I Dont Masturbate Like Normal Guys. Posted: 12-02-07 05:31am
Hi there.
Ive just discovered your forum. Ive been
thinking of trying to find a forum on the
net where I can post anonymously to get
some ideas because the way I masturbate is
completely different to normal men. Im a
26 year old guy.
I believe i have an issue where the
stimulation in my penis is not in the same
place as normal guys.
I can get hard and have sex, however,
during sex I feel absolutely nothing. I
have never ever managed to orgasm during
sex. No matter what positions ive tried or
techniques, using my penis during sex
gives me no more sexual build up than
using my finger to pleasure a woman.
Eventually i will loose the hardness, and
that will be it. Because the only way I
orgasm is when its soft.
When masturbating i lay on my front and
stimulate the tip of my penis with my
finger by motioning up and down on it.
That works fine and gives me a very
satisfying orgasm, with cum and everything
as normal.
But the shaft of my penis which would
normally be stimulated during normal
intercourse doesnt feel anything. And im
starting to get worried about it.
It is becoming a problem. It has always
been like this, a woman has never been
able to directly give me an orgasm via
blow job or hand job. They just dont seem
to be able to hit my very specific spot
like I can. I have been in a couple of
serious relationships and have had very
understanding women. But women like to
satisfy their men. They dont really wanna
watch their men satisfying themselves
after sex. So it causes an issue there.
And what if i want to have kids? I cant
ejaculate inside a woman. I really dont
know what to do about it. And obviously
its quite a difficult subject to see a
doctor about it.
I was wondering whether Im pretty unique
or whether this is a common problem in
some way? Ive not heard of anyone else
achieving their sexual satisfaction in
this way.
Any help or thoughts much appreciated
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greenboy
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Is Not Common Posted: 12-03-07 20:59pm
But I think you should be check for
Diabetes, some diabetics complain of
decreased sensation in their penis, and
this in know as neuropathy. You maybe be a
diabetic and you don't know it so just
controlling your sugar levels is all what
you need. Also you may have some
neurological damage, temporary damage of
permanent I know the case of a sport heavy
sport guy had similar complaints. Also is
you masturbate that way very often you get
use to get arouse only that way,next time
I recomend you not to masturbate for at
least a week before you are having
intercourse, to see what happens. another
idea is you may be overweight, and your
sex hormones may be down, are you smoking
pot on regular basis? this is the worst
enemy for your penis. so is a lot of other
things you may explore with an urologist.
Go and see one at once, you are too young
for going thru life like that, and your
hand maybe a good friend but is not your
best friend...
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marvel
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Posted: 12-04-07 15:21pm
as far as I know, the shaft of the penis
isn't supposed to be full of sexually
pleasing nerves.... Just the head and
right underneath it where the frenulum is.
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slogan
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Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 12-11-07 17:03pm
thanks greenboy
Well im not sporty and not overweight. I
never smoke pot or anything like that. I
do like ur idea of not masturbating for a
week before sex. Though i generally
masturbate on a daily basis and wow going
a week without could be hard
Dont think i have diabetes, i dont have
any other symptons to suggest this. Ive
had medicals and stuff with work and
nothing has come up in urine samples.
Thanks for youre replies and ideas.
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greenboy
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Sometimes Posted: 12-11-07 19:14pm
Diabetes and thyroid problems are
undetected for years. You maybe having
too much of a good time with your hand.
Maybe you should cut down. Godspeed!!!
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Commando18x
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Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Posts: 18
Posted: 12-12-07 02:51am
Your situation is a very unique situation,
I have never heard of this.
I in your case can only suggest going to a
Urologist to find out what the deal is.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-12-07 23:37pm
I believe you could be suffering from
Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome.
Basically, TMS is caused when men
masturbate facing downwards and often
press their penis very hard against
objects, thus reducing its sensitivity.
You aren't doing that exactly, but you are
exerting specific pressure against just
one concentrated area of the tip of the
penis, thus you could be reducing its
sensitivity.
The site suggested abstinence for a week
to increase your sex drive and then
practicing masturbation lying on your
back.
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JacobRyan
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Posted: 12-13-07 00:37am
I have, on occasion, masturbated while my
penis wasn't hard and found it odd, but
thought nothing of it as I usually am back
to normal the next day.
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KornJL33
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Joined: 23 Oct 2007 Posts: 43
Posted: 12-13-07 15:25pm
Theres a condition that causes this. its
caused by masterbating while your penis is
straight down, such as from lying on your
bed face down, and rubbing your "unit"
while your penis is down, and not erect.
This causes problems, but luckliy you can
reverse this if you try hard.
1. Dont masterbate for 2 weeks. I know it
sounds hard, but trust me. I read about
this before online. (i dont have the
problem btw)
2. Masterbate regularly with your "unit"
facing straight up. You should orgasm
easily. Keep doing this day after day, and
never return to the other method.
The condition is called TMS.
Check out this website for more
information on how to reverse your
condition.
Just to add, marvel is quite right. The
shaft has hardly any nervous endings in
comparison to the glans (head). That's
where the bulk of the nerves are.
