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Q: It Finally Happened :(
asked by: Jeska on November 30th, 2007
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i lost my baby this morning at about 4am nov.30. my doctor had send me to the hospital to get more test and more high tech ultrasounds, he told me to drink 3 liters of water for the test at 3pm when i was at the hospital i started golping down all this water and then i started getting and awful pain and had to go to the restroom since i couldnt hold it in when i went my underware liner was full of blood. my back hurted so much and my legs felt so weak when i was walking back to the waiting room they call me and started checking me this time they were able to see the bag and the yolk sac but no heart bit they said that the bag mesure 5weeks and 5 days they said everything look like it was on place. i told them that accourding to my doctor i was suppose to be 10weeks. they then did the vaginal ultrasound and told me that it seem like my body was getting ready to expel everything. since i left that hospital i started cramping more and more, and at about 4am it happen. its a very sad day for me specially its the first day that it rains out here in the high dessert and we have a gray sky, i hope god helps me overcome this...and blesses me with a child soon. the doctors told me that when the first pregnancy ends in a loss that their is a very high chance the next one will too, i am so scare. my husband and my self are ready to start a family but when should we start trying again? help please....and to all the women that had a lost, god took our little angels for a reason and if our lives right now seem empty god will bless us soon and sunshine will glow all around....xoxo jeska
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Mabel
replied on November 30th, 2007
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I'm sorry for your loss. Stay strong.
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mrsJ
replied on November 30th, 2007
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Don't worry about if you will miscarry again. My first pregnancy was a miscarriage and I am now 22 weeks pregnant. I wouldn't try again until you are ready or until your Dr tells you it is ok, whichever happens later.

Take care and good luck.
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Mommy35
replied on November 30th, 2007
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I'm very sorry.
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Breizzy
replied on December 5th, 2007
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Im soo sorry..

How inconsiderate of that doctor. You don't know that.. if that was just a fluke or not. I wouldnt listen to that at all.. Now if it was your 3rd or better m/c then i would start to worry.

Now all doctors differ for when you should start trying again. SOme say right after is alright... and others say give ur lining enuff chance to build up to a cushy level for the next little sticky bean to implant.
I would believe the latter. your body needs to heal a bit... and build up a nice lining for the next baby. .. hpefully a sticky bean for ya. Smile

*hugz*
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newmommy07
replied on December 8th, 2007
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Re: It Finally Happened :(
Jeska wrote:
i lost my baby this morning at about 4am nov.30. my doctor had send me to the hospital to get more test and more high tech ultrasounds, he told me to drink 3 liters of water for the test at 3pm when i was at the hospital i started golping down all this water and then i started getting and awful pain and had to go to the restroom since i couldnt hold it in when i went my underware liner was full of blood. my back hurted so much and my legs felt so weak when i was walking back to the waiting room they call me and started checking me this time they were able to see the bag and the yolk sac but no heart bit they said that the bag mesure 5weeks and 5 days they said everything look like it was on place. i told them that accourding to my doctor i was suppose to be 10weeks. they then did the vaginal ultrasound and told me that it seem like my body was getting ready to expel everything. since i left that hospital i started cramping more and more, and at about 4am it happen. its a very sad day for me specially its the first day that it rains out here in the high dessert and we have a gray sky, i hope god helps me overcome this...and blesses me with a child soon. the doctors told me that when the first pregnancy ends in a loss that their is a very high chance the next one will too, i am so scare. my husband and my self are ready to start a family but when should we start trying again? help please....and to all the women that had a lost, god took our little angels for a reason and if our lives right now seem empty god will bless us soon and sunshine will glow all around....xoxo jeska


I'm sorry for your loss, I've had a misscarrage to a few years back. Sad Yes, god took our lil buddles for a reason, I believe that also. Smile Well, I'm 36 weeks along now and expecting a baby girl! Stay strong and everything will fall into place hun. Smile
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michelle1981
replied on December 8th, 2007
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I'm so sorry!
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monkeygirl22
replied on December 8th, 2007
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I'm sorry for your loss. I know it's hard to think about trying again but it does get easier. I miscarried back in March and then found out I was pregnant again in June. I am now 31 weeks along. Just because you miscarry one does not mean you will miscarry another. You will get through this. If you ever need to talk just pm me.
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gingerelizabeth
replied on January 11th, 2008
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im so sorry!
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mominashoe
replied on January 11th, 2008
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I am sorry to hear about your loss.

My first was a miscarriage too. It runs in my family to lose the first. Both my married sisters lost their first one too......but here I am about to have my 6th child. Chin up hun! Give yourself some time to heal and relax.
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browngirl
replied on January 11th, 2008
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I am very sorry for your loss.
Although my sister has been in a similar situation. Last year in January she found out that she was pregnant and shortly afterwards she miscarried. In June she found out that she was pregnant again. She is due to give birth to a beautiful little girl in March.

I really hope that you have support to get through your loss. We are all here for you whenever you need us. I hope you are blessed with a child soon.
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tiamccoy819
replied on January 11th, 2008
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I just went through this recently, I found out I was pregnant around the end of october, and I had a misscarriage a few weeks ago....I was 13 weeks. If you need someone to talk to you can always PM me.
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tiamccoy819
replied on January 11th, 2008
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I just went through this recently, I found out I was pregnant around the end of october, and I had a misscarriage a few weeks ago....I was 13 weeks. If you need someone to talk to you can always PM me.
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