Several months ago my fiancee and I were having sex on the spur of the moment during her period and I forget to let her take her tampon out. As a result I ripped my foreskin (or more accurately my frenelum or whatever the piece of skin that attaches the foreskin to the glans is called) a good 3/8 or so of an inch. Since then almost everytime we have sex the now exposed skin directly beneath the "v" on the glans tears a little bit. There is considerable pain when first having intercourse but the pain goes away fairly quickly until after we're finished, then cleaning my penis or retracting the foreskin becomes very painful until the new tear heals. This is very difficult for both of us to deal with as she feels shes tearing me to pieces. Two other things that may or may not be relavent; Her vagina has a curve to it and is not your typical straight shot. I only seem to tear when having intercourse with her from behind.

I don't want to have to get circumsized and don't even know if that is an option at this point any way. What can I do to keep this from happening? Extra lubrication? I'm at loss as to what to do.