So since some of you gave your thoughts on this subject, I was wondering what sort of gap you personally would be okay with and not be okay with? Like if the guy who liked you and who you liked was 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30 + years older than you, at what age difference would you not be okay with, and not start a relationship with him because of it?
I wouldn't date anyone more than 4-5 years older than me. That's just me though, I'm not comfortable around "older" men because of some things that happened when I was younger so I definitely wouldn't be with anyone over 25ish (I'm 21). I'm not saying it's wrong for anyone else to date older than that though obviously.
i guess it depends on the person, my husband is younger then me but when we originally met he lied to me about his age but 3 mths in he told me the truth and i was ok with it, hes mature and stuff, hes a good dad, im 23 and he is 20. I had a bf that was 27 when i was 19 and that wasnt to bad , but i dont think i could personally be with someone in there 30s when i am in my early 20's. but thats just my personal preferance there are 20 something yr olds going out with 40 yr olds and theyre ok with it.
im 25, Rob just turned 29.. i've never dated a guy my age.. they've always been a couple or more years older. I dated a guy that was 22 when i was 15.. he thought i was 18, and i didnt tell him otherwise lol. He was fun. He didnt drink or smoke.. we went to the movies, theme pars, dinner. It was more like hanging out with an older brother lol but yeah..
I cant say what age difference should be.. if its love, its love.. no matter what age.
if its like, *hai, im 14 and my boifrynd is 28 and we have secks and i wunt him to get me preganante i wunt his baybee i wunt to marrie himm!!1!11!* then no.. get a life.