that is correct or not. But you're at
the age where your parents still have some
control over your life. Was there an
important reason that your parents made
you break up with him?
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entices1
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Joined: 25 Apr 2007 Posts: 120 Location: North Florida, USA
Posted: 12-04-07 18:32pm
I think we may need a little more
information before we can help.
Why did you break up? Be honest. Don't
gloss over any problems you may have had.
Regardless, sneaking out the house won't
get you anywhere. If your parents catch
you, you have broken their trust in you.
Trust is something that has to be earned
over time. You break your parents' trust
and don't think for a second that you'll
be allowed to go anywhere for a good, long
time. How would you explain it if
something terrible happened to you whilst
you were "on the loose"? What if you got
hurt? What if someone discovered you and
happened to mention it to your parents?
It happens all the time and you'll be
sorry that you decided to win the battle.
You wil have lost the war.
If you were a parent and your child
sneaked out on you, how would you feel?
Yes, I am old enough to be your parents'
age, probably older, but it doesn't mean
that I'll automatically side with them.
I'd like to hear your side of the story
first; don't be surprised if other posters
ask additional questions if we don't quite
what you're trying to tell us. We want to
help you if we can, but you have to help
us.
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Aunt WeeWee
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Posted: 12-05-07 09:28am
Ok. I can totally relate to this. I have
been in an on/off relationship for 2 1/2
yrs., and my family has a huge problem w/
it, cause the guy i'm w/ is
cuban-American, and he is 6 yrs. older
then me, and I'm 17. I just got to the
point where i really don't care anymore
and I ignore everyone. If you really want
to be with him, just be with him. If you
have to sneak around, just be very
careful, and make sure you cover you
tracks. How old are you, and him? Keep
us updated.
