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Q: Bad News :(
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young Girl
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everyone is upset
im still in the whole shock thing but we really dont know WHAT shes going to do. she made almost 30/hr at that company and absolutly NOWHERE in austin is going to hire and pay that much
expecially around the hollidays
what im really scared of is that travis parents might want to move back to houston now. since she could get a job there paying the same amount at her old job. and im scared that the conversation of moving again is going to pop up. then what the heck do I do?
ive got a baby due any day now and i CANT move to houston. ugh. im really stressed out right now and i know i need to stay calm but i dunno what to do guys
i really just need someone to talk to.
on top of that ive been sick all day. ive been feeling like im going to throw up. and i slept in until almost 3 today because im so freaking exausted and i dont know why?! im getting lots of sleep?!!!!
ugh
thanks for listening
sorry about all the b*&^$#ing
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Mommy35
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Mabel
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young Girl
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| Mommy35 wrote: |
| That is awful that she lost her job. I'm sure she and Travis's father are pretty torn up about it. I would be devastated if that happened to me.
You must be stressing. I know I would be if I were in your shoes, and I don't know how to say this without sounding insensitive. That really really isn't my intention, but right now you are focusing on you and how his mom losing her job is going to effect you and I think right now you have to put yourself in their shoes and think about how it is going to effect them. Geez, they just lost a job that payed over $60,000 a year. That is huge! Is there a way that you and Travis can move in with some of your family? |
travis dad is devestated. hes one of those people that stresses really bad.
his mom is alot more calm. i think shes still in shock though. they think this happend for the best and she says thank god she has 7 weeks of pay instead of nothing. she said she is going to find another job, but i dont think she will find one that paid as much as this did.
i dont know. shes got alot of expierience in the medical and gynocology field and then in human recorces so who knows? but its the hollidays and travis dad said people arent really hiring right now.
i know i shouldnt be thinking of myself at all right now. i really shouldnt even worry about anything but its hard.
ive been thinking about the whole moving in with my family thing
theres not really any room for us at my moms house. and my dad has an extra room but i dont really think i want to live with my dad. if it comes down to travis family haveing to move back to houston i dont know what we are going to do. i really dont.
i feel so bad and i dont even know what to say to them about it
so im trying to just stay out of the whole talk about everything.
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young Girl
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| Ingi wrote: |
| ((hugs)) |
thanks ingi
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Mommy35
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young Girl
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thank you so much! i feel better kinda lol
i knwo i shouldnt be freaking out. everything happens for a reason so hopefully things will work out ok. it was just a shock and really not expected. expecially so close to christmas time i dont know why people do that:9 thats really sad and i feel so bad for everyone who they laid off today that DOESNT even get pay at all. so i am grateful for that.
and yeah she is one of those people that holds together really well. im going to call my mom and talk to her tomorrow and let her know whats going on. and im going to tell her everything. i think that will make me feel better
i knwo i shouldnt be freaking out. everything happens for a reason so hopefully things will work out ok. it was just a shock and really not expected. expecially so close to christmas time
i dont know why people do that:9 thats really sad and i feel so bad for everyone who they laid off today that DOESNT even get pay at all. so i am grateful for that.
and yeah she is one of those people that holds together really well. im going to call my mom and talk to her tomorrow and let her know whats going on. and im going to tell her everything. i think that will make me feel better
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kaiteo
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number game
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sick_mama17
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rosejackson
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Emma21
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Emma21
Experienced User
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young Girl
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| Emma21 wrote: |
| Can she get unemployement for the time being? |
im not too sure? does unemployment depend on the other persons salary at all? like would travis dads salary affect her getting that?
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young Girl
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| sick_mama17 wrote: |
| That must be hard. Wonder what your mum will say if travis parents decide to move to houston. |
well my mom would let us move in hands down. i know she would. theres not much space there thats the only problem. and i dont know how travis would even react to that. i dont know. im trying to not think about the whole houston thing.
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Emma21
Experienced User
| the_girlfriend wrote: | ||
im not too sure? does unemployment depend on the other persons salary at all? like would travis dads salary affect her getting that? |
i dont know how it works in the US but here everyone whiom has worked for 610 hours is allowed to recived unemplyment regardless of the amount you make.
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oh_mommy
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young Girl
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| Emma21 wrote: | ||||
i dont know how it works in the US but here everyone whiom has worked for 610 hours is allowed to recived unemplyment regardless of the amount you make. |
ioll ask her about it and bring it up.
i know shes worked for that company since last september. and before then she worked at a gyno office. shes thinking about going back into the medical field. we dont really know yet.
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The Mrs
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