I am cracking up!
I have been with my wife for 14 years now and married for almost 9.
We have a lovely 5 month old son together whom which I love with all my heart.
For years now I have fantasized about my wife going out say,on a works night out and getting banged hard by another guy"really hard" and of coarse him cumming up her and also him banging her up her arse and cumming over her face etc while wearing black high gloss tights etc.
This may sound weird but I really am just a normal guy and this turns me on so much, I also dream of riding her up her arse while she sucks another guys penis and the other way around too.
I lost it 5 years ago and while banging her I told her how I felt and what I dreamed about,I got really emabarssed about it but the thought of it turned me on so much I came every time and she even said things like "I'll fxxk them harder" and stuff which drove me wild.
I am really up for it but my wife just won't deliver the goods in reality and its driving me insane,I want this so much and she is so stunning looking and a fantastic fxxk, I just can't believe that in all this time that a guy hasn't approached her and to say even flirted with her which I want to happen so much,Time is ticking and we aren't getting any younger as I am 34 and she is 29.
I don't know if she thinks that I will leave her if she does it,even if she bangs another guy and even has a fling,I would end up literally bangining her every night as the thought of this turns me on so much,this would make me so turned on and satisfied but I think she thinks that I would leave her for it.
I am so desparate for this to happen it's driving me insane.
I know a lot of guys would get jealous about their wife shagging another guy but this is what I truely want to happen,I turns me on so much and has done for years.
If she doesn't actually want to sleep with someone else then that's something you're just going to have to come to terms with. I think you're a little obsessed with the idea; and it sounds like it's coming to a point where it will interfere with your sex life and every day activities: an addiction. That's not good.
I agree, if she doesn't actually want to sleep with someone else it's just not gonna happen and you shouldn't push it. Talk to her about it openly. If she's not up for it, don't push it.
In the meantime, Is there perhaps another way you can live out this fantasy? Maybe some role playing? Dress up like someone else, have her call you another name, etc.?
I'm sure there's porn on this subject. Watch that together?
Honestly, i think these things are better left as a fantasy. My husband has expressed similar fanatasies, but I wonder how serious he would actually be if i agreed. We are also young and when he talks about it, he just says, "someday". I go along with the fanatasy and the someday but i dont know if it will ever happen. Have you ever heard of those all inclusive resorts in Jamaica, "hedonism"? When we talk about this fanatasy, we say that one day we will take a trip to one of these places and have our threesome fling there so that it is with a stranger who we will never have to see again.
If it means that much to you, i would keep communicating about it, but if your wife is against it, I would suggest you leave it alone or you may start to make her really uncomfortable. Good luck
Well if you want to loose you wife then do it, you may not be as good as the other guy, I think you may be the one that wants to fxxk the other guy, ever thought about that. Go ahead be stupid, and when you come home and find her stuff gone and you are alone I guess you fxxked yourself.
I have the same fantasy and we actually went through with it after we had been married for 8 months or so. It was real intense, and although I loved it and still fantasize about it, it was more painful in reality than the fantasy, and she was quite upset with herself and also with me for persuading her to do it. Our relationship was quite bad for a while after that (I think it played in her head that if I really loved her, why would I make her do that?). I guess its difficult for a woman to understand this strange fantasy. It may also affect how manly she thinks you are, as why would you let another man near your woman? However that was 10 years ago, and we are still together. I try not talk about my fantasy too much, and when she is in a good mood, she may bring something up like 'oh, I remember so and so who had a much bigger penis than you', stuff like that. I am hoping that spontaneously something will happen when the circumstances are right. I drop hints that I would love a 3some for my 50th birthday (not far off). Maybe she will have got her head around it then, and being more mature it wont have a bad affect. But proceed with caution - sometimes fantasy and reality are very different, guys are built differently to girls, careful what you wish for, things may work out not in the way you intended. Good luck!