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Madella

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Need Relationship Advice
Posted: 12-03-07 16:33pm

Ok me and my boyfriend Danny broke up last year. I still am in love with him. my parents made me brake up with him. and it really broke mine and his heart. i know he still likes me because he told me, and i love him too. i need to know if i should sneek around and go back out with him or if i should just let my heart be broken Crying
or Very sad
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Maddie34

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Posted: 12-03-07 16:42pm

Why did your parents tell you to break up?
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Whaturmuva

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Posted: 12-04-07 10:40am

The heart wants what the heart wants. From your profile it says you are 16, not sure if that is correct or not. But you're at the age where your parents still have some control over your life. Was there an important reason that your parents made you break up with him?
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entices1

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Posted: 12-04-07 18:32pm

I think we may need a little more information before we can help.

Why did you break up? Be honest. Don't gloss over any problems you may have had.

Regardless, sneaking out the house won't get you anywhere. If your parents catch you, you have broken their trust in you. Trust is something that has to be earned over time. You break your parents' trust and don't think for a second that you'll be allowed to go anywhere for a good, long time. How would you explain it if something terrible happened to you whilst you were "on the loose"? What if you got hurt? What if someone discovered you and happened to mention it to your parents? It happens all the time and you'll be sorry that you decided to win the battle. You wil have lost the war.

If you were a parent and your child sneaked out on you, how would you feel?

Yes, I am old enough to be your parents' age, probably older, but it doesn't mean that I'll automatically side with them. I'd like to hear your side of the story first; don't be surprised if other posters ask additional questions if we don't quite what you're trying to tell us. We want to help you if we can, but you have to help us.
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Aunt WeeWee

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Posted: 12-05-07 09:28am

Ok. I can totally relate to this. I have been in an on/off relationship for 2 1/2 yrs., and my family has a huge problem w/ it, cause the guy i'm w/ is cuban-American, and he is 6 yrs. older then me, and I'm 17. I just got to the point where i really don't care anymore and I ignore everyone. If you really want to be with him, just be with him. If you have to sneak around, just be very careful, and make sure you cover you tracks. How old are you, and him? Keep us updated.
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