Hello this is the first time ive ever
posted .i was just wondering if anyone
could help me out.my ex girlfriend broke
up with me 7 years ago i was 18 at the
time.I took it very hard and still havent
got over it.I have never stoped loving her
and dont know if i ever will.I have dreams
about her all the time and when i wake up
i think im still with her.But when i
realise im not i get very depressed.if
anyone can help me out it would be very
appreciated.
adrian
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Mike East Texas
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2007 Posts: 118 Location: Conroe, TX Montgomery
I'll Try Posted: 11-22-07 03:57am
I have been married twice. I still love
both of my x's. You have to move on.
Look at what else there is on the market.
Love yourself. Be a little selfish. Take
care of your self. You will always love
her. There are girls I new in High School
and College, I still love today. Each day
is a brand new day. You will always think
of her time, to time. But, there are
others that can sure take your mind off
them.
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marvel
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Joined: 09 Sep 2007 Posts: 1104 Location: Toronto, Ontario (but only a private message away)
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Posted: 11-22-07 12:45pm
Listen to Mike! He's a pretty smart guy!
Unfortunately there's no off switch for
loving someone.
I know that in my past experiences, I had
to completely cut myself off from the
person I loved in order to realise that,
yes, I can survive without them, and there
is more that the world has to offer.
Falling out of love is one of the hardest
things, but I assure you... it gets easier
with time, and you're a stronger person at
the end of it. Way stronger!
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jodie 16
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Joined: 24 Aug 2007 Posts: 271 Location: south wales, wales
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Hia Posted: 11-22-07 13:54pm
Does she live anywhere near you ?
soo maybe you could tell her how you feel
and even if she is with someone else could
you still be friends x
best wishes
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Mike East Texas
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2007 Posts: 118 Location: Conroe, TX Montgomery
There Ya Go! Posted: 11-22-07 19:17pm
Beautiful, Jail Bait, Jodi just took my
mind off of all the girls I love, with her
swim suit picture. No evil entent to you
Jodie! I hope she helped you as much as
she helped me!
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RejuveNATION
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2007 Posts: 25 Location: , NY
What Hepled Me Posted: 11-24-07 10:30am
I began to take notice of my situations
with my ex's. Sometimes they must think
of me like I do them, wondering what's
going on in their life. Once and awhile I
get a email from my last ex., not asking
me anything but sending a random note sent
to other buddies. He sends something he
knows I'd be interested in. It's been
eight years and I think he just wants to
know I am out there and I would never send
a direct email back. If I find something
he would like I'd send it. The past: When
I'd fall asleep and turn over that little
thought of my ex would have me up nearly
all night. I began saying to myself "If
I'm not important to you then you sure are
not important to me". But it is not fair
to make new friend pay for your old
relationships.
The present: I keep one eye open at all
times in everything I do. Don't give your
all, because they have nothing to Earn.
We as people somethimes jump into a
relationship for all the wrong reasons:
They Look Good, I am Lonely, Pier
Pressure. First offer friendship to
everyone and find out if these people are
Friend Material. Talk to people and see
if they like the same things. We start
friendships up with people that we don't
have anything in common with.
No, I don't have the answers to
everything, I've been around long enough
to take a good look at myself. I have a
way to go with my Insecure Feelings but
I've learned to protect myself.
