I know how you feel, I was a virgin when i met my current bf, and oral sex seemed awkward and gross to me. If he cares, he will be patient with you and wait until you are ready to try, b/c uncomfortable oral is not good oral. You won't be into it and it will be harder for him to get into it.

You have to start with a handjob first to work your way up to oral. Develop a "love" for the penis. lol or you will always think it's disgusting. Don't think too hard about, "oh, I'm touching his penis" but rather focusing on giving him pleasure and turning him on. You shouldn't be touching it b/c u think you should. It should be about expressing intimate love.

If you make yourselves really horny, it will be easier b/c you'll practically be in the mood to try anything. :p

When you finally decide to try oral, just treat it like a lollipop and think of how you like to be pleasured. and make sure he has showered...lol And pick up a Cosmo for other oral tips, they have a lot of advice

I agree with everything that lightweight says.

Also, if you can't seem to figure it out, maybe watching a porn or two will help you become more comfortable with it and see some techniques. However, not all guys like the same thing, so after you try it once or twice try asking him what feels good to him, and what he likes and doesn't like as much about it.

Once you build up the courage for oral, here are a few tips:

1. Don't deep-throat. Don't even try. Why gag for no reason? Men get stimulation from envelopment and your mouth on the head of their penis. Use your hands to encompass the rest of his shaft and focus your sucking power on the head!

2. Use LOTS of spit. Oral is not a clean pretty act; it's rather messy and slimy.

3. Pay attention to HIM. Try all sorts of things; suck harder, use more spit, flick your tongue, switch to hands. A newbie at oral who actually pays attention to the guy will actually give a better blow job than a girl who thinks she knows what she's doing and ignores the man's responses!

4. Swallow. Just a personal thing; obviously if it's just disgusting tasting then spit. However, I've swallowed every single time I've ever given oral, even the first time.

5. Punch him in his privates if he dares to try and force your head down or tries to force you to deep throat! [edit] Or better yet, BITE him!

6. On the subject of biting, some guys do actually like a bit of teeth. Ask, or hopefully, he'll tell you.

Thanks for the replies! Eiri yours made me laugh. You were all very helpful.