If it hurts then you're doing it wrong.

Anal sex is very different from vagina sex and must be done with much more preparation. It is suggested you buy anal plugs of increasing sizes, starting with a "beginners" size. Using lube, practice putting them in and wearing them during vaginal or oral sex; or just whenever! This gets your anal muscles used to stretching out, and prevents pain. Just like you have to stretch and practice before you can do the splits in gymnastics, you need to stretch the muscles of your anus.

Once you can fit an anal plug the side of your boyfriend's penis in, then you are ready for sex! This process can take several weeks. Once you're ready, again, use a LOT of lube. Your body should be well practiced in relaxing properly and allow the penis in with no pain

You can also play with anal beads, which are inserted during foreplay and pulled out during orgasm.

it hurt me horribly even with lube

im just not the anal type of gal i suppose!

Alot Of Preparation For Anal Sex LoL !!!

iVE TRIED LUBE ASWELL

You probably didn't spend three weeks stretching with anal plugs though

Soo Where do i get anal plugs then xx

Any local sex/porn store will have them in a multitude of colors and shapes.

Is it even worth it?! Ah, I've tried, but I don't think my tiny butt can ever handle that thing, even with anal plugs... :/

But My bf Reallly wants to do it !!
i thinik and i dnt wanna let him down >>>

anal plugs do they hurt ??

make sure if you do try it again to start while your on top of him...that way you can control the situation ..its less stressful!!

If you're not comfortable with anal sex, don't do it just because he wants it. Does he let you stick your finger or even one of your toys into his anus? I've never done it and don't want to. There's a lot of bacteria in there. However, if you do decide to do it, don't let him penetrate your vagina immediatly after. I'd recommend using a condom for anal sex and take it off once your done the anal part. Like I said, there's lots of bacteria in your anus and can cause infections in your vagina if you're not careful.

Like wha?

He Naggs for It All The Time I make Excuses Not to !
But What Infections wb

I take back my last comment ...you obviously dont REALLY want to do anal sex ...so dont do it!!! if your boyfriend loves you he will understand ...if not maybe he is not the one for you!!!...its your body!!

thabjs any

nope we jsut tried it out of nowhere!!!!!!!!

You can get urinary tract infections and bacterial infections. The bacteria in your anus is a really bad thing for the vagina. Never go from your anus to your vagina or vulva. Always wash before you touch your vagina. If you do have anal sex do not go from the anus directly to your vagina. Always wash. As long as you are clean nothing bad will happen. Trust me I have never had a problem with infection....

Eiri has a very good pint, you need to practice. It took my hubby and I about 2 months to have full anal sex. We did the stretching thing. We didnt use plugs (although that sounds fun) we just practiced. I found a position that was comfortable for me (trial and error) and it was painless when we had anal sex. It feels great..


But do not do it unless it turns you on. Nothing will feel good if you dont want it. Also you have to do it for you because your muscles in your anus respond to stress. if you arent relaxed and completely ready you will be tense and it will hurt

The smaller ones are really small!!


Think about it this way: what's the biggest poo you've ever taken? If something that wide can come out, then surely something that wide can fit in.

Absolutely not!! You make poop bigger than most small anal plugs The key is to go slow, RELAX, and use lubrication.

when your boyfriend is putting his penis in your ass make sure he goes slow and uses a condom! use lots of lube because it WILL hurt if he doesnt. you have to be relaxed during it and one last important thing is you have to communicate to him if it hurts tell him. if it feels good tell him. some women are wired differently then others some find vaginal sex satisfying and some orgasm better with anal. but if you dont like it dont keep doing it. and make sure he doesnt go from your anal straight to vaginal you can get UTI's like that

You can orgasim from anal? How does that work? or is it just from like, cliteral stimulation at the same time?