How to you know if you're bi, or just open
minded and horny?
People sometimes ask me if i'm gay, to
which I have to say "just a little bit" or
just lie for simplicities sake.
I feel about 80% straight and 20% gay. Is
this possible and if so how do I try to
explain this to the uninitiated?
How can I know for sure? I don't mind
being labelled if it's accurate.
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Forum Girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Orlando, Florida
Posted: 04-14-04 08:54am
Have you been with a guy before? (i'm
assuming you are a guy - I apologize if I
am wrong). So if you have been with both
a guy and a girl, I would say you were bi.
If you have only been with girls but
want to be with a guy - i'd say you were
bi curious. If nothing else you can say
you are open minded - you don't
discriminate. That's what I do. I've
been in love with both guys and girls.
There is nothing that determines if you
are xy and z then you are definitely gay
and if you are ab and c then you are
definitely straight. Its your decision
and its your decision what your label is.
Go with what you feel like. And have a
good time :d
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jago25_98
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Apr 2004 Posts: 18 Location: uk
Posted: 04-15-04 01:02am
Haven't been with a bloke before. If I
get the opportunity I don't know what i'd
do you see. Suck it and see I suppose :p
problem is, people don't know how to
handle `open minded`.
I'll try it anyway
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Forum Girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Orlando, Florida
Posted: 04-16-04 08:41am
As for never being with a guy and not
knowing what you will do - who does know
what they are going to do the first time
they have sex? You just kinda go with
the flow - do what you think feels right
or what you think will feel good. Go
slow - go fast - do it - don't do it -
whatever feels right.
Now as for what people think - that's a
bit more complicated. Most people are
tolerant of "open mindedness". However
it can be to very different degrees. For
example - my parents know that I have been
with girls before. I confessed it to
them one night and with the exception of
one short conversation with my mom - its
never been mentioned again. They know,
but we just pretend it doesn't happen.
And that works for them. On the other
hand, the guy i'm seeing absolutely loves
that i'm into girls (what guy wouldn't??)
and he loves to talk about it constantly.
And I have friends with varying degrees
of tolerance inbetween. You just have to
figure out their comfort level and go from
there.
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blackkittykatx6x
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 May 2004 Posts: 19
Posted: 05-31-04 02:42am
Hey sweetie...Yup it's possible...I feel
like i'm 60% into girl and like 40% into
guys. Yeah a lot of people have problems
with open minded people but I think that
that is very stupid and ignorant for
someone to hate someone because of how
they are. Well g2g love love!
