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Q: I Need Some Advice

asked by: generalpurposeproblemguy on December 1st, 2007

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Okay so here's the skinny,

I am a 22 year old virgin. Not that I haven't had girlfriends, or had any sexual experiences, but I've never had my penis in a vagina. Needless to say I've been working at remedying that, and met a nice girl who was more than willing to aid me. Everything was going fine until I pulled off my underwear to put on the condom, and my penis shrank right in front of my eyes Sad

Between the both of us we tried everything for about an hour, and absolutely nothing worked. I was sorely disappointed, and even though she was nice about it, I don't think she's willing to give me another shot. Stunted by this, I woke up today (after a night of trying to drown the memory away) and tried to see if it was just a hiccup. It took me about an hour just to get a full hard on, and it went away just as fast. Thus I am worried even more about this experience.

This and I've masturbated for about 5 years straight. The problem with this being, sometime ago I noticed that I'd developed a bunch of tiny bumps the same color as my skin, around the ring of the crown of my penis. This as well as 5 little pink protrusions on the shaft just below the crown. I saw a doctor who told me that they were due to my masturbation habits, and told me that they'd eventually go away. It's been several years since he told me that.

I am distraught at this point. Is there anyone that can tell me what I can do about me?

Replies(2)

slogan

replied on December 2nd, 2007

New User

Maybe youre suffering Erectial Disfunction. Maybe you should speak to your doctor about Viagra. That should cure it.
It can be a difficult thing emotionally, as next time you go to have sex you will be that worried that you wont get a hard on, you probably wont. You were probably nervous too being your first time, which probably didnt help.
Hopefully the girl will give you another chance. When a guy doesnt get a hard on, it can be a bit difficult for the girl too. As sometimes they can blame themselves. Like think they are not attractive enough to turn you on. But as long as you assure her it isnt that, tell her you got some viagra and youd like to try again. Hopefully she should be willing. She obviously finds you attractive to want to have sex with you. If shes a nice girl and cares about you she should be willing to give you another try.

Best of luck.

Young One

replied on December 2nd, 2007

New User

The bumps around your crown is normal glans. nothing to do with it, everyone has them if they look closely. Also you may have an erection disorder. Go to your local doctor.

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