I've never used a pillow, don't want to get it dirty, and I could never use a stuffed animal they have such innocent faces!
But I like to hump and grind away against a bunched up blanket. When you get it just right, it is the BEST orgasm EVER! I think its because your not just stimulating the tip of your clit, everything down there gets rubbed around at once, labia and all, so your indirectly stimulating everything all at once!
I've probably been doing this since I was 11 or 12. And I'm 22 and still doin' it.
Same here. But I kinda remember starting it at age 6. I'd hide behind couches, under beds... I'm 23 now, I've slowed down a lot with it. I've learned to use my hand. A crunched up blanket still gets it done faster.
I'm the exact same!i've been humping pillows since I was about 10, also used a giant teddies leg when i was younger.I'm now 20 and it is still the only way i can make myself orgasm, I have intense orgasms with my boyfriend but only when i'm ontop riding him the same way as i ride my pillow and I get him to lick my breasts for further stimulation. I also rub or pinch my nipple while riding the pillow. it's the best way for me so you're all not alone!
i have humped my pillow since i am about 10 years old and still do it now although i am only 15 .. i have never reached orgasm any other way and wouldnt dare tell any one dat i do it not even my best friend who i tell everything to!! it really comforts me to know im not de only person in de world dat does it
Wow. I thought I was the only one doing this! Since I can remember I have been masturbating this way, but I don't use any pillows or blankets. Direct stimulation using pressure and fingers. I also think sexual thoughts and fantasies as I'm doing this. I swear I have had brain orgasms and definately the best orgasms ever.
it's not! I taught myself to orgasm with my hand and not a pillow after becoming dissatisfied and needing to orgasm with a partner (humping a pillow too embarrassing... sorry, sisterhood). So: I went to porn and that's still what works for me, takes ten minutes at quickest. I can orgasm without porn but it's much harder at the moment - but I'm working on it. Differences are, I get much wetter I think, and it's more intense but not such a warm, all-over feeling. I would recommend everyone to be free and open-minded, I believe people can orgasm in more than one way - they just need to keep practising, that's the only key. Good luck. x x x x
I have the same problem! I have been using a pillow to masturbate against a hard surface for as long as I can remember. I am 16, not a virgin and I can never manage to orgasm with my boyfriend. He is great with sex and I feel pleasure, but I never get there. I've tried with fingers alone, but I can never manage to achieve full orgasm! Any tips?
THANK GOD! i used to get yelled at , i said i was exercising, well thats seriously how it started out, then i felt it! and it felt so good! my fam likes to bring this up at family gatherings to my embarassment, but im not laughing. i havent told anyone . only the peeps who caught me know. i dont lay on my stomach anymore, u used too. now i gather up a bunch by the side of my bed staddle them as if im on a man, use one hand to grasp the sheets on top the bed and the other using the palm of my hand speading my labia and cupping it.'ive alwais imagined what it would feel like to be with a women. im bucurious. and never acted on it.
Being With a women is pretty amazing. My girlfriend got her tongue done and got a vibrating pericing and its amazing. You should only act on it if your ready though. Think it over. You may end up not wanting to do anything with them or you may want too(:
I TOTALLY humped pillows and stuffed animals as a little girl!!! I used to be so embarrassed when my parents caught me! My friend showed me how to reach orgasm with my hands when I turned 14 and then I never humped another pillow... I wonder if I could still get off today (I'm 23 now!) I might have to try it, I remember it feeling so good but then again that might have been because it was still so new. Thank god I'm not weird! lol
Sometimes we get so used to the way that we orgasm that trying a new way can take some trial and error. Keep trying different methods and I would also say to LORI007 who cannot orgasm with her boyfriend to keep trying but also maybe you could include him in the pillow humping or possibly try dry humping him! You could try the dry humping either with your (and his) clothes on or off if you like and see which one works the best for you. But, from everything that I have read, some women are just more sensitive "down there" than others and therefore too much direct stimulation of the clitoris may actually take away (or even be uncomfortable for you) from the orgasm. I would also advise you to talk to your Gyno about this issue and see what kind of advice she has for you on this issue. (Hopefully, you have a woman gynecologist but if not perhaps you could even find a nurse who specializes in the area?)
I've been trying to orgasm with other things on my own, but its just so hard! I notice almsot getting there with my boyfriend but I always seem to pull back. Im scared Im going to be doing a pillow for the rest of my life and my boyfriend was joking about how he did it as a kid and I jokingly brought up how i did too and he was like uhhhh okkkkk... But he doesnt know I haven't orgasmed with him and I dont know what to do! I've also always thought it would be what being with a woman would be like but I want to orgasm from a penis!
i started humping pillow since young too. i don't think i get orgasm from it. i didn't know that is a form of masturbation as it just help me fall asleep. however as i get older, i starts to think about sex scene while humping a pillow/bolster. i have never masturbated because i don't want to get too caught up with it and obviously i'm still a virgin. it's nice to know that so many women are doing it too. i only know what is dry humping when my boyfriend started doing it on me and i was wondering what was he doing?! LOL
i thought this was wierd untill i read this .... now i no it must be normal !
i am 23 years old and iv been humping anything i can get between my legs ( stuffed toys, pillows, blankets, furniture) anything like that since i was atleast about 5, i remember my mom walking in on me once and asking what i was doing, and i told her i had a saw vagina and she laughed.
i even do it in the shower or bath, OR ON THE BUSS ! i think the vibrations are amazing on the buss so i discreatly sit on the edge of my seat and relax.
nice to no im normal!
if any 1 has any tips please reply i would love to hear them
I have done the same thing. never told anyone cuz i thought i was a freak. but oddly enough it normal? well i get such a good feeling from humping my pillow and can orgasm sooo easily. but when my boyfriend fingers me or eats me out i mean it feels good but not nearly as good as humping the pillow..... is something wrong? what can i do???
I think it's great that so many other women are humping away on their pillows, just like me! I actually started attacking my pillow kind of late, when my husband a few years before we were married asked if he could watch me do it before we had sex. Prior to that, I was masturbating with just my hand or a vibrator. Now, I masturbate all the time by laying face down and doing the nasty with a pillow - or the bed - or a stuffed animal - or bunched up blankets, etc. And to comment on a question: I'm a mom, and I masturbated on my stomach by getting off on my pillow. I can't get enough of humping my pillow or humping the bed!