Hey ladies. I've got a slight problem, and I'm not sure if I should go to an upcoming concert or not.
Mike's ex is going to be there. Normally, I don't mind being around someone's ex, but she is absolutely crazy. They broke up about two years ago (after only dating for a few months and seeing each other maybe 5 times the entire time they dated due to distance), but she still holds a grudge against me.
She writes "anyone not named Sarah" under her myspace on who you want to meet. She writes in her livejournal about how if she ever sees me again, she's punching me in the face. She puts pictures of me on her journal and says how she is so much prettier than I am and wonders what he sees in me.
I tried to talk to her about it in a civil manor, but instead of working it out with me, she just posts that convo in her journal too and makes fun of me. Obviously, talking it out with this doesn't work.
Mike stopped talking to her once she started acting crazy, but she still tries to get in contact with him all the time years later. I have no problem with him being friends with his ex's. He is still friends with some of his other ex's and its totally fine with me; just this girl is crazy.
Anyways, long story short, I find out she's going to be at a concert we were planning on going to. Should I still go? I feel like she shouldn't control our lives, and if we wanna go to a show we should just go! On the other hand, I wouldn't put it past her when she says she'd punch me the next time she sees me. It's a small venue, so chances of seeing her are high. I know if she did lay a hand on me she could get in trouble, but at the same time, since its a show, she could claim it was an accident or someone pushed her into me or something. I also don't want to put Mike in an awkward position. I know he would stand up for me, but I don't want to put him into something like that.
What is your opinion? Should I risk it and go with the chance of getting hit/things blowing up, or should we just skip it and find something else fun to do that night?
