I cant reach orgasm any other way besides humping pillows/etc
i do a lot, and im just wondering, i feel like i cant reach orgasm any other way besides humping pillows propped up and stuff i have a boyfriend and i feel the good similation and stuff, but the feeling from the pillow and orgasming is amazing, and i know ive cummed becasue of all the wetness after, with my boyfriend, its different we can go forever and ever and i dont feel the big sensation, i kind of do....i not sure if i know how to orgasm any other way and i dont know what to do, so if anyone has any advice HELP!
ok so this made me laugh soooo hard as I started at a very early age and im 22 now and STILL do it daily. Sex doesnt do it for me and i can never orgasm while hes in me. I will usually do it 2-3 times a day.. my boyfirned finds it very sexy though. I get ontop of him during sex and just rub my vagina on his penis in the same motion i would if that was my pillow.. its not as good as the pillow but it gets me off!
I never knew soo many girls had the same problem as me...
I can ALWAYS have an orgasm, the pillow way!
But it upsets me that I can't with my boyfriend
No matter how hard I try! I just cant get that steady stimulation as I do with a pillow. If anyone else has this problem and wants to chat OR KNOWS A WAY I CAN ORGASM WITH MY BOYFRIEND WITHOUT A PILLOW... PLEASE WRITE ME!
does anyone know how to stop doing this? i feel like im addicted to it and i dont know how to stop. i feel horrible that i do it. i know u guys like it but it makes me feel like a bad person. i feel like i cant get close to anyone. i just want to stop and forget about it but i dont know how. it helps tho to know that others do it too. that im not alone. can anyone give me some advice on how to stop?
I started masturbating by laying on top of my stuffed animals and humping them as a kid... That led to me just humping pillows, and then just laying on my stomach on the bed was all I needed to orgasm. However, I have NEVER had a successful orgasm from using my hands, vibrators, sex, or oral sex... I keep trying, and I usually end up bored or frustrated.
It made having sex a lot less fun, so I eventually told my boyfriend about my masturbation secret. It was really embarrassing, because I thought that maybe I was just a freak or something, but he let me know that he was okay with me masturbating like that and he encouraged me to do it. Now when we have sex, after he's finished, I usually roll on top of him and hump his leg, so we can both get off! He loves it, and he's just turned on that he can help me have an orgasm.
I'd still like to be able to orgasm with my hands, but I have a good and satisfying sex life anyway.
I hump my pillows and it gives me a great orgasm. I feel guilty about it and I dont know why. Im single and I cant get a good orgasm from vibrators. I dont feel as guilty now that I know other ppl do it. Thx so much. Any1 no how to get a good orgasm w/o pillows?
i love humping pillows. im very young lets just say that. and yes u must b doing something wrong because its very easy to reach an orgasm i find if u think of people having se it helps. i moan while i do it lol. also wet ur pillow its soooo nice. if my rents ever caught me i would b dead
Using a pillow something that I have recently discovered that made me achieve super intense orgasms like I had never experienced before.
I was really nervous to tell my partner about this, and decided to first do some research when I found this forum. I saw many people posted replies to this thread saying that they have ONLY achieved orgasms through this pillow method and were frustrated because they wanted to be able to do this with their boyfriend/husband. This was my exact issue and I had a very difficult time finding answers (it seems so taboo for women to speak about their masturbating habits).
The Coital Alignment Technique, however I would personally recommend doing it with the woman on top. This does the EXACT same thing that you've been feeling with a pillow.
To those women who have been posting comments about this problem, I would highly recommend talking to your man about it. Even if you're too embarrassed to say you've only been having orgasms with your pillow, at least bring up this "new technique" you've learned about.
i started humping things at a very early age about 4 or 5.for those who are able to orgasm from a pillow but seem to have trouble while having sex with a partner the best way i have learned is to get on top and just have them slighty lift their pelvic area up it allows your clit to rub on them providing the clitoral stimuliation that you get when humping something..also being able to orgasm is in your mind, the best way to learn to orgasm is practice..the same way a guy might slow down masturbation so they last longer in bed..while you are masturbating store the way you feel when you are about to achieve an orgasm..whenever you are having intercourse think about humping a pillow or other object and how you feel when you are doing it.this helps train your mind to WANT to orgasm..believe me i was sexually active since i was 14..now 20 i hadnt achieved an orgasm during intercourse until i was about 17...just ask your partner to lift his torso while your on top and think about it..train your mind and body to do it.
The best thing to do if you think your
doing it wrong is to buy a vibrator-
When I was a kid I used to use my
vibrating toothbrush with the plastic cap over it.
Allot of women get close and over excited
then start doing something else, and then loose it.
Just use repetition, it gets better the longer its there.
Im only 15 and I pillow hump too! But not always, i usually get something long and smooth to stimulate my clit and just keep rubbing till i reach orgasm, it feels pretty darn good but sometimes that method dont work so i just use the pillow, not too bad
BUT i have an issue, hope someone could help.
i seem NOT to find my actual clit. i know where it should be and everything but its not there. i have the rest whats needed but i cant find my clit! its so weird. sometimes when im near my orgasm, i tend to go round the are where it should be, and i can feel something hard there and i can get the orgasm quicker, but as i said, it looks nothing like all those pictures of a normal vagine ive seen, and its sort of bugging me for over two years now, can anyone tell me what the hell is this ? i mean , i aint going to go to the doctor about this issue, seriously, my mum would ask me so many questions. Is it just that im still developing, or something??
im really turned on with pillows. Especially the dirty soiled soft torn pillows. looking at those stuff coming out of the pillows make me want to hump it all the way. i love to see it wet with cum. I usually start with smelling it, then biting its corners, hugging rolling it, squeezing it, bite it. lick it. as it it is alive.
Dear Evita,it is not difficult to find your clit.Please use a hand mirror and look at where the labia majora(outer lips) and labia minora)inner lips meet together at the top.Clit has a hood (like man's penis has got prepuce or foreskin) and you can pull it back and it will reveal the glans of your clit. Hope this helps you. Every good wish. Jyothimaria
My ex G/f use to get off using a pillow. i was her first b/f and asked her how she got off and she told me that. so whenever we did it if she didnt reach climax i would lay on my stomach and she would place a towel or pillow on the back of my thigh right underneath my a** and grind on me till she came. I actually loved it feeling her grind down on me and feeling me get harder pressed against the bed. after awhile we started placing the pillow/towel on her clit while she rode me and climax with me inside her. after a few times like that she climaxed whenever we did it and was able to relax with me.i miss the feeling of her grinding down on me though. by the way she went lesbian.
I'm a 13 year old boy and I've been pillow humping since I was three... I am an orgasm addict.. I always feel unsatisfied if I don't orgasm at least five times a day... My boyfriend finds it cute though lol. Is there something wrong with me?
=]] WOW!! yey! this puts my mind at ease! i thought i was the only one!! wow!!!! I love it, i always hump my pillows..sometime when my boyfriend wants a hand job, i'll lay naked on his thigh and hump it, i get so wet! i think he's weirded out by it, but it gets me soo wet and i shake and tremble with orgasm