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Q: I Haven't Seen This Discussed Recently
asked by: Altari on December 3rd, 2007
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I seen a of talk about the social, economic and emotional effects of having children young. But, I haven't really seen much discussion on the basic, physical effects of teenage pregnancy.

I have 3 daughters, and I'm 22 years old. I had my oldest when I was 17, my second when I was 19, and my youngest when I was 20. Yes, 1 year apart.

This was a direct result of health problems. During my first pregnancy, I developed preeclampsia, a disease that disproportionately affects teenage mothers. Preeclampsia can damage all of your body's systems, lead to rather unpleasant things such as severe and rapid weight gain, kidney damage, and possibly death. I hemorrhaged after her birth (and have/will with each subsequent birth) which was completely ignored because, as a teen mother, I was "over reacting".

As a result of the health problems experienced during my first pregnancy, after my second, I my gall bladder failed. Unfortunately, due to the fact that all my charts were branded "TEENAGE MOTHER" across the top, it was assumed that I was over reacting when I reported burning, stabbing abdominal pain. This continued on for 6 weeks, with a duct blocked with a large gall stone.

Through those 6 weeks, I slept less than an hour per night. I was diagnosed with PP abdominal upset, acid reflux, IBS and a plethora of other relatively minor ailments. During that time, the pain went from bearable, to incapacitating. I would have boughts of crushing chest pain, I was unable to eat (which meant unable to nurse) and unable to sleep. I couldn't hold my daughter often, because the slightest touch on my abdomen was excruciating.

At the end of 6 weeks, my liver was almost completely shut down. The last thing I remember before being medicated in the hospital was crawling from the cough (the only comfortable place to try to sleep), past my 6 week old infant, into my bedroom and waking my husband, begging him to take me to the ER. I couldn't breath, and my vision was blurred from the pain. Luckily, we lived with my parents, and they kept the girls.

At the hospital, I learned that my liver was in the final stages of shutting down. A few more hours, and I would have been dead. After an emergency surgery, and subsequent gall bladder removal 2 weeks later, I was told I wouldn't be able to conceive for at least 6 months, and probably a year. Due to all the drugs, my OB said b/c was useless.

5 months later, I was pregnant again. My youngest two are 15 months apart.

I can't eat certain foods because of my liver. It's permanently damaged. Anything high in fat/grease leads to either obscene pain or terrible stomach problems.

My teeth are terrible, despite my obsessive compulsive care of them. Pregnancy leaches calcium from your body, which weakens your teeth. My teeth chip at the slightest thing. The chips then quickly develop decay.

So, let's recap : My liver is shot, my gallbladder is gone, my teeth are bad, my metabolism is shot (which means no luck losing the baby weight after 2 years), my back is permanently sore where I received an epidural, and my back is damaged from carrying a pregnancy. Each of my pregnancies has threatened my life, and because of the problems from the first at 17, any pregnancies in the future will as well.

These are ALL very common results of teen age pregnancy. Teenagers experience an incidence of these ailments that is disproportionate to women even in their early 20s.

It's very easy as a teenager to say "I'll be different" when you're presented with educational, economic and social statistics. Those are all at least somewhat within your control. However, the way your body reacts to pregnancy at a young age is NOT. You cannot control it, in the slightest. Imagine my difficulty caring for an infant while wondering why the searing pain in my abdomen won't cease, despite copious amounts of drugs. Or toting a one year old on my 7 month pregnancy hip, despite the fact I "couldn't conceive".

Just...think about it.
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Verizon-y
replied on December 3rd, 2007
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Wow. That is a very powerful post. I hope it saves at least a few girls from suffering the agony you've experienced.
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sweet_mom
replied on December 3rd, 2007
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I had no idea of the risks of childbirth at a young age,I don't think many people know about them.It would be a good idea for the education system to explain all of that in their sex ed classes.I know they never explained all that in my school.
I'm so sorry to hear of your experience and I am shocked to hear that the medical professionals chalked it all up to you being a teen mother.You know your body better than they do and they should have done every test possible to find out why you were in pain.You were extremely lucky that they finally looked at you when they did,I wish you the best of luck in all the years to come!
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young Girl
replied on December 3rd, 2007
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there are lots of risks
just like every pregnancy
any pregnancy can result in cmplications
a girl haveing a baby at a young age or an older age xcan develope problems. not just teens.

i had a very easy pregnancy. i got bad scaitica and gained 22 pounds overall but thats it. it was all belly
besides the back problems and sciatica i had it pretty easy.

"These are ALL very common results of teen age pregnancy"

no they are not common at all
i would like to see any statistics pointing to this. im not trying to debate or argue but just because you had these bad expiriences doesnt mean teens do in genral. same for me, doesnt mean because i had a good pregnancy that every teen will. all pregnancies and women are different
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prettygirlygirl
replied on December 4th, 2007
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the_girlfriend wrote:
no they are not common at all
i would like to see any statistics pointing to this. im not trying to debate or argue but just because you had these bad expiriences doesnt mean teens do in genral. same for me, doesnt mean because i had a good pregnancy that every teen will. all pregnancies and women are different


I'll tentatively agree with you on this. No, these problems are not common, and yes all pregnancies are very different. However, statistically, teens do experience complications at a MUCH higher rate than adult women. MUCH higher.

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am shocked to hear that the medical professionals chalked it all up to you being a teen mother.You know your body better than they do and they should have done every test possible to find out why you were in pain.


A lot of health care professionals treat teens with less regard than adult women. Many (of course, not all) chalk it up to the fact that teens are far more likely to health forum and whine because they're unprepared for pregnancy and don't value it in the sense that an older couple would for a desperately wanted pregnancy. I really think this is an overall attitude of many adults toward teens (think for example a 14-16 year old dealing with a sales person, vs a 30 year old woman dealing with a sales person). Teens are almost treated with less respect (*note* I said ALMOST, of course this is a generalisation, but I don't find it to be an unfair one).

Also, I think that a lot of teens (again, please note that I said a lot, not all) don't have enough confidence or maturity to know how to speak up when they think something is wrong, esepcially in the presence of a professional like a doctor.


Finally, I was a young teen mom. I experienced severe preeclampsia and had to deliver early. My daughter's first APGARs were 2. She was severely underweight and had many health problems related to being a preemie and having a low birth weight.

I too still have pain from the epi (thoguh that's not related to being a teen, that just happens sometimes).

To the OP, I wish you would go to highschools and speak up. I'd love to, but I'm still to young to be taken seriously. Thank you for speaking here, I hope your post is read and taken to heart by many of the young women hoping for babies.
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PenguinsRus
replied on December 4th, 2007
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prettygirlygirl wrote:

To the OP, I wish you would go to highschools and speak up. I'd love to, but I'm still to young to be taken seriously. Thank you for speaking here, I hope your post is read and taken to heart by many of the young women hoping for babies.


I don't think you would be too young to be taken seriously if you were to speak at a highschool. If anything, I think you would be taken more seriously. People would see that it is someone their age(or at least close to it) and be able to relate more. Teenagers don't like to listen to adults, but they seem to love listening to and following everything that people their age do because its the "cool" thing to do. A teenager speaking about a horrific experience would probably get through a lot better than someone of an older age.
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replied on December 4th, 2007
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prettygirlygirl wrote:
the_girlfriend wrote:
no they are not common at all
i would like to see any statistics pointing to this. im not trying to debate or argue but just because you had these bad expiriences doesnt mean teens do in genral. same for me, doesnt mean because i had a good pregnancy that every teen will. all pregnancies and women are different


I'll tentatively agree with you on this. No, these problems are not common, and yes all pregnancies are very different. However, statistically, teens do experience complications at a MUCH higher rate than adult women. MUCH higher.

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am shocked to hear that the medical professionals chalked it all up to you being a teen mother.You know your body better than they do and they should have done every test possible to find out why you were in pain.


A lot of health care professionals treat teens with less regard than adult women. Many (of course, not all) chalk it up to the fact that teens are far more likely to health forum and whine because they're unprepared for pregnancy and don't value it in the sense that an older couple would for a desperately wanted pregnancy. I really think this is an overall attitude of many adults toward teens (think for example a 14-16 year old dealing with a sales person, vs a 30 year old woman dealing with a sales person). Teens are almost treated with less respect (*note* I said ALMOST, of course this is a generalisation, but I don't find it to be an unfair one).

Also, I think that a lot of teens (again, please note that I said a lot, not all) don't have enough confidence or maturity to know how to speak up when they think something is wrong, esepcially in the presence of a professional like a doctor.


Finally, I was a young teen mom. I experienced severe preeclampsia and had to deliver early. My daughter's first APGARs were 2. She was severely underweight and had many health problems related to being a preemie and having a low birth weight.

I too still have pain from the epi (thoguh that's not related to being a teen, that just happens sometimes).

To the OP, I wish you would go to highschools and speak up. I'd love to, but I'm still to young to be taken seriously. Thank you for speaking here, I hope your post is read and taken to heart by many of the young women hoping for babies.



actually ive found some statistics for you. more complications are seen in babies born to OLDER mothers than mothers who are under 25 yrs of age. such as down syndrome.

At age 25, a woman has about a 1-in-1,250 chance of having a baby with Down syndrome.
At age 30, a 1-in-1,000 chance.
At age 35, a 1-in-400 chance.
At age 40, a 1-in-100 chance.
At 45, a 1-in-30 chance.
At 49, a 1-in-10 chance

http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/ 14332_1155.asp



and more

"older pregnant women were more likely to have diabetes and hypertension during pregnancy"

Overall, older mothers (over age 35) were more likely than were younger women to experience complications during pregnancy and delivery.

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Altari
replied on December 4th, 2007
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the_girlfriend wrote:
no they are not common at all
i would like to see any statistics pointing to this. im not trying to debate or argue but just because you had these bad expiriences doesnt mean teens do in genral. same for me, doesnt mean because i had a good pregnancy that every teen will. all pregnancies and women are different

Teenagers who are pregnant are much more susceptible to health risks, due to their developing bodies.

More on bones (and teeth) : http://www.drdonnica.com/today/00008104.ht m

For a young mother, teen pregnancy presents a greater risk of suffering from high blood pressure and anemia, when compared to women aged twenty and above. Pregnant teenagers fifteen years of age and below are at even greater risk. Not only from experiencing the above complications, but they also may be more likely to die from pregnancy related complications when compared to mothers aged between twenty and twenty- four.
Teen Pregnancy Poses Health Risks

I had a link for gallbladder in teenagers (back when I had mine removed) but I can't find it now.

Bottom line : Teen pregnancy poses more health risks than pregnancy during your 20s. And, you're right, older women have more health risks as well. But, since we're discussing teen pregnancy here, that isn't really relevant.

Everyone throws around the emotional problems, economic problems, education disadvantages. I could very easily say that it isn't true, since none of them apply to me. That isn't the case though. In those areas, I was lucky, just as in your health, you were lucky.
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Maddie34
replied on December 4th, 2007
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Oh man...

I think that it's better just to teach safe sex at school because teens tend to do that "Well, whatev... this won't happen to me" thing or "Well my friend/mom/whoever didn't have a problem so I certainly won't either" thing. My high school loved the scare tactic to prevent pregnancy and it doesn't work well. My classmates still took risks and they still wanted/had kids early, especially when college doesn't interest them.

Girlfriend, there are a lot of risks for older women, however teenage pregnancy risks are there too. I poked around the site you were on because I saw it didn't mention women under 25 and found the page for it.

http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/ 14332_1159.asp

My mom had my younger sister towards the end of her 30's and thankfully nothing went wrong just as nothing went wrong for you but just because it didn't happen doesn't mean the risks weren't there you know?
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Altari
replied on December 4th, 2007
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the_girlfriend wrote:
actually ive found some statistics for you. more complications are seen in babies born to OLDER mothers than mothers who are under 25 yrs of age. such as down syndrome.

At age 25, a woman has about a 1-in-1,250 chance of having a baby with Down syndrome.
At age 30, a 1-in-1,000 chance.
At age 35, a 1-in-400 chance.
At age 40, a 1-in-100 chance.
At 45, a 1-in-30 chance.
At 49, a 1-in-10 chance

http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/ 14332_1155.asp



and more

"older pregnant women were more likely to have diabetes and hypertension during pregnancy"

Overall, older mothers (over age 35) were more likely than were younger women to experience complications during pregnancy and delivery.

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First of all, Down's, is NOT a maternal health risk. Sorry.

Should I break out the statistics on low birth weight babies and teenagers?

Second of all, women over 35 are encouraged not to have children by many OBs. Funny...so are teenagers. Both groups have increased rates of hypertension. Both are high risk groups. You've done a poor job of both NOT turning this into a debate and proving your point.
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manuftw82
replied on December 4th, 2007
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Down's may not be a physical maternal health risk but it's a mental one. Imagine finding out that your child has Down's or any thing else for that matter. It could be devastating to some women.
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rosejackson
replied on December 5th, 2007
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i have to agree on suzy with this one. i have always been told that the older you are, the more risks you're bound to get while pregnant and in labour. but it comes to an age, where it obviously is too young to have children, when they're bodies are developed at all and therefore have loads of complications during labour and childbirth.
the best age to have children, according to statistics is age 20
these are just statistics anyway. in my opinion, it does not matter what age you are. you are at the same risk as everyone else while being pregnant
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replied on December 5th, 2007
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While being older does pose risks during pregnancy, the same can be said for teenage pregnancy as well.

Just because nothing happened to you, doesn't mean you are not more at risk for things such as pre eclampsia. Which I had when I was 16 and pregnant - but not when I was pregnant in my twenties.

Where do they get statistics, Rose? They compile them with data they get from births/labors. They aren't making them up out of thin air. While I don't always agree with statistics, I can say that not everyone has the same risks.

And, if age 20 is the best age to have kids, that doesn't include 'teenagers'. So that would be proving the point, wouldn't it?

TO THE OP: multiple pregnancies in a short period of time can cause a lot of your problems. It causes hair loss, tooth loss, and a general loss of wellness in your body as you try to support another life for too long (multiple pregnancies in 3 years!). Gallbladder issues can happen to women whether they are pregnant or not. Have you been diagnosed with metabolic disorder?
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Dannzibelle
replied on December 5th, 2007
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i had the easiest pregnancy, no problem apart from a UTI at 35 weeks. I did however have a difficult labour however that was nothing to do with my age it was an udeteccted health problem i'd had all my life
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sick_mama17
replied on December 5th, 2007
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I would guess your problems were from having pregnancies so close to eachother.
I had my son when I was 17 and had no problems during my pregnancy.
Doctors say you should wait 12 months minimum before getting pregnant again, and I read it takes 2 years for your body to fully get back to normal.
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Normally I only post to help those who are asking personal questions about their situations. However, I just finished posting for another poor 15 year old who wants to have a baby with their boyfriend, and I thought it was a good time to come here and point out my views...My views, case in point, which may or may not be disagreed with since they are only my views from what I have seen and experienced. They are not a personal attack on anyone or anything.

Teen pregnancy is very dangerous and not recommended. This is because a teen's body has not finished growing. Even if she is a healthy teen, and takes the advice of a nutritionalist, there are other side effects that she could have besides vitamin deficiency and delivery complications. Her hormone levels are not yet stable (we all know the stereo-typed teen years of mood swings) which may effect her ability to support the life of the baby within her without miscarriage, and the way that she herself feels on a day to day basis. This also rules out the 99 percent of effectiveness of birth control (the pill).

The other factors besides those of health concern are that no matter what statistics say about teen pregnancies and deliveries, there is no way for them to cover everyone in a controlled environment. There is the case of what genetic traits the teen may have that effect her pregnancies or deliveries, some may have things worse than others while some may be destined to have text-book pregnancies again and again well into adulthood.

The life of the baby after it has left the care of the hospital is another consideration which as been omitted. No teen is considering what options she will have when she has either safe or unprotected sex (because neither is going to assure her 100 percent that she will not conceive) and becomes pregnant. Assuming she does not abort, and even if she does make it through the difficulties of having a baby, she is still faced with being a mother to that child for the rest of her life or putting it up for adoption, or may be forced to put the baby in foster care.

Those babies born to a stable family or to older women have a greater chance of making it in the world than those born to teens who haven't the slightest of life-savings or maturity to care for a child.

Having babies close together can be an issue for some, but I know many women personally who have had multiple pregnancies (more than 10) who have a clean bill of health and it doesn't effect them. The lifestyle and genetics of the mother can vary too much to trust a statistic. Many of these women are of course over the age of 35. Hormone levels can be much higher at this age, and a woman can drop 2 eggs instead of one, causing twin births even if they are not genetically expected, which may also account for the risks associated with older women. Many twin deliveries are by c-section, not because a woman of over 35 can't, but because of breach positions.

What I am saying is that people come in all shapes and sizes to say that they will end up with certain conditions, but this is why they are called RISKS. There is a risk to every pregnancy, even if previous ones have been fine.

The main factor here is that even if a teen can have a successful pregnancy and delivery, she isn't old enough to be entrusted with the most important and difficult job in the world....raising another human being....when she isn't even yet fully capable of taking care of her own needs.
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replied on December 5th, 2007
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mominashoe wrote:
Normally I only post to help those who are asking personal questions about their situations. However, I just finished posting for another poor 15 year old who wants to have a baby with their boyfriend, and I thought it was a good time to come here and point out my views...My views, case in point, which may or may not be disagreed with since they are only my views from what I have seen and experienced. They are not a personal attack on anyone or anything.

Teen pregnancy is very dangerous and not recommended. This is because a teen's body has not finished growing. Even if she is a healthy teen, and takes the advice of a nutritionalist, there are other side effects that she could have besides vitamin deficiency and delivery complications. Her hormone levels are not yet stable (we all know the stereo-typed teen years of mood swings) which may effect her ability to support the life of the baby within her without miscarriage, and the way that she herself feels on a day to day basis. This also rules out the 99 percent of effectiveness of birth control (the pill).

The other factors besides those of health concern are that no matter what statistics say about teen pregnancies and deliveries, there is no way for them to cover everyone in a controlled environment. There is the case of what genetic traits the teen may have that effect her pregnancies or deliveries, some may have things worse than others while some may be destined to have text-book pregnancies again and again well into adulthood.

The life of the baby after it has left the care of the hospital is another consideration which as been omitted. No teen is considering what options she will have when she has either safe or unprotected sex (because neither is going to assure her 100 percent that she will not conceive) and becomes pregnant. Assuming she does not abort, and even if she does make it through the difficulties of having a baby, she is still faced with being a mother to that child for the rest of her life or putting it up for adoption, or may be forced to put the baby in foster care.

Those babies born to a stable family or to older women have a greater chance of making it in the world than those born to teens who haven't the slightest of life-savings or maturity to care for a child.

Having babies close together can be an issue for some, but I know many women personally who have had multiple pregnancies (more than 10) who have a clean bill of health and it doesn't effect them. The lifestyle and genetics of the mother can vary too much to trust a statistic. Many of these women are of course over the age of 35. Hormone levels can be much higher at this age, and a woman can drop 2 eggs instead of one, causing twin births even if they are not genetically expected, which may also account for the risks associated with older women. Many twin deliveries are by c-section, not because a woman of over 35 can't, but because of breach positions.

What I am saying is that people come in all shapes and sizes to say that they will end up with certain conditions, but this is why they are called RISKS. There is a risk to every pregnancy, even if previous ones have been fine.

The main factor here is that even if a teen can have a successful pregnancy and delivery, she isn't old enough to be entrusted with the most important and difficult job in the world....raising another human being....when she isn't even yet fully capable of taking care of her own needs.


i agree with alot that your saying but let me point out that there is NO age that youi can be a good mother
you said those born into mothers that are older and more stable? do you know how many mothers out there ARE older and still not stable? i have a daughter that is a week old today and she is my world. im very stable financially and mentally. you dont find many teenage girls that ARE able to care for a child or raise one. these teens are ofetn the ones you see that are TTC on here. however to stereotype against teen mothers is wrong and not fair

i am 16 yrs old
i am NOT on welfare. i take care of my baby by myself without the finaicial help from any one else but me and my partner
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Altari
replied on December 5th, 2007
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Girlfriend, the way I see it, you're looking to justify your actions, and that's why you keep bringing up ancillary information. Down's syndrome does not affect the health of the mother. And we were discussing teen pregnancies, not 35 pregnancies. Have you ever heard of a red herring?

Teenagers should NOT be TTC. It is just bad for their health. Mominashoe explained quite well the reasons. You wouldn't believe someone who said that jumping off a building was OK, just because they survived it with only a scratch. Don't justify poor choices (and YES TTC @ 16 is a poor choice). It simply hurts those considering making the choice.

On another topic, are YOU finishing high school and going to college?
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Altari
replied on December 5th, 2007
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Ingi wrote:
Gallbladder issues can happen to women whether they are pregnant or not. Have you been diagnosed with metabolic disorder?

Gallbladder disease is actually much more common in pregnant women, and more so in teenagers.

Yes, I do have a metabolic disorder. However, I was told by my gastroenterologist it was from the damage caused by the near liver shut-down.

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I would guess your problems were from having pregnancies so close to eachother.

No, actually, the health problems had nothing to do with the nearness. My oldest was born 07/02, and my second 09/04 - 27 months apart. The goal for near spacing is 18 months. So, in all reality, they were the perfect spacing. My health problems arose with my second, not third, pregnancy. The repeated hemorrhaging was a result of the first pregnancy. My OB monitored me during both my second and third pregnancy for uterine integrity.
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replied on December 5th, 2007
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mominashoe wrote:


The main factor here is that even if a teen can have a successful pregnancy and delivery, she isn't old enough to be entrusted with the most important and difficult job in the world....raising another human being....when she isn't even yet fully capable of taking care of her own needs.


I agree with most of your post mominashoe.I agree that no teenager should be TTC.This last paragraph really got to me though.You are lumping all teens into one stereotype with these words.I am 19 with an 18 month old,I haven't lived with my parents in over 3 years,I have sucessfully supported myself for those years and even before moving out I paid rent and helped buy groceries.I bought everything I needed before I got pregnant and I still continue to buy everything I need(with the help and support of my partner now).

I don't know why you would say that a teen should not be entrusted with a child.I know mothers who gave birth in their 20's who no longer have custody of their children because they were not ready for motherhood.
Everybody is different and by you lumping all teen mothers into one stereotype shows how narrowminded you truly are.
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