How to Turn a Girl On Easy? Posted: 11-29-07 18:02pm
how can i turn someone on really easy?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-29-07 19:53pm
Every person is different; no one "trick"
will work. You will have to get to know
this person closely and intimately before
you will know what turns them on. You may
in fact has to ask them.
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jackking
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Posted: 11-29-07 21:39pm
well.. the person loves to joke around and
fool around but is there any thoings a guy
can do to make a girl feel horny like..
put your hand on her stomach and slowly
move your hand up til your on her tit?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-29-07 23:01pm
Please use proper words for things;
nothing is more of a turn OFF that hearing
my breast called a "tit"!! It's
disrespectful.
Some women don't like being touched on the
stomach because they are ticklish; you
could just cause her to jump and giggle.
If she likes you, all you need to do is
say the right words and she'll melt. I
can't tell you what these words are. You
NEED to talk to her; there are not "moves"
or "things" you can do that will
absolutely always work!!!
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si12j12
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Posted: 11-30-07 04:29am
I agree , there isn't one thing that turns
all females on ,every female is a bit
different , what ever works on one may not
work on another female.
I agree with Eiri, respect is a huge thing
and if she doesn't feel like you're
respecting her... well she sure isn't
going to go anywhere with you.
But get to know a girl before you try to
initiate anything. Get to know what makes
her tick. Strike up a conversation about
her favorite things, remember what she has
said before, actually listen when she
talks... just talking can be a turn on to
some women.
Physical things happen naturally, there is
no right way to do it. They develop and
before you know it you're doing something
and you didn't realize getting to that
point. When the mood is right things will
happen.
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rooted
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Posted: 11-30-07 11:03am
I'd say breathe on the neck. That always
gives me chills. And of course oral sex
and licking the clitoris does wonders for
wetness.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-30-07 11:07am
Sometimes the things that seem the least
passionate can be the things that are the
most.
The most passionate night of my life just
involved kissing. Mike (my guy) picked me
up from the airport a year ago last
Thanksgiving. He drove me back to my
place, and we sat in his car. We didn't
want to go in. We kissed..and kissed and
kissed. We kissed until 6 in the morning
and watched the sun rise together. It
really was one of my favorite nights ever,
and even more passionate than the first
time we made love or anything else. I'm
not sure why, but it was.
As for turning a girl on, everyone else is
right. Every girl is different, so you
have to talk to her and find out what she
likes. Try a few things and pay attention
to her body and how she reacts to them.
Personally, I love back and neck kisses.
It always gets me going. However, not all
girls like that.
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Posted: 11-30-07 17:50pm
Put work into it!!
Any time my guys puts forth effort (a
romantic date, flowers, cooks dinner,
massage, bathes me) into pleasing me, it's
a huge turn on. Plus, just compliment her!
That helps too.
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kudo
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Posted: 05-18-08 23:55pm
kiss her shoulders, lick her earlobe,
slightly graze her breasts and caress her
face... my girl loves it... but yea... i
guess the women are right... so hard to
please... you really really need to KNOW
her...
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worrywart01
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Posted: 05-20-08 18:19pm
PenguinsRus
wrote:
Sometimes the things that
seem the least passionate can be the
things that are the most.
The most passionate night of my life just
involved kissing. Mike (my guy) picked me
up from the airport a year ago last
Thanksgiving. He drove me back to my
place, and we sat in his car. We didn't
want to go in. We kissed..and kissed and
kissed. We kissed until 6 in the morning
and watched the sun rise together. It
really was one of my favorite nights ever,
and even more passionate than the first
time we made love or anything else. I'm
not sure why, but it was.
As for turning a girl on, everyone else is
right. Every girl is different, so you
have to talk to her and find out what she
likes. Try a few things and pay attention
to her body and how she reacts to them.
Personally, I love back and neck kisses.
It always gets me going. However, not all
girls like that.
Just ask her
i loooooove back and neck kisses and
making out right before..i hate rushing
into things..thats a big turn off..its
like he's going straight for the goal and
not paying attention to MY needs or things
I might like...take alittle time and it
will be well worth it i'm a sucker for
anything romantic as well..thats a huge
turn on, the other night my bf brought
home a bottle of merlot and a single red
rose, i loooooooooved it just little things
like that...he got lots of tlc
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herbal07
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Posted: 05-30-08 09:38am
Just talk to her. You'll notice when the
mood becomes more personal and also when
you get the chance to be invited into her
personal physical intimacy space, things
will take course from there.
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Nightcross
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Posted: 05-30-08 16:53pm
The women here are right; no one thing
will work for every girl.
Try to just respect and look out for them,
if you act correctly and are genuine then
it will work every time.
One thing that I might mention is finding
the G-spot. Most women have never had that
done before. It is located on the front
wall of the vaginal, generally about an
inch in. It is one spot that even women
don't really know about. If you have
gotten to that point then it might work
for you.
One other thing that might work is using
temptation, whether women want to admit it
or not they want what they can’t have.
Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t be
nice or respectful, but try doing things
that make her come to you. Breath softly
on her neck, stay just out of reach.
I have found that using those things makes
it more of a challenge for them and they
love it. One scenario was when my
girlfriend were in the hot tub, we were
both naked when we went out. She jumped in
and I stayed out, circling the tub just
out of her reach. It becomes almost a
game, but you have to learn when to just
let her have you, after awhile they will
finally lose interest.
Note: I am not a professional; I just have
been around more then my fair share of
women. Many women are not the same in any
way and I would suggest just listening to
the women that are posting here.
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Cyhp
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How to turn a girl on? Posted: 06-19-08 14:36pm
Well since I noticed that many girls,
teens or ladies are actually answering
this.So why dont you (the ladies) Tell us
(the boys, teen, mens) how you get the
person of the opposite gender get turned.
So we could get a brighter idea the next
time we will be in such a situation. =)
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Georgia59
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Posted: 06-19-08 14:52pm
you want to know how girls like to turn
guys on?
Removing clothes? lol
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lil_mommy_2007
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turn on Posted: 06-20-08 10:21am
my biggest turn on spot it nibbleing or
blown in my ear... I cant stand my ear to
me touchd by my fiance unless he plans on
gettn frisky. but like everyone else has
said every girl is different. Good luck
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thelaws
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Posted: 06-22-08 01:09am
Use the more professional terms for the
female anatomy, like "breasts" instead of
"tits". Some girls don't like the real
dirty talk unless you butter them up real
good, and even then. I can be
disrespectful.
Also, my girlfriend has a sensitive neck,
she loves me tickling her with my stubble
around ner neck and ears. Sometimes I
will come up behind her and just do that
and she'll make herself available to me
(and I to her ) This is just an
example, really.
You need to experiment with your partners
body, find the right spots to touch, and
you'll figure it out in no time.
[edit] Pretty much what Tylanas is saying.
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awkwarddepressed
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turn on Posted: 07-02-08 13:58pm
it takes nothing at all to turn a guy on,
but women on the other hand? forget it,
you gotta study the manual. they call the
shots and can deny sex any time they want.
men on the other hand will be naked the
second their woman even jokes about having
sex them.
equality my ass.
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nullshark
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"Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place...& Posted: 07-09-08 00:06am
Men have one “knob:” turn it to eleven
and she’s golden. Women have about 30
knobs and they all have to be turned to
specific settings to get it right, heh...
I’ve always said (and never been
disappointed by:) “start by giving her a
really long, tight hug, then proceed from
there.”
That tight, and LONG, hug will raise her
endorphin levels, almost every time (most
women responds to this, whether there are
sweet nothings whispered or not).
Everything after that is dependant on the
woman-in-question’s preferences. Ask her
what she likes, learn what she likes,
practice what she likes. You’re done
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freakyfashionista
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Posted: 07-18-08 17:30pm
...well, I don't know if "You're done" is
always going to be the case, guys, but I
agree, a hug is great (yes, this is a
woman speaking!), which can turn into
touching, especially the sweet,
exploratory kind, no grabbing or
squeezing. I love it if a man acts as if
my body's something beautiful that he's
just getting the chance to look at and
explore. A lot of women are a bit
insecure about their bodies, so when we
feel like we are the most gorgeous woman
in the world, it is a huge turn-on. And I
mean physically as well as mentally! Act
as if the woman's body is a lovely,
fascinating thing that you want to get to
know, and then of course if she wants to,
then you can speed up the pace a bit. But
I don't think this is really difficult or
complicated.
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i'm a sucker for
anything romantic as well..thats a huge
turn on, the other night my bf brought
home a bottle of merlot and a single red
rose, i loooooooooved it 