Problems With Foreskin And Repeted Tearing Posted: 11-26-07 07:08am
Several months ago my fiancee and I were
having sex on the spur of the moment
during her period and I forget to let her
take her tampon out. As a result I ripped
my foreskin (or more accurately my
frenelum or whatever the piece of skin
that attaches the foreskin to the glans is
called) a good 3/8 or so of an inch. Since
then almost everytime we have sex the now
exposed skin directly beneath the "v" on
the glans tears a little bit. There is
considerable pain when first having
intercourse but the pain goes away fairly
quickly until after we're finished, then
cleaning my penis or retracting the
foreskin becomes very painful until the
new tear heals. This is very difficult for
both of us to deal with as she feels shes
tearing me to pieces. Two other things
that may or may not be relavent; Her
vagina has a curve to it and is not your
typical straight shot. I only seem to tear
when having intercourse with her from
behind.
I don't want to have to get circumsized
and don't even know if that is an option
at this point any way. What can I do to
keep this from happening? Extra
lubrication? I'm at loss as to what to do.
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marvel
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Posted: 11-26-07 13:12pm
Don't have sex until it heals properly.
This might take awhile, but it'll be worth
it once it heals... there's less of a
chance you'll keep tearing it. I doubt
circumcision is in order.
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qwirkedqwerty
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Joined: 26 Nov 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 11-26-07 21:21pm
how long will it take to fully heal?
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ripage 2
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Joined: 27 Nov 2007 Posts: 1
Posted: 11-27-07 07:09am
hey dont mean to but in but i ripped mine
about two months ago, went to the doctors,
and he said that it would heal on its own.
I am 18 and uncircumcised btw. However it
ripped again and is taking its time to
heal, but its difficult not to have sex
when its almost healed coz my girlfriend
has needs lol. Neways if i were you go to
your Gp like i did and they will tell u
whether you need this special painless
operation. Its really nt a big problem as
a couple of my mates have suffered from
it. Mine goes tighter whilst having sex
from behind, my best advice, is let it
heal, then try extra lubrication, even
wear a condom, if you dont normally, but
put it on with your forskin up, this will
be a lot nicer for you, as you can relax,
(BTW it will come down whilst you are
having sex, but gentler and with less
preassure).
