mastrubating when bored - gay b/c of anal pleasure ? Posted: 11-22-07 23:03pm
hey everyone. i'v been mastrubating for
about 4 years now and lately i'v been
getting bored of just jacking off. so i
tried sticking something up my ass to see
how it felt and now i keep doing it. it
makes me cum faster and it gives me a
different type of pleasure. i'v always
been into girls and im just not sure if im
turning gay or not. i need help!!
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marvel
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Posted: 11-23-07 09:42am
There is this huge stigma in society that
says that if a guy likes having his butt
stimulated, he's gay. No no no! Not
true!!! There are tons of straight guys
who love it.
Do you fantacize about men? Do you want to
be with a man sexually? If not, you're not
gay... easy as that... it has nothing to
do with whether or not you like anal
stimulation!
Since when is going what you like sexually
considered gay? (Just a question in
general)
Keep doing whatever feels good... there's
absolutely nothing wrong with it and it
won't change your sexuality!
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dave01
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Posted: 11-27-07 21:32pm
The only concern is the possibility of
stretching your rectum over time. There
is such a thing as a loose ass (as well as
a tight ass). But this happens only with
long-term stretching of the tissue. For
comparison, it is like what some cultures
do to strecth the ear lobes.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-27-07 21:55pm
dave01
wrote:
The only concern is the
possibility of stretching your rectum over
time. There is such a thing as a loose
ass (as well as a tight ass). But this
happens only with long-term stretching of
the tissue. For comparison, it is like
what some cultures do to strecth the ear
lobes.
Yes, say if you're sticking something the
size of a penis or larger up there
multiple times a day every day for years.
The sphincter is extremely strong and
flexible.
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rooted
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Posted: 11-29-07 16:23pm
Have you ever had a girl try to stick her
finger up the anus during sex? Ive heard
some guys really like it.
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scottmutcher
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Joined: 17 Mar 2008 Posts: 1
Posted: 03-17-08 15:16pm
NO, this doesn't mean you're gay! I've
been happily married to a woman (and 100
percent monogamous) for 20 years, yet I
crave backdoor attention. In fact, I love
getting pounded REALLY hard by a dildo or
other objects. But gay? No way! No penis
for me -- other than my own!
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Marque
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Re: mastrubating when bored - gay b/c of anal pleasure ? Posted: 04-05-08 11:26am
jackking
wrote:
lately i'v been getting
bored of just jacking off. so i tried
sticking something up my ass to see how it
felt
Yeah. I did the same thing. I just got
bored in the tub one day and I stuck my
finger up there. It felt pretty good. I
tried to have an orgasm that way, I keep
hearing it's possible, but it didn't
happen. And no, I'm certainly not gay.
