Well, achieveing orgasm is kind of a personal thing ... so how can that be wrong? If you want to use the pillow technique, just be sure that you've got enough pressure or indirect pressure to your clitoris and rhythm is kind of key for me, too. What are you doing in the bathtub?

thanks for your reply and about the bathtube well..water stream is the only way howa u can reach orgasm!!

i the only way how I**** can reach orgasm sry 4 the mistake

Oh my gosh - of course I use a pillow many times to masturbate and orgasm. I usually lie face down and rub the pillow between my legs. Some times I have augmented this by using a dildo either vaginally or anally depending on how I feel - this simply heighens the experiene.
Wendy

Wow. I didn't know so many people used this tecniqe. To be honest, I've never even thought about it. Call me weird or anythin, but I've never masturbated myself, except for maybe 4 or 5 times in my whole life. Now don't get me wrong, I love being with my man, but I haven't really concentrated in me:(....
I guess were all different!

Wow I laughed myself. I used to think I was oversexed or had been molested or something. I had a favorite tiger when I was 7. Thats scary almost at the number of people that do that. I have grandkids and think they see too much sex and stuff on t.v. I didn't see that much back in my younger days but there was always this feeling going on in my loins!

I have also done it this way since I was a little girl (I am 26 now). Of course, I didn’t know what I was doing back then. It just felt really good. I usually lay on my stomach when I do it and put the pillow between my legs and under me and then just kind of rock/rotate/thrust/grind my hips into the pillow until I orgasm. Sometimes instead of using a pillow, I will bunch up a blanket and do the same thing. I am curious if everybody else wears underwear when they do it this way. I usually do because it helps keep the pillow or blankets clean. Thanks for starting this topic. It is nice to know that I am not the only woman who masturbates this way. I probably do it like this 85 to 90 percent of the time I masturbate. I have another way that I do it sometimes that is kind of unusual (I lean over the edge of furniture), but I will maybe start a separate thread about that.

To Bibaya: Different strokes for different...well you get my point. If humping your pillow and fingering yourself only gets you there halfway and the bathtub ices the cake, that's just you. You are fine. I personally cannot get off by myself. I'm one of those people that has to have someone else do it to make it feel good. So, yes you are perfectly normal. No, you are not doing anything wrong.

omg i'm glad that i'm not the only one who does this...i thought it was wrong...i'm 17 now and i'm a virgin and i find myself doing this quite often...i've been actually doing this since i was 8 years old and i haven't stopped since then...i want to but it's so hard

Thanks for technology, that people will be able to share insights about this.
I thought I was abnormal, I started masturbating with pillows when I was 5, though i was not certain about it, but it feels so good doing it. Then when I was in college there I have realized that I am masturbating, now I am 28, almost 6 months pregnant for my 3rd child. I still am enjoying my own moment of masturbating. But I was kinda scared, since after I masturbate my tummy contract and my heart beats louder for 30 seconds, then after I go to sleep. Since I go to work at night, I always make sure I have enough sleep, so I masturbate. I usually do it 3-5 times, depending on the mood. Does anybody knows if its safe, to masturbate when pregnant? Hope someone will post a reply about my concern. Again, thank you all for sharing your experiences about this topic.

Yes, it is safe to masturbate when pregnant. Sex is safe during pregnancy during all stages (unless notified by a doctor that it is not which will mean you have some kind of problem).

Do you masturbate 3-5 times a day in one sit or 3-5 times at different times of the day? Sorry for the dumb question just curious I mean wow 5 times a day..but trust me your sexual appetite will begin to decline when you reach your 30's.

And btw a pillow never did it for me, however I discovered the most delicious way to masturbate with the shower massager. Works everytime in no time lol!

In response to byancagale99, nightangel73 is right about it being safe to masturbate when pregnant. I have to admit that I have never been pregnant (I am 26 and currently single), but I have read that a lot of women do masturbate when pregnant. Also, I think a lot of OB/Gyns recommend that women who are near their due date or past it have orgasms (either through sex or through masturbation) because orgasms can apparently help speed up the onset of labor. Has anyone else heard this? Obviously, if a lot of pregnant women do it and if OBs recommend it, then I don’t think you have anything to worry about. You could also ask your OB, but you may be too embarrassed to ask. I know that I personally could never talk about this sort of thing with anyone face to face. Like you said, “thanks for technology” in letting us discuss what we normally would not.

Nightangel73 said that sexual appetites begin to decline when you reach your 30’s. I really wonder if that is true for everyone? I know that when I was in my teens, I had a really strong sexual appetite (I didn’t sleep around, but I masturbated pretty frequently). When I was in college, I got to the point where I was only masturbating about once every three to five days. From the age of 22 or 23 though until now, I have been doing it almost as much as when I was a teenager. While I sometimes go as long as three or four days in between, I will be honest in saying that I usually do it at least once a day, sometimes more. Not only does it satisfy my sexual needs (at least physically), but it helps me sleep as well. I don’t know if this is average or not for women my age, or even if there is such a thing as average. Does anyone else have any thoughts about this?

They say sex near due date is good because it will help the cervix to release the mucuous plug which helps to prepare for labor.


Regarding sexual appetitte well that has been my experience and of my friends but I could believe on some women to not observe a decline as hormone levels vary. As you get older also the sexual appetite will depend more on external factors like physical health, stress levels and how good the relationship is. I can tell you after reaching the 30's well I don't get wet as much as when I was 25 or 26. My best friend one time told she used to even squirt in her 20's now in her 30's she says she can't do anymore and has observed the same decline in cervical fluids. At 26 your age yes I can recall masterbating once a day. So things just change a little bit. I couldn't have sex everyday as of now, I think masterbation is different than to sex. Too much sex for me would make my vagina numb to the feeling lol. Men experience decline too. My husband has told me how it has changed for him as well. (One reason why I think couples should be close aged). But it is all good. Your sexual life will still be fantastic.

WOW, tha's kind of weird. All I have to do is masturbate with my hand to acheive orgasm. Humping a pillow seems like it would be irritating to the vagina...oww.

Not at all. I've never had irritation to my vagina and I had been using a pillow for masturbation for a long time.

Wendy

lol i thought i was the onlii one that did that 2.. i have been doing it since i was 6 or 7 and i still do it occasionallybut unlike lori007 i can cum other ways.. even other ways of masturbation.. mostly waterplay

OMG I kinda do the same thing but I'm a guy ! Well not exactly, I lay down on my pillow in a way that it begins a little higher than where my penis is and since I always have loved imaginary things, like pretending things in my head (when I was playing with my soldier toys, younger, I used to make them have longgggggggg conversations lol), I pretend that it's a female but my eyes are not fixing the pillow or anything, everything is in my head. So I make a story in my head, I usually recreate a p0rn video I just saw, I can't masturbate to a single picture or something like that and I'm acting as the male actor and I kinda put my penis on the pillow in a way that I rub it on it, just like I would really to have sex w/ a girl and I can recreate any sexual positions, like let's say it's cowgirl, I'll still be on the top of the pillow but I'll make myself a little bit distant of it and I'll be grabbing lightly the back of the pillow, like it's an a$s and the pillow takes a shape so I can imagine it's an a$s. Let's say it's d0ggystyle well i'll make my legs more like narrow, etc. Or like doing it to te side, I'll grab a part of the tip of the pillow so that's it's like grabbing her thigh, and I'll have one of my leg a little bit in the air, like just not laying on the bed... As for the bl0wjob part, I recreate it with my hand but without looking at them. So yeah I can pretty much stimulate all of that, well it doesn't feel like the real thing but since I kinda just imagine everything in my head, it still works. And I never do g0nzo things, I HAVE to make a story in my head, a background, something, most of the times it's based on the video's story (like Br@zzers ones are great for that) but if it's g0nzo, then I make it up. Also, I like to have a continuity, like I'll masturbate to the same p0rnstar many times, and pretend that we had sexual intercourse these many times lol, like creating a story about that.


Think I'm the only guy on earth that does that lol. Anybody ?

PS : Sorry for the strange phrasing sometimes, had a lot to say and kinda just put everything I thought, plus I'm not english.

PS2 : Tried to change the censored words.

PS3 : If I may seem immature, just wanted to say that I'm 17 years old as I myself think it'd be a little strange to hear that story from a fully grown man.

Gosh we had a lady who stayed with us for a while&she would use her stuffed animals!
As they where life like in size they sure got a workout!&as our room was adjacent 11.oclock was a popular time&4.30 in the morning as i would get woken up with the bed thumping away!(& she sure had stamina!)
It didn't worry me as it normall really.

i do it aswell and i find it better when i need a wee! it feels soooo guuudddd!!!1 ohh yhhh

I think I'm still amazed to discover that girls masturbate at such a young age (I'm 52). I first heard of this about 14 years ago and I didn't believe it, but after reading the responses here, I now realize I was wrong. All I can say is You Go Girl, LOL