Great thread! Thank you so much to all of you for sharing your experiences and tips! I'm a pillow humper and I haven't had an orgasm any other way but humping something (a pillow, a blanket, a stuffed toy). But this thread has offered a lot of tips and I'm looking forward to try out some things with my boyfriend. I started masturbation at a very late age, except that I had a guy friend when I was little and we used to hump each other. I don't remember if I ever reached orgasm though, but I remember it felt awesome to be on top of him and dry hump him. A few days ago, I was on the bus and I humped my gloves. I put them inside my pants and used my hands to push them against my vagina. There was only one passenger in the bus since it was pretty late. I was sitting at the very back and I don't think I made much noise so I bet no one knew what I was doing, but it was a little thrilling when the other passenger went to the toilet that was at the back of the bus, and I had to stop for a while when he passed by. I eventually reached orgasm, it was a very interesting experience to have an orgasm on a moving bus. Never had an orgasm at a public place before.
I'm 13, almost 14 and I just started humping pillows a few days ago, and I guess I started getting interested in sex.... Idk. But today I thought I'd resEarch this to c if anyone else did it, and I'm soooooo happy I found this post!!! I don't have a bf, but I read all the stuff u girls posted about humping ur bfs and stuff and it just kinda made me want a bf even more... Lol... But yeah I just started humping pillows... Well not really pillows, they don't do it for me, but like the side of my bed... Idk it just makes me feel really really reeaaalllyyyy good.. Idk if it's an orgasm tho.
Oh thank GOD!!!!!! I'm NOT a sicko!!!! I've been humping pillows from a very young age and once it started I couldn't stop! Its an addiction, I mean it feels good and I thought I was the only weirdo doing it. And I do it like two-three times a day. Cool, im not alone! To celebrate... I'll hump a pillow! jk..
Anyway what I do is put it between my legs and squeeze while rocking and bucking. Man that sounds weird! And I do it from different positions. I push when on my back or on my side.
Question: Is it normal to be a little wet afterwards?
I don't really hump pillows, since I'm a guy but, I've seen lots of peope around my age(I'm 12)that have, so I might try it soon.
Like someone else said, I'm not satisfied unless I orgasm about 3-4 times a day.
I'm just glad to know I'm not a perverted freak with all these other people around my age that are sex addicts. It's just so addicting! I started when I was about 9, I would go to my friends house and watch porn.
All these girls that are 13 are making me want to masterbate lol.
i thought i was the only ome too!!! my boyfriend cant seem to give me one but the pillow always works. does anyone know good ways for a guy to give a girl one?! i want to be as close with him as possible and he thinks i dnt love him enough to get one which is totally crazy cuz i would die for him in a second. plz help
Umm! Your not weird! Some guys do this too! I started out this way for years before I discovered how to use my hand! I use to think I was weird, and I had no idea girls did this too!
No matter what age or sex you are, we all enjoy it & need it one way or another!
How to use your hand?
Well, I think he means masterbating. You grab hold of your dick with your hand, as if you were holding a joystick. Then, you rub it up and down. Just rub it up, then down, constantly. Do it in a steady beat, it feels soooooo good!!!
hahaaa thats cool i found this cuz i was searching why i cant stop humpingg everythingggg ...peoplee , all that is in my beddd chairss school chairrss then people again hahahaa itss soo arousinn n gets me super horny btwww im 17 but i started masturbatin like 10 hahaa but not in the humpin wayy just withh waterrr but knoww the humpingg itss really cool but i havent had an orgassmm humpingg yetttt... :p
I also have humped pillows, stuffed animals, corners of tables, etc to get off since I was 4 or 5. Now that I live with my boyfriend, he makes me cum alot, but I too feel like I need to hump something after he finishes...lately what I've found to work for me was before we even start to have sex, put myself first. I get on top of him, position his member on my clit, between my lips...and rub until i reach massive orgasm. Works every time and it gets him way turned on. Feels amazing...even better than a pillow
sex i have masterbated from a young age and sometimes feel bad or dirty about it. But I have heaps of sexual issues with child sex abuse at 4-5years of age and rape. I think to some degree it is normal, but I feel like people think I am strange having no-one to sexually express my self with. so long as what ever you use to masterbate with it clean and wash it. it can't be too bad.
they always tell us that pillow humpers are weird. but i beg to differ. it's a great way for girls to get off. i'm 23 and have been doing it for years. it's one of my favorite masturbatory techniques. the best way to do it is to stack 3 or 4 pillows on top of one another and cover them in a silk scarf or something soft. i just ride the mound back and forth and it feels so much like going cowgirl on my man just without the penetration. it never fails to make me cum... i loved this thread but it kind of upset me to see so many young girls desiring boyfriends to hump. stick with pillows. they don't break your heart. and if you do do it with a guy, be safe. i couldn't bear to see another 14 year old walking around pregnant. anywho... pillows... definitely an awesome technique.
When I started going to the gym in my teens I found out that when I used the pull-up machine - you know, the one where you can suspend yourself on your forearms and your'e supposed to do L-sits and leg ups and whatever, for your abs - anyway, then when I was doing that I would develop the most intense orgasm...it would last as long as I could hold my legs there up in a L-sit or the like (and it had great consequences for my abs!) but I always thought...there's no way that everybody on this is feeling the same way! (I'm a girl btw) has anyone else had anything like this? Obviously there was no direct stimulation, I guess just the up and down movement??
AbraCadabra, There are quite a number of women that can orgasm from just tightening their thigh and leg muscles, either with their legs pressed together or their legs crossed with absolutely no hands or fingers involved.
Some times it will only happen when she has a jean on with the zip pulled tight to her body, sometimes nothing special is needed.
So glad I found this! Good to know I'm not the only one. I remeber I did this when I was little, started around age 5..had no idea what I was doing, all I knew was that it felt good for some reason. I continued to do this untill I had to share a room with my older sister, at age 7 and then she caught me one time and I stopped doing it, I was so embarrased. That was the last time I masturbated untill November 2009 (I was 18 by then and still a virgin, I still amd and I'm 19 now) when I was reading a romance book...made me feel all funny and warm and when I went to the loo my knickers were wet...which is when I realised I was aroused and I decided to see if I could have my first orgasm so I started humping pillows again. I don't think it weird, if girls are doing this at young ages its obviously natural. It feels nice, but I never orgasm. I just reach this point where it feels like I need to pee, and I stop. I've tried using my fingers, same thing happens..is that normal -being unable to climax because you feel like you need to pee?
Ria, why do you not try it with your fingers in the bath or shower (or on the toilet). And don't squeeze the urge to pee back. Just go for it. At least you will know what happens and who cares when you pee in your own bath water or shower?
Thanks for the reply Susan
I have tried doing what you suggested, when I was in the shower, and I was trying very hard to ignore the urge to pee and just continue....it seemed to work a little bit, the sensations were defiantly becomeing a bit more pleasurable -the urge to pee was still there though, and getting harder to ignore. It got to the point where I had to stop. It felt like I was never going to get past that point, and having only started this kind of thing recently (the years where I didn't know what i was doing not included) I'm still not fully comfortable with it all. This is probably a factor, my body is probably wanting something more, to get me pst the urge to pee point, but I don't know how to satisfy it.