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jackking

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mastrubating when bored - gay b/c of anal pleasure ?
Posted: 11-22-07 23:03pm

hey everyone. i'v been mastrubating for about 4 years now and lately i'v been getting bored of just jacking off. so i tried sticking something up my ass to see how it felt and now i keep doing it. it makes me cum faster and it gives me a different type of pleasure. i'v always been into girls and im just not sure if im turning gay or not. i need help!! Embarassed
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marvel

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Posted: 11-23-07 09:42am

There is this huge stigma in society that says that if a guy likes having his butt stimulated, he's gay. No no no! Not true!!! There are tons of straight guys who love it.

Do you fantacize about men? Do you want to be with a man sexually? If not, you're not gay... easy as that... it has nothing to do with whether or not you like anal stimulation!

Since when is going what you like sexually considered gay? (Just a question in general)

Keep doing whatever feels good... there's absolutely nothing wrong with it and it won't change your sexuality!
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dave01

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Posted: 11-27-07 21:32pm

The only concern is the possibility of stretching your rectum over time. There is such a thing as a loose ass (as well as a tight ass). But this happens only with long-term stretching of the tissue. For comparison, it is like what some cultures do to strecth the ear lobes.
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Posted: 11-27-07 21:55pm

dave01 wrote:
The only concern is the possibility of stretching your rectum over time. There is such a thing as a loose ass (as well as a tight ass). But this happens only with long-term stretching of the tissue. For comparison, it is like what some cultures do to strecth the ear lobes.


Yes, say if you're sticking something the size of a penis or larger up there multiple times a day every day for years. The sphincter is extremely strong and flexible.
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Posted: 11-29-07 16:23pm

Have you ever had a girl try to stick her finger up the anus during sex? Ive heard some guys really like it.
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scottmutcher

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Posted: 03-17-08 15:16pm

NO, this doesn't mean you're gay! I've been happily married to a woman (and 100 percent monogamous) for 20 years, yet I crave backdoor attention. In fact, I love getting pounded REALLY hard by a dildo or other objects. But gay? No way! No penis for me -- other than my own! Smile
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Marque

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Re: mastrubating when bored - gay b/c of anal pleasure ?
Posted: 04-05-08 11:26am

jackking wrote:
lately i'v been getting bored of just jacking off. so i tried sticking something up my ass to see how it felt


Yeah. I did the same thing. I just got bored in the tub one day and I stuck my finger up there. It felt pretty good. I tried to have an orgasm that way, I keep hearing it's possible, but it didn't happen. And no, I'm certainly not gay.
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