last night my boyfriend said that he feels like he is an outsider viewing his life from a 3rd person point of view. this really scared me. he then kissed me, pulled away, and said, "see that didn't even feel right.. it felt like i wasn't even doing it."

this really scares me. he is bipolar & is really struggling with it right now. he said he's getting really bad. i have not heard from him in three days up until last night. he said he hasn't been able to make an effort to do ANYTHING at all.. except go to work.

i feel so helpless. he really needs to get some help, before it progresses even more. i'm so scared for him, and also for me and him.

he tells me he doesn't care about anything. nothing is important to him. he lost his car keys last night, and he hasn't even made an effort to find them, he says he really doesn't care.

i don't know what to do