hmm
he sounds extremely unstable right now
men do wierd things
dont make any commitments right now though
expecially not marriage because hes acting wierd. its normal
hes probably scared too

Sounds like a typical male to me... imature, insecure, unsure of responsibilities, goals and the future. hes prolly afraid of losing his freedom, fear of not being able to afford it, fear it will slow or ruin his golas/plans in life, etc. He needs to man up, if hes going to use his penis for sexual pleasure then he needs to own up to the responsibilities of what a penis can create!!! Just cuz the baby is small now dosnt mean its not alive and dosnt have a soul, the baby just cant speak for itself so please dontmurder it with abortion (not saying u would) If he leaves you, its his loss and you can make it, it just will be a lot harder. idk if you work or what but id start getting on state funding if i were you asap. get all the help you need, please do it for your baby! try to focus on babyonly and yourself, if the bf comes around and helps thats great but if not then just focus on you and baby. yes, thats easier said then done when you feel so lonely and sad and full of every emotion possible due to bouncing hormones but try your best. i hope all works out and he comes around and grows up.

if she would like to abort in the event that he left her thats her right and her choice and she has the right to do so
please stop trying to make these girls feel bad
they didnt ask for a guilt trip they asked for advice!

Definitely save the baby, please. don't you think the child inside of you has a chance?? you got one. Contact advicenaid or birthright and they can help you with during and after a pregnancy, check out their webiste,
I'am definitely willing to help you,
please don't consider abortion
Preciouschild

tbis si not the abortion forum where yiou can try and make people feel bad about thier decitions

to the OP if you feel that abortion is the right choice for you then abort away. this is YOUR decition

Heh, baby thread and all the pro life kiddos come out. Anywho, coming from a male, It is best if you just sit down and talk about your goals. From your description he sounds like he feels like he is missing out on life and his morals and goals are falling apart before him.

He cant run forever.

am almost 3 months pregnant (&scared) My boyfriend of two years tried to leave me today. He said he just did not love me and asked me to get an abortion. I was shocked! we have known I am pregnant for awhile and he has been (or at least faked) being really happy! ... Then after a couple of hours he gave me a ring and asked me to marry him, he said he was just scared. But then he said he is not getting married till he knows for sure (so why propose?)This being a life chainging situation for the both of us. I just wish I had someone there who I knew I could count on... Instead of someone that has cold feet about me and our baby


-Okay for one she said she was shocked that he told her to get an abortion and she said our baby... so i don't think shes getting an abortion. the girl asked what should she do not should she have an abortion or not. I'm going through the same promblem my bf left me when i was two months pregnant. i am five months pregnant now and i'm getting stronger everyday. the love that you get for your child will change everything.

I honestly understand how you feel, the same thing has happend to me. Im now 7months pregant but when I was 3 months me and my boyfriend of 2 years spilt up. All I can say is be strong and just let him do what he is going to do and realize that its Momma's baby and daddy's maybe! And just love your child