I found out that he had a little girl who passed away 1 year ago. I feel mad that I had to find out, from someone else, the little girl's mother.

We were at a bar and she walked in and they were "friendly" and talking. He saw someone else he knew, excused himself and went over. I knew they had a relationship, but I did not know about the kid.

She was being really friendly, until she made a comment like: "Hope he does not do to you what he did to me." I asked what that was and she said "get me pregnant and leave." I said "oh! Well I do not think that will happen, because we would have be having sex for that! I am waiting for marriage until I have intercourse!" She kind of looked shocked and said "does he know that? Because he isn't the type of man to wait." I did not validate that with an answer.

I went over to one of his friends we came with and asked about her and this kid. Apparently they had broken up, and she was sure they were broken up because she was there when it had happened, "I was in the bathroom with her, after it happened she was really upset" she said. She found out that she was pregnant a few weeks later. Apparently he did not want to raise the kid with her, but he paid for thier apartment, and all other expenses and shared custody. She had leukaemia, and he paid all the medical bills until she died. Apparently the mother got really upset when he refused to pay for her apartment after her daughter's death. She was working partime so she could take of the kid.

I feel angry that he did not tell me. When I asked him why he didn't he said it was a painful thing talk about. Which I can understand loosing a child when she was only 6 would be awful. But he still should have told me. It isn't like I was not a part of his life when she died. It is obvious he loved the little girl and did not want to talk about it. When I asked why he was not with the woman he got pregnant. He said "I didn't love her, that is why we broke up" he later said "I don't think that Jamie was fathered by me, but in the end it doesn't matter because I was her daddy." Which you really just have say "awww!" But I said to him " How do I know now that you are not hiding other things, you were obviously hiding it because, I honestly had no idea." We spent a lot of time together, and then I realised we never hung out on Sunday, Monday, and tuesday. Which was when he had custody. Should I let it go? Or should I be afraid he is hiding other things?