My husband was rejected as well.
They tend to lump all bipolars in the same category "high risk" and seem to think of bipolars as a suicide or accident risk (during depression or mania stages). We have to pay $50 or $75 a month for life insurance JUST for my husband. Mine is the normal rate. We have been paying that for five years. Even during extreme financial times, we pay it as we feel it is one of the most important things to have in addition to medical insurance.
Honestly, you will probably have to pay a lot of money for life insurance. If you have a family (I assume you do due to your posting name), I would fork out the money and pay it. I encourage you to keep trying. Talk to your psychiatrist or doctor about it and perhaps he has some ideas. This is the reason why some people "lie" or don't even use their regular insurance for psychiatrist appts.
It just stinks..trust me, I know!
Good luck. If you figure a way to beat it without lying, let me know. We refuse to lie because it is considered fraudulent.
I think it's great you are doing everything you can to get life insurance. Many people don't think about it and their children are left in a bind if something happens to them. I have heard some horribly sad stories.