wow i thought i was wierd too lol...i dnt do as much as i use to do it when i was younger and now that my boyfriend is starting to finger me and not giving me orgasms im starting to do it more....i feel more comfortable doin it now but i still wouldnt tell my boyfriend!!!

i also hump i hump every thing i thhought that doing that made me a lesbian becauei didnt think any one else did it but it feels so good i do it every day i fantasize about girs and i like watching porn but im totally boy crazy why do i fantasize about girls then im so confsed

I'm Indonesian 32 years old woman and always humping my pillow when I masturbating since age 17...... very normal thing..

I've herd about fingering yourself and was tolled the finger is like a mans dingdong I did'nt know if it was the same as masterbating and having an orgasm So I tryd it, and it hurt Is it normal(Ima virgin) so I stick wit

I'm not the only one! Yay! I'm 23 and have been going after bunched up sheets since I was about...10 maybe? Never been one for pillows though, although I'm sure it's just as nice!

chicha554 - In regards to getting the same feeling from your boyfriend, have you tried letting him use his hands/fingers while you use your pillow? I know I have done this with my boyfriend and it's turned out to be a fantastic time. I guess it also depends on how open he is and how comfortable you feel with revealing this way of "going about things" with your pillow, so to speak.

I still think it's worth a try. Once I got over the initial embarrassment of letting him watch, I'm so glad I was honest about the way I did things.

I have been humping pillows, stuffed animals, friends haha, exercise balls, beds, couches, etc since around age 4 or 5! Whoever asked the question about the problems I think only a person who has a problem with figuring out orgasms before anyone else would think this a negative thing. Personally I feel lukcy to have found this and will probably always be hundreds of orgasms ahead of my friends!

I can orgasm as many times as I want this way. The first one usually takes under 2 minutes, then after about 30 seconds to 2 min I am ready for another. I have gone all the way to 30 times in one sitting! Mmmm. I usually am satisfied and ready for a short nap after about 7, though.

As far as getting orgasms with other people I am bisexual and find that doing the "Student's Position" with my girlfriend is most satisying. It is very similar to the kind of pressure you get with the pillow. It is simply lying down and having the person's upper thigh between your legs and grinding like a mad-woman. If you are getting close to orgasm try and straighten your legs and tighten your legs from the ass down while your partner (male or female works!) continues to grind you slowly and hard! This is also able to get me off up to 50 times in a row (my birthday )!


Best of luck!

lori007 or anyone wanting same feeling - Not sure if u still read these post but u had asked if anyone had suggestions on how u could reach an orgasm with ur boyfriend... If you guys are very opn sexually, try buying what they call a butterfly.. It is a clit stimulator and u strap it around u so it stay put. Replace ur pillow with ur boyfriend as u wear the butterfly and this should help u reach ur orgasm. If there is not enough pressure pushing on the butterfly as u grinding, try putting something between ur bf and ur toy. Hope this helps if u read it. I am a lesbian and i love to use my g/f's ass instead of a pillow. All depends how open ur partner is.

Tip for fellow pillow humping ladies

As someone who also grew up masturbating this way (5 or 6yrs old). I have had a lot of trouble over the years getting myself off any other way, especially with a partner. Now I know it is different for everyone, but I thought I would point out this tip that I discovered with my boyfriend just in case anyone is built the same way as me. It is a great way to get the same feeling and increase intimacy b/c your boyfriend is involved. My main issue is that sex and fooling around felt good, but not orgasm good. I craved that sense of pressure, but not penetration over my vaginal entrance. While my boyfriend, or myself, are stimulating my clit he places his palm over my vaginal opening (pushing in all the places the pillow does) and it creates a similiar type of pressure to what I experience with the pillow.

Tip #2 hump part of his body. This is a standard move, so open communication is really important hump part of his chest. Hump a cheek of his butt. It feels great and he can whack off at the same time, or just enjoy feeling you being wet on him and watching you get off.

i hump his penis! put a condom on it and then i lay him down on his back and just hump his penis (not insserted, just rubbing on it like dry humping, but not "dry").
it feels awesome to him and me, and it gives me the clitoral stimulation i want (quite like pillow humping).

YAY!!!!!!!!
jasmine

i love rubbing and humping my pillow and my bed, i have done it since i was 13 and still do it 4 to 5 times a day and 3 times at night,its amazing it feels sooo good!!!!

Im glad ive come across this site! lol! Thanks Opencommunicator for some of the advice. I too cannot imagine telling my guy that I.. hump pillows.

i think i am addicted to it!!! it just feels sooo awesome., its the only way i can please myself, i love rubbing against the pillow i can do it for hours on end and never get sick of it. i love the stumulation i get from it. the arousal is great.

i love humping my bed so much i cant stop it, the stimulation feels so good.

wow! i thought that i'd be the only one that did this! sounds strange but thay say you get more turn'd on when you have your period what do you do then? or dont it stop you? if it dont how do u go about it?

all i have to say about that is "removable showerhead". hahahahaha.
jasmine

It was great to see so many girls humping pillow for masturbation. I am a man and do the same. Don't you guys think its more like riding a horse. I have always humped as if i am riding a horse. Fantasising about a woman on horse enjoying her horseback ride fascinates me. I am a horse addict due to this. Did any of u gals experienced orgasm while horse riding?

im 13 and i like 2 masturbate with a pillow. i always stop wen a get close to orgasm. is it normal to be afraid of having your 1st orgasm because im afraid.

Dont be afriad, it only causes pleasure! Unless your waiting for that one 'special someone' for your first orgasm, then I wouldnt think theres much reason to hold back. And that's completely up to you
Good luck!

I'm a 15 year old girl and I love to hump a pillow or my teddy's! It's sooo pleasurable and I stop just before I reach orgasm then I continue a little slower and speed up. I do that a few times then I cum, it's a habbit in a way but that's how I like it. Is it strange to slow down and start again because I think I get a better orgasm when I do it ?

I cant get an orgasm frm having sex with my husband?? Only oral and there nothing wrong with him its me y is this??