I think you are doing the right thing, not only for yourself but for Ariyana Renee. Gorgeous name, btw!

I had an abortion in college and felt great relief after. Now I have a beautiful little girl.

thanx, its a relief reading that.

If an abortion is truly what you want, then I think you are making the right decision for you.

Good luck, I wish you and your daughter all the best.


*just a heads up, there are some girls in this forum that freak out over any abortion comments. You may want to move this over to teh abortion support forum so.

Yes, I'd definitely suggest a Mod on this forum moves this topic to the Medical Abortion forum where she'll get unbiased support!

oh i didnt know there was an abortion support forum, thanks .....

yes it will be much better there and you wont have people judge you there

Good luck and I hope all works out well with you

dejanee07, do what is right for you. I had an abortion and I do not regret it one bit. It was the best decision for me.

Please let us know how you are doing.

Dejanee-

For some women the abortion decision is easy, because they already had their mind made up before they ever became pregnant.

For women like you, this is something you have never expected, perhaps your pill failed, a condom broke, maybe you do not even know why...

Abortion can be the RIGHT decision even if it is a hard one to make, each woman is unique, and you are no less special in your own considerations and thoughts.


I DO recommend finding a clinic that will either put you to sleep, or get IV SEDATION, it will make the abortion virtually painless and anxiety free.

I have had an abortion, no regrets

this is not a question you can ask someone else like birch said d what is best for you.
However how would you feel is you were to never had got to meet your beautiful daughter you have now? you sound like you are in love with her, do you really not want to get a chance to meet this child?

I understand with school and being 17 with big dreams it will be hard, however there are many couples out there waiting and dreaming of adopting a baby. Why not give this baby the same gift of love as Ariyana has from you?

Some woman have no regrets (as posted) and others do. This decision has to come from deep inside you. Opps I now see that your apt was for 12-5. Hope you are doing well and are ok.