Your messages are so comforting! I too, have joined you all as a colon cancer patient and am heart-broken by my doctors' forecast that I will "almost certainly" experience early menopause and not be able to conceive or carry a fetus to term after the chemo and radiation regimen that will save my life and prevent further cancer in the pelvic area.
Like many of you, I am young (36) and fertile and wanting more kids. My cancer may have developed (or accelerated development) during my recent and only pregnancy. I was diagnosed 10 months after delivering my healthy baby boy, although symptoms (blood in stools) appeared shortly before I conceived my baby. My doctor at the time examined me and said "it might be hemmerhoids" but did not send me to get a colonscopy, and I didn't push for one. Sigh. I have always had an irritable bowel but never got a follow up diagnosis to my initial IBS diagnosis at age 19.
So, I don't know if any of you have been able to conceive and deliver a baby since your experience. Any news you could share in that regard?
After bawling for a week after I was diagnosed with stage III colon cancer, learning that I'm going to live but will likely undergo early menopause after the chemo and radition (before and after surgery), my husband and I are considering harvesting some of my eggs and fertilizing them for possible use later - either by me or a surrogate. Does anyone have experience with this? My doctors have told me that the uterus will be severly scarred after treatment and not able to carry a fetus for an entire pregnancy.
I have also seen a few articles about how pregnancy can stimulate cancer development, but nothing conclusive so I'm looking for anecdotal experience from others like myself. Meanwhile, I'll keep you posted!
I hope to hear from you all.
Angela (morinallen@yahoo.com)