Pillow Humping (Page 11)

BriannaBananna1,

I understand what you mean about feeling addicted. I am almost 15 so I am not that much older than you. I feel like I am weird too. I have been humping things since I was 4 or 5 and I know it just feels so good sometimes. I moan too and I think it makes it more sexy too. There are times when I feel the urge to hump things and sometimes I can't which makes me want to do it more.
Just remember that it is normal to have urges towards things and that you shouldn't care what others think about you or what you do. So many people are just like you (including me) so you are not alone in your thoughts and actions.
I hope this helps you-let me know if it does. And if it doesnt help you I am sorry.

I use the end of a blanket. ;|

ummmm.. guys i have a question.. it doesnt have anything at all to do with humping a pillow... but i saw that some of you have kids and i was just curious as to if you couldhelp me?

Wow, I think I read every post. I am now 30 and have been doing this since the age of 7 or 8. Like alot of you I would never share this with a boyfriend, but now that I'm married sometimes I'm so desperate to hump when I'm performing oral sex on my husband that I'll just put the pillow down there and it totally causes an instant orgasm for the both of us because I start to suck more forcefully as I cum.

I use to always do it on my stomach, put the pillow between my legs and thrusts on a hard pillow it takes about a minute or two and then I cum. However, when I got pregnant I was afraid to get on my stomach so I would sit in a regular chair and put the pillow between my legs and grind down on it as I'm sitting and this is powerful ladies!

Some of you said you do it back to back, but once I cum I have to wait a while before I can cum again...any of you like that?

ooh i was 10 when i started doing it and i use to love it i use to do it in the nights when my parents will go to sleep i would do it for the longest when i turned 15 i stoped because i moved in with my boyfriend and i no longer needed my pillow but now im 19 and 5 months pregnant and every time he goes to work i been getting my pillow and doing it again it feels so good sometimes i do it in front of him and it seems to turn him on but now im scared to do it because i think i might hurt my baby but i really love to hump my pillows and also rub my breasts when i do it i love to watch porn to when im doing it just by hearing the porn makes me kum real good......

Didn't go through all 11 pages of replies but just want to inform of why a pillow or stuffed animal or bunched up blanket.. I personally think its because your lowerabdomen is sensitive during arousal and you like to feel that pressure up against you and near your clitorus. I think it's like how a guy feels when he is doing "the work" hehe.
I also think it's why some of us women can't get off any other way.. dildos makes you feel good inside and on the clit but it doesn't give you the pressure against your lower abs.
Been doing it since i was 12, im 21 now and that's the only way I can cum and it happens quickly. I feel bad that my partner can not make me :-/

Well I am 14 and I do it alot. But I only do it like once every couple of days. I thought it was just me, but it turns out I am not alone, but what I don't understand is that feeling you get when it doesn't feel good anymore. Does that happen to everybody? I have ALOT of questions about sex, but its kind of uncomfortable asking my mom and especially NOT my dad. And I am the oldest child, so no older siblings to ask. SO I'm turning to YOU! Please help! )

Whoa, I'm blown,really. I figured other people were humping; that's nothing new, but it's good to know I'm not the only one who can't orgasm unless it's with a pillow. I'm 20 now, and It started with an old boyfriend, so I blame him for all the times I tired him out enjoying it, but that became a relationship I wasn't staying in for the humping haha. So it's been 2 years now and I only recently found out that I can "make nice" with my pillow and achieve it too! I'm overjoyed! I have a girlfriend of sorts now, and she's wonderful at pleasuring, but nothing makes me orgasm but a pillow and my own strength. I don't understand it. Its not that I don't like it,but I'd sure like to know how to orgasm with her too.

ShannonAnne, When you have an orgasm your genitals are pumped full of blood and your nerve endings down there becomes super sensitive. When this happens, it gets very painful for some women. After a short period of time, you should be able to start again. This is called the refractory period.

Other women can continue without taking a break. These women can normally have a lot of orgasms in short succession and is called multi-orgasmic. There is no obvious reason why women differ in this way - they just do. Your ability to become multi-orgasmic may also change throughout your life.

This also happens to almost all men. After they orgasm and ejaculate, they lose their erections and things get very uncomfortable for them if they continue to get stimulated.

haha!! i still remember the first time i did it, on a rope outide, no one was paying attention and i was trying to climb to the top, but i waz only 5 n didnt know wat the heck i waz doin, then i also remeber bein n the dinning room n my family waz watchen tv n i would b humpin the broom, my dad would say stop that, n i would tell him i waz sweeping, even thow i waz on the broom!! rotfl!! o, n i dont feel hardly anything when i hump a pillow, how do i make it feel better, and will sex still feel good??

i did that too at a young age! it's just nature calling i guess! so it's normal!

I used to hump a pillow from a very young age.but I do it multiple times a day.ts the only way i seem to ge any sexual satisfaction.

So I've only masturbated using this pillow/blanket technique since I was around 10 (I'm 20 now) and I've recently begun a relationship with a guy. We have not gone far as far as a sexual relationship goes and I'm fine with that. However, I'm concerned by the fact that I find that using my fingers inside or other like objects doesn't give me any pleasure (and in fact is a little painful and is a turn off). I know the orgasms I experience with the pillow technique are very minuscule and it is rather the build up to these that I enjoy most. I was wondering if and when I actually have intercourse with my boyfriend will I be able to enjoy it (not the first time of course, but subsequent times) since I apparently can only cum from humping?

I started humping pillows at age 5... Need help to get a better ogasm

palebird, It is very difficult to project what intercourse with a real live man will be like for you. Normally intercourse is hard work for a woman until you have figured out how you and your partner's bodies can work together.

Some general tips:

Your vagina does not have a lot of nerve endings inside. Most are around the outer third, so around the opening. It might take some extended stimulation before you feel anything inside. More women do not orgasm from vaginal penetration that do - so you are normal. A lot of woman do however feel the need to be 'filled up' deep inside their vaginas when they get close to orgasm. This is because your uterus lift up when you are aroused. This will cause your vagina to 'tent' at the top and create a feeling of wanting to be 'stuffed' up there. Having something in your vagina will also provide something for your pelvic floor muscles to squeeze on when you orgasm. This will often change the experience of orgasm for you.

Your main sexual response is based in your clitoris. This is what you are rubbing on your pillow. Your clitoris has no other function but to provide you with sexual pleasure. Rubbing it is thus the main way that most women achieve orgasm.

When you describe your orgasms as 'minuscule' I get the impression that you stop too early. You should continue until you get the big orgasm. You cannot harm yourself. Having these wave like sexual responses is normal and the pleasure should increase every time. You have to push yourself up the 'orgasm mountain' until you reach the very top before you can roll down to the very bottom again.

You will have to start to change the way you orgasm. Leave the pillow and blanket alone some times. flip onto your back and stimulate your clitoris and vulva with your hands and fingers. You might have to practice for a while to get there, so don't just give up. Try, try and try again until you succeed. If it does not work today, try again tomorrow, and the day after until you figured it out. Your neural pathways got used to the pillow and you now have to retrain them and create new pathways for this. Let the tension build in your genitals and concentrate on increasing the good feelings you are having. Don't stop too soon. Continue until you orgasm.

Take care!

I've been doing this since I was 4 or 5. It's incredibly normal and most people have done it at least once in their life whether they admit it or not. I still do this occasionally after sex if I didn't orgasm. The best orgasms almost seem to be the ones you give yourself lol.

I have humped pillows for a while. I have the best orgasms doing that.

i have been humping pillows all my life but now im 12 and usally i get my period in the ending of the month or the start of the next month (if i dont get it the month before) but now i havent had my period since june (it ened on the start of july) and my mother is pounding me with questions if i have been with a boy (which i havent becuz the women keeps me locked up in t he house enless im with her or at school, no im not doing anything at school either) but anyways is this normal or not?? HELP BEFORE MY MOM TAKES ME TO A DOCTOR AND FINDS OUT I HAVE BEEN HUMPING MY PILLOWS