It is really a normal growth for kids, I started masturbating at the age of 6, I could not really forget it when I was in grade 1, I was still 6 years old that time, what I did was that everytime I got a hard-on I usually touch the genital of my girl classmate inside the classroom using my fingers,(without my classmates and our teacher noticing us of course!) then I also use a pencil to touch her organ with the eraser tip.....I was so curios that I don't know what I was doing......
I;m glad i stumbled on this site. Actually in Mauritius , where i live , it is all very natural for moms to do massage on our kids , and i mean full body massage . my elder son is 13 and the younger one is 8 . almost everytime they get a hard-on and since about a year or so , I have been encouraging my elder son , to go to the shower after his massage and to masturbate , if he wants . I talked to a lot of my friends and it very well seems that it's the norm for every mom to encourage their sons to masturbate as from the age of 12 . we are a very open family . at home i'm mostly in underwear and we are even planning a nudist holiday for next year . i'm 33 and i still enjoy masturbation and i always wanted my kids to enjoy it too . there is nothing wrong in it . (sheila from Mauritius) .
You had him circumsised??? How did your doctor confuse masturbation with a uti??? What does being skinny have to do with it??? You need to speak to a doctor in your own language and learn about the human body. Disgracefull
One day in the car, my little Nephew Josh ask me out of the blue if masturbation can make you Blind and is it bad to do it. I Smiled and looked right at him looking for a big smile on his little face because he can be quite the little joker sometimes, But I could see he was serious. Looking back down the road I Sed no joshy masturbation will not make you go blind, It,s as normal eating, breathing, or sleeping, and there is nothing wrong with it. People all over the world do it every day. We turned in to the parking lot of the local Pizza place, and after parking the car I turned and looked at him and sed, you know josh any time you wont to talk about anything, just ask ok, he smiled and sed OK. I sed lets get something to eat I,m hungry. Little did Josh know in side was the family and tons of kids waiting, for us. It was Josh,s surprise birthday party He turned 11 years old Today.
im thirteen and i usually masturbate 3-4 times a day...i know ur supposed to ask ur parents anout masturbation or theyre supposed to talk about it with u acept niether of my parents even noticed that my voice is cracking...and im unsure if i should bring masturbation up
I am now 14 I started masterbating when I was a little younger than eleven be fore I turned 11 I would have a big sensation but only a little bit would leak out ... Now it never stops I have never cummed whitout masterbation ... I remember when I was ten I couldnever keep my hands out of my pants I would always be playing with my lttle penis and balls but now they are huge!! If anyone wants to share stories write me.
ummm-how do you know he is masturbating-? He"s like 8? How about minding your own business and give him the privacy he deserves- Like knock on the door before you enter-your going to give him a huge complex-
I am constantly surprised how some moms get so involved in their sons sexual development-would you be as comfortable if a Dad had the same level of interest in his daughter? of course not. So knock it off for petes sake!
Of course it's normal. (It's just like having intercourse with a pillow or whatever instead of a person.) Better not to do it on a floor or other hard object. It's just as much 'masturbation' as the hand method. Whatever works for you is good as long as it feels good. (When it stops feeling good you should stop doing it. That's your body telling you to give it a rest and come back for more tomorrow.)
to the Mom in Mauritius:
I am researching your answer, perhaps what you say is true, in Mauritius. I can assure you if you come to a US Territory or the USA you would be arrested for child endangerment, child molesting, contributing to the delinquency of a minor etc.Imagine a Dad massing his daughter, Giving her a full body massage as you put it and teaching her to masturbate I would bet you have a different answer for that. I cannot fathom a society where the parents take such liberties of their children. Totally mnd blowing.
Thanks for the info all, especially from the Dad- I am a single mother, and although I would NEVER tell my 9 year old that it is wrong to masturbate, I was concerned because I just had no idea it started so YOUNG, lol! I guess I am just having a hard time reconciling my little boy with the man he is becoming!
I was made aware of what was happening because another parent told me that my son had masturbated in front of his child, apparently showing off what his "penis could do". I was mortified, obviously, and discovered that it is a fine line when you are telling your son that it is not a bad thing to do, yet not to ever, ever do it in front of someone, children, or in public. Children don't understand the issue of something being "taboo". Anyway, thanks everyone!
look im no expert and im 13. the first time i masturbated was when i was 11. usually a kid should masturbate between the ages of 12-16. but i started early. today i masturbate and...well i dont strike gold. look ur ma'am the thing with your son is hes trying to find out the secrets of his body inside and out. if you do catch him masturbating just leave him be. let him see what his body can do. but when he reaches 11 tell him its time to stop doing that. it could or might lead to ejaculating in his pants or erectile disfunctions that last a good 10 minutes
Sorry but it's ridiculous to tell someone to stop at 11. That's just when his body is shifting into high gear. Many teens and tweens masturbate every day or several times a day without doing themselves any harm.
It's easy to avoid squirting in his pants: just take them down. (If he isn't in a place private enough for that then he should find a place that is.) As for erectile disfunctions, I never met or heard of anyone who experienced that because of excessive masturbation.
Almost all boys (and many girls) are 'addicted' to masturbation. It's like being 'addicted' to food. Of course if you eat too much food you will get fat and if you masturbate too much (or too fast or too dry) you might get sore. Let your body be your guide. It knows what it needs. If you have to tell your mother anything just tell her that. But why embarrass her and yourself if she doesn't insist on knowing your intimate activities?
Hi, I actually started masturbating this year, I am 14 I started a little while after most kids. I don't do it often. Just every now and again. It is normal for a boy to masturbate between 10-14 years of age. And to all mothers out there! Plz leave us boys alone in peace while we explore our bodies and find all the secrets.
@Adas, hey if you think you might be getting addicted to masturbating, I would suggest you find something else do to such as push bike riding, going for a walk, hanging out with friends, play video games, there are many different things you can do. Just find something that you like doing (excluding masturbating). I am not telling you that you are doing a bad thing, I am just telling you that if you might be getting addicted, you should try to do something else. Say if you masturbate 2-4 times a day, maybe you could try doing it 2-3 and then later go down to 1-2 and slowly you will be resisting the urge to masturbate. I hope this helps you!
It's a bit unusual but certainly not abnormal. Every body is different; what's too much for one boy may not be enough for another. Your 'normal frequency' seems to be about twice a day so a couple of days' abstinence may occasion a backup that needs (or at least wants) to be discharged. No problem there as long as you have a private place to work off the backload. Six times is ok. If you had said twelve or fourteen then you might want to back off a bit
Your testicles must move up to the base of the penis in order for the male to ejaculate. That is why some individuals and/or couples will gently push the testicles down so intercourse/masturbation will last longer.
It's interesting to know that societies which allow a more liberal approach to sexuality with both adults and children have far less issues of molestation than the United States. People of U.S., you need to step back and really look around at what's going on. Reading all these notes I didn't see one reply that a kid or adult was sexually abused......maybe hiding and shunning normal sexual activity should be looked at in your wonderfull USA..lol..wow, what a country..lol.