I'm a still relatively new to the whole sex thing...and frankly, missionary just started being pleasurable to me. But my man has been wanting me to get on top, so yesterday i did. We spent a lil while on foreplay...you know "dry humping"...and I know I was "ready" i was fairly wet and getting that all too familiar feeling of "enough foreplay, put it in already!!" but when i lowered myself on him, i experienced the worst pain ever!!! It felt literally like i was losing my virginity all over again!! It was absolutely awful. He did ask me if i wanted stop, but i kept going not wanting to disappoint im. BUT my gosh!!! The only way the pain subsided was when i layed down his chest and went in and out that way. sittin straight up was too much to bear. P.S. his size is average, and missionary even when he thrusts deep does not hurt. OKAY, so my question is, is the normal for the first time your on top...do i just need to get stretched out and used to a new position?? Or is there a technique to being on top? I know he wants me to do it and like it so I want to get over this...for him ( I want it to feel good for me too, I heard it was the best way for a woman to reach an orgasm!) Thanks!