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Q: need help with orgasm from intercourse only
asked by: ilovemyrainydays on November 21st, 2007
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When I'm having sex, the only way I'm able to come is when I'm rubbing my clit with my fingers. It's great.

But I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to be able to come while he is inside of me without having to 'stimulate' myself the entire freaking time.

Does anyone have any tips or know any websites that could offer help on how to come 'on the inside', so to speak?

When we're doing it doggy-style, it always feels like i MIGHT come, but never do...

--Suzza
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young Girl
replied on November 21st, 2007
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only 10% of women can vaginally orgasm

sorry Sad
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lovree123
replied on August 25th, 2009
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Re: need help with orgasm from intercourse only
ilovemyrainydays wrote:
When I'm having sex, the only way I'm able to come is when I'm rubbing my clit with my fingers. It's great.

But I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to be able to come while he is inside of me without having to 'stimulate' myself the entire freaking time.

Does anyone have any tips or know any websites that could offer help on how to come 'on the inside', so to speak?

When we're doing it doggy-style, it always feels like i MIGHT come, but never do...

--Suzza


I am having the same problem but I can only cum when I am getting oral by the right person. At first I couldnt cum at all. Now its back to nothing. I would know cause it would be cum every where but I'll also be sad cause I didnt even notice a thing. Other times when i would play with myself I would get to the point where I am ready to cum but for some strange reason I can't let go, it wont come out. If their is nay body to help me please do so.
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mzolivia
replied on August 25th, 2009
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I also would like to know the answer to this problem, I have the same problem I can never cum when am having sex it seems as if i am but i really dont know i think i have because my boyfriend would be like you cum everywhere but i would knew if i did it are not maybe i do not know the difference in the feelings. If i was to play with myself i would get a orgasm. So it would be helpful if i can get a answer also.
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W0LF
replied on August 26th, 2009
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Unfortunately this is a trick others can't teach you. You need to learn how to work with your body to reach that point without clitoral stimulation. Most women who were in your position learned to orgasm vaginally by themselves, usually with a dildo before being able to accomplish it with their partner. You might check out some of the nicer toy shops in your region, staff in sex boutiques tend to have some unbelievably useful information when it comes to sex.
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ServiceU
replied on August 26th, 2009
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if you can have an orgasm by masturbation there is a sex position that i am guaranteed to have orgasms.
you have to ride your boyfriend and while your going up and down, you also have to go in a sweeping motion while you come down on him. so it's like up, down, back and forth. you have to position your body right and you might have to do it a few times before you get it right. but the sweeping motions allows your clit to rub against his pelvic bone and it feels like masturbation.
i watched real sex 25 or so and some women said she is guarantee a orgasm with her boyfriend with a certain position, and i knew what she was talking about. i've had sex in this one position for years so i learned a few tricks.
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JavaMissus
replied on August 26th, 2009
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In order to attain vaginal orgasms you must be sexually free...It has nothing to do with fingering yourself or a dildo..It is a hot sex act that only happens when you are in sexual want for your lover...It involves hot sexual movement...Once you know it, it does not go away...I do it constantly...What I speak about does not involve the clit but the G-spot and deep vaginal want that caresses the highest part of me...I have my own word for this part...It makes you beg for the filling of man...Only when he has pounded you, do you know that you have touched heaven and never forget the thrill of this happening....Maybe I will write up a post telling of this happiness....

To the poster who asked about doggy sex:...Yes, you are close when you do doggy...Next time before he enters you, be in the erotic position showing him all of you and then tell him to lick you...Do it gently...At the same time have him stick his finger inside you and caress you....Then before he plunges himself into you, to take his penis and rub it up and down across your vaginal canal opening...Teasing you, from the perineum to the clit....Do it a couple of times and move with him...Grind...Turn yourself on...He will go mad...I think you will be happy....I sure am...

Caroline
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