Totally true! Im missin my 18th b-day, my prom, my grad, my safe grad and I missed this christmas (my bf's b-day) and new years.... So I wish if I woulda planned on gettin preggy, it woulda happened afterwards but since it was an accident, u gotta make all these kinds of sacrifices and it does hurt to not be able to go thru it all with all ur friends.

Shauna

I dont even have a kid yet, but I cant go to my best friends prom this saturday cuz I couldnt find a dress that would look right with my growing bump... I found one that was like $125 but I couldnt afford it cuz when am I ever going to wear it again? I would rather put the 125 towards a baby instead of some dress that I will never wear again.

Yeah I understand completely, my boyfriend and I had the biggest talk today and have decided that we're not going to have sex for about a month or so so I can get my birth control straightened out, and never have sex without a condom again.

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gaby

U just told me u were gonna have an abortion u decided if u get pregnant (told me this online).. I think thats a bad idea. .Its ur fault if u were preg or if u get preg so u could give it up for adoption. . I mean , if u are. .U werent being careful anyhow so hows it the babys fault?!? And u just said ur mom told u to etc etc . . Well dont try to blame it on her. .U said 'we decided if I get preg that im going to get an abortion". . And u said adoption wasnt good cuz they end up in foster homes. . Not true.. U can adopt them right out to a family and pick them even!!!

I already posted about this under another disscussion so im not saying anything again.

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