Boyfriend Leaving During Pregnancy Posted: 11-26-07 20:10pm
I am almost 3 months pregnant
(&scared) My boyfriend of two years
tried to leave me today. He said he just
did not love me and asked me to get an
abortion. I was shocked! we have known I
am pregnant for awhile and he has been (or
at least faked) being really happy! ...
Then after a couple of hours he gave me a
ring and asked me to marry him, he said he
was just scared. But then he said he is
not getting married till he knows for sure
(so why propose?)This being a life
chainging situation for the both of us. I
just wish I had someone there who I knew I
could count on... Instead of someone that
has cold feet about me and our baby
This is our first kid, and he is only 20
turning 21 in April. What is wrong with
him?
I dont know what I'm going to do if he
leaves me
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-27-07 01:34am
hmm
he sounds extremely unstable right now
men do wierd things
dont make any commitments right now
though
expecially not marriage because hes acting
wierd. its normal
hes probably scared too
Re: Boyfriend Leaving During Pregnancy Posted: 11-27-07 01:36am
Ccerda
wrote:
I am almost 3 months
pregnant (&scared) My boyfriend of two
years tried to leave me today. He said he
just did not love me and asked me to get
an abortion. I was shocked! we have known
I am pregnant for awhile and he has been
(or at least faked) being really happy!
... Then after a couple of hours he gave
me a ring and asked me to marry him, he
said he was just scared. But then he said
he is not getting married till he knows
for sure (so why propose?)This being a
life chainging situation for the both of
us. I just wish I had someone there who I
knew I could count on... Instead of
someone that has cold feet about me and
our baby
This is our first kid, and he is only 20
turning 21 in April. What is wrong with
him?
I dont know what I'm going to do if he
leaves me
Sounds like a typical male to me...
imature, insecure, unsure of
responsibilities, goals and the future.
hes prolly afraid of losing his freedom,
fear of not being able to afford it, fear
it will slow or ruin his golas/plans in
life, etc. He needs to man up, if hes
going to use his penis for sexual pleasure
then he needs to own up to the
responsibilities of what a penis can
create!!! Just cuz the baby is small now
dosnt mean its not alive and dosnt have a
soul, the baby just cant speak for itself
so please dontmurder it with abortion (not
saying u would) If he leaves you, its his
loss and you can make it, it just will be
a lot harder. idk if you work or what but
id start getting on state funding if i
were you asap. get all the help you need,
please do it for your baby! try to focus
on babyonly and yourself, if the bf comes
around and helps thats great but if not
then just focus on you and baby. yes,
thats easier said then done when you feel
so lonely and sad and full of every
emotion possible due to bouncing hormones
but try your best. i hope all works out
and he comes around and grows up.
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Re: Boyfriend Leaving During Pregnancy Posted: 11-27-07 01:38am
newmommy07
wrote:
Ccerda
wrote:
I am almost 3 months
pregnant (&scared) My boyfriend of two
years tried to leave me today. He said he
just did not love me and asked me to get
an abortion. I was shocked! we have known
I am pregnant for awhile and he has been
(or at least faked) being really happy!
... Then after a couple of hours he gave
me a ring and asked me to marry him, he
said he was just scared. But then he said
he is not getting married till he knows
for sure (so why propose?)This being a
life chainging situation for the both of
us. I just wish I had someone there who I
knew I could count on... Instead of
someone that has cold feet about me and
our baby
This is our first kid, and he is only 20
turning 21 in April. What is wrong with
him?
I dont know what I'm going to do if he
leaves me
Sounds like a typical male to me...
imature, insecure, unsure of
responsibilities, goals and the future.
hes prolly afraid of losing his freedom,
fear of not being able to afford it, fear
it will slow or ruin his golas/plans in
life, etc. He needs to man up, if hes
going to use his penis for sexual pleasure
then he needs to own up to the
responsibilities of what a penis can
create!!! Just cuz the baby is small now
dosnt mean its not alive and dosnt have a
soul, the baby just cant speak for itself
so please dontmurder it with abortion (not
saying u would) If he leaves you, its his
loss and you can make it, it just will be
a lot harder. idk if you work or what but
id start getting on state funding if i
were you asap. get all the help you need,
please do it for your baby! try to focus
on babyonly and yourself, if the bf comes
around and helps thats great but if not
then just focus on you and baby. yes,
thats easier said then done when you feel
so lonely and sad and full of every
emotion possible due to bouncing hormones
but try your best. i hope all works out
and he comes around and grows
up.
if she would like to abort in the event
that he left her thats her right and her
choice and she has the right to do so
please stop trying to make these girls
feel bad
they didnt ask for a guilt trip they asked
for advice!
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Save the Baby Posted: 12-04-07 22:18pm
Definitely save the baby, please. don't
you think the child inside of you has a
chance?? you got one. Contact advicenaid
or birthright and they can help you with
during and after a pregnancy, check out
their webiste,
I'am definitely willing to help you,
please don't consider abortion
Preciouschild
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Re: Save the Baby Posted: 12-05-07 00:05am
preciouschild
wrote:
Definitely save the baby,
please. don't you think the child inside
of you has a chance?? you got one.
Contact advicenaid or birthright and they
can help you with during and after a
pregnancy, check out their webiste,
I'am definitely willing to help you,
please don't consider abortion
Preciouschild
tbis si not the abortion forum where yiou
can try and make people feel bad about
thier decitions
to the OP if you feel that abortion is the
right choice for you then abort away. this
is YOUR decition
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Doom
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Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Posts: 15
Posted: 12-05-07 00:35am
Heh, baby thread and all the pro life
kiddos come out. Anywho, coming from a
male, It is best if you just sit down and
talk about your goals. From your
description he sounds like he feels like
he is missing out on life and his morals
and goals are falling apart before him.
