Every person is different; no one "trick" will work. You will have to get to know this person closely and intimately before you will know what turns them on. You may in fact has to ask them.

well.. the person loves to joke around and fool around but is there any thoings a guy can do to make a girl feel horny like.. put your hand on her stomach and slowly move your hand up til your on her tit?

Please use proper words for things; nothing is more of a turn OFF that hearing my breast called a "tit"!! It's disrespectful.

Some women don't like being touched on the stomach because they are ticklish; you could just cause her to jump and giggle.

If she likes you, all you need to do is say the right words and she'll melt. I can't tell you what these words are. You NEED to talk to her; there are not "moves" or "things" you can do that will absolutely always work!!!

I agree , there isn't one thing that turns all females on ,every female is a bit different , what ever works on one may not work on another female.

I agree with Eiri, respect is a huge thing and if she doesn't feel like you're respecting her... well she sure isn't going to go anywhere with you.

But get to know a girl before you try to initiate anything. Get to know what makes her tick. Strike up a conversation about her favorite things, remember what she has said before, actually listen when she talks... just talking can be a turn on to some women.

Physical things happen naturally, there is no right way to do it. They develop and before you know it you're doing something and you didn't realize getting to that point. When the mood is right things will happen.

I'd say breathe on the neck. That always gives me chills. And of course oral sex and licking the clitoris does wonders for wetness.

Sometimes the things that seem the least passionate can be the things that are the most.

The most passionate night of my life just involved kissing. Mike (my guy) picked me up from the airport a year ago last Thanksgiving. He drove me back to my place, and we sat in his car. We didn't want to go in. We kissed..and kissed and kissed. We kissed until 6 in the morning and watched the sun rise together. It really was one of my favorite nights ever, and even more passionate than the first time we made love or anything else. I'm not sure why, but it was.

As for turning a girl on, everyone else is right. Every girl is different, so you have to talk to her and find out what she likes. Try a few things and pay attention to her body and how she reacts to them.

Personally, I love back and neck kisses. It always gets me going. However, not all girls like that.

Just ask her

Put work into it!!

Any time my guys puts forth effort (a romantic date, flowers, cooks dinner, massage, bathes me) into pleasing me, it's a huge turn on. Plus, just compliment her! That helps too.

kiss her shoulders, lick her earlobe, slightly graze her breasts and caress her face... my girl loves it... but yea... i guess the women are right... so hard to please... you really really need to KNOW her...

i loooooove back and neck kisses and making out right before..i hate rushing into things..thats a big turn off..its like he's going straight for the goal and not paying attention to MY needs or things I might like...take alittle time and it will be well worth it i'm a sucker for anything romantic as well..thats a huge turn on, the other night my bf brought home a bottle of merlot and a single red rose, i loooooooooved it just little things like that...he got lots of tlc

Just talk to her. You'll notice when the mood becomes more personal and also when you get the chance to be invited into her personal physical intimacy space, things will take course from there.

The women here are right; no one thing will work for every girl.

Try to just respect and look out for them, if you act correctly and are genuine then it will work every time.

One thing that I might mention is finding the G-spot. Most women have never had that done before. It is located on the front wall of the vaginal, generally about an inch in. It is one spot that even women don't really know about. If you have gotten to that point then it might work for you.

One other thing that might work is using temptation, whether women want to admit it or not they want what they can’t have. Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t be nice or respectful, but try doing things that make her come to you. Breath softly on her neck, stay just out of reach.

I have found that using those things makes it more of a challenge for them and they love it. One scenario was when my girlfriend were in the hot tub, we were both naked when we went out. She jumped in and I stayed out, circling the tub just out of her reach. It becomes almost a game, but you have to learn when to just let her have you, after awhile they will finally lose interest.

Note: I am not a professional; I just have been around more then my fair share of women. Many women are not the same in any way and I would suggest just listening to the women that are posting here.

Well since I noticed that many girls, teens or ladies are actually answering this.So why dont you (the ladies) Tell us (the boys, teen, mens) how you get the person of the opposite gender get turned. So we could get a brighter idea the next time we will be in such a situation. =)

you want to know how girls like to turn guys on?

Removing clothes? lol

my biggest turn on spot it nibbleing or blown in my ear... I cant stand my ear to me touchd by my fiance unless he plans on gettn frisky. but like everyone else has said every girl is different. Good luck

Use the more professional terms for the female anatomy, like "breasts" instead of "tits". Some girls don't like the real dirty talk unless you butter them up real good, and even then. I can be disrespectful.

Also, my girlfriend has a sensitive neck, she loves me tickling her with my stubble around ner neck and ears. Sometimes I will come up behind her and just do that and she'll make herself available to me (and I to her ) This is just an example, really.

You need to experiment with your partners body, find the right spots to touch, and you'll figure it out in no time.

[edit] Pretty much what Tylanas is saying.

it takes nothing at all to turn a guy on, but women on the other hand? forget it, you gotta study the manual. they call the shots and can deny sex any time they want. men on the other hand will be naked the second their woman even jokes about having sex them.

equality my ass.

Men have one “knob:” turn it to eleven and she’s golden. Women have about 30 knobs and they all have to be turned to specific settings to get it right, heh... I’ve always said (and never been disappointed by:) “start by giving her a really long, tight hug, then proceed from there.”

That tight, and LONG, hug will raise her endorphin levels, almost every time (most women responds to this, whether there are sweet nothings whispered or not). Everything after that is dependant on the woman-in-question’s preferences. Ask her what she likes, learn what she likes, practice what she likes. You’re done

...well, I don't know if "You're done" is always going to be the case, guys, but I agree, a hug is great (yes, this is a woman speaking!), which can turn into touching, especially the sweet, exploratory kind, no grabbing or squeezing. I love it if a man acts as if my body's something beautiful that he's just getting the chance to look at and explore. A lot of women are a bit insecure about their bodies, so when we feel like we are the most gorgeous woman in the world, it is a huge turn-on. And I mean physically as well as mentally! Act as if the woman's body is a lovely, fascinating thing that you want to get to know, and then of course if she wants to, then you can speed up the pace a bit. But I don't think this is really difficult or complicated.