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cas_babe285
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trying - will It Ever Happen?
Posted: 11-21-07 15:45pm
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i have been trying to get pregnant since
july with no success i just feel that it
will never happen for me i know some
people try for years but it just seems
that it wont for me, i know someone who
sleeps with anyone she wants and is preg
now but she doesnt even want it i know for
a fact she is only keepin it cos she is a
lazy cow n dunt wanna work so a kid will
stop her workin for a few yrs she even
gave up her jop n went on the dole when
she found out she was preg it just gets me
so mad that i want a baby and cant get
preg n she dunt want one sleeps around n
gets preg in a flash, sorry just needed to
blast off at someone.
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soldierswifey
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Posted: 11-21-07 15:57pm
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one thing my obgyn told me when i had
concerns that i couldnt get pregnant
she told me it will happen when you stop
thinking about it and stressing over it
just have fun lol
im now 37 weeks pregnant
i think that was the best advice
anyone has ever given me....good luck
pm me anytime
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cas_babe285
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Thanx
Posted: 11-21-07 16:05pm
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lol sorry bout the rant its just in aug i
thought i was preg i was like 2 weeks late
n bein told by the doc i was more than
likely preg n talkin bout arrangin a
widwife n that n the girl who is preg is
me future sis in law n she really does me
head in she doesnt want the kid at all the
job center said she ad to find work so she
gone on sick cos she is preg
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soldierswifey
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Posted: 11-21-07 16:08pm
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everyone rants and raves about something
lol
no need to be sorry
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 16:09pm
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calm down  it takes the
average healthy couple a YEAR to concieve
youve only been ttc a few months
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cas_babe285
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Will It Ever Happen
Posted: 11-21-07 16:11pm
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yeah but all im sayin is it is so unfair
that there are all these teenage mums n
lasses who sleep around who get preg n im
not sayin they wont b good mums but its
just that ppl who dunt wanna b preg get
preg n those who do dunt
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 16:24pm
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im about to be a teenage mom :/
i know its frusterating for you and im
sorry
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cas_babe285
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Its Ok
Posted: 11-21-07 16:28pm
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its ok i dont want u to feel sorry what u
are about to have is amazing its just like
i say my sister in law dunt even want her
kid she is just using it as an escape to
get a council house n not have to work
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 16:29pm
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yeah i know how you feel alot of girls on
here feel that way
its just it takes time ok? dont give up
it will happen eventually
lots of baby dust to ya though!
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cas_babe285
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Thanx
Posted: 11-21-07 16:30pm
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thanx well i am taking a break for now and
we going to start tryin again next year as
me fiance as done his wrist in n is off
work n might need an operation lol so we
not havin much luck really lol
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 16:31pm
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well good luck and hopefully next year is
your year!
have you been using opk's? and stuff?
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cas_babe285
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Urm No
Posted: 11-21-07 16:33pm
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no what are opk? it happened because i
thought i was preg in aug n we decided to
try again the following month so i dont
know anything about opk or any other stuff
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Posted: 11-21-07 16:34pm
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Why on earth did your doctor tell you that
you were more than likely pregnant without
waiting for the test results?
It does take the average healthy couple 12
months to conceive. You've been trying for
4 months. I understand that is 4 times
you've been disappointed. But keep trying.
Trying is the fun part 
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cas_babe285
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Thanks Ingi
Posted: 11-21-07 16:38pm
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i know that she shudnt ave said it,and it
really destroyed me cos for 2 weeks i
thought i was preg so i know its not same
but now i feel like i lost a baby as i
thought for 2 weeks i was going to have a
baby n then told oh no u aint, plus like i
said before my sis in law is preg n due 2
april if i ad been preg then i was due 9
april its too close for comfort i cant
stand seein her n it kills me everytime i
do
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Mabel
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Posted: 11-21-07 16:39pm
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Why didn't you take a pregnancy test? It
seems highly unethical for a doctor to say
anything without a TEST!
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young Girl
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Re: Urm No
Posted: 11-21-07 16:39pm
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| cas_babe285
wrote: | | no what are opk? it happened
because i thought i was preg in aug n we
decided to try again the following month
so i dont know anything about opk or any
other stuff |
ovulation kits
they help track when you ovulate so that
you can track everything such as ovulation
which is how you get pregnant
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cas_babe285
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I Did
Posted: 11-21-07 16:41pm
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i ad done a test at home which was neg but
she said it might ave been too early as i
was only a day late so they did a urine
test which came back neg but still i was
only 5 days late so she sent me for a
blood test n it was b4 i got the urine and
blood test results she was talkin that i
was more than likely preg n that she would
arrange a midwife n that once the results
came in
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Posted: 11-21-07 16:43pm
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So you had tested and they'd all been
negative. You had to have known there was
a chance you were not pregnant then.
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cas_babe285
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Opk
Posted: 11-21-07 16:43pm
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oh right sorry lol am not too clued up
with this stuff lol
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cas_babe285
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No
Posted: 11-21-07 16:46pm
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i did a test at home when i was 2 days
late as i still adnt started by the 6th
day i went to the doc n she said i was
more than likely preg when i explained my
situation n said the test i did was too
early then the doc urine came back neg but
she again said i was more than likely
preg as i still ad no period (was now day
13) n suggested that there was not enuff
hcg in my urine n so to do a blood one n
was still sayin i was more than likely
preg n bout the midwife n stuff
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