Me and my bf have been together for about two and a half years. We have a 8 month old son. We fight all the time. Something doesn't go his way were up all night fighting. He doesn't help with the baby. I don't expect him to get up in the night when he has to work early in the mourning. But when he has the next day off shouldn't he get up with him? Even if its just once and awhile? That doesn't seem like to much to ask. Ive even been sick the past few days and he hasn't been working and he still doesn't get up with him. And he doesn't even help much during the day.
Ive tried to talk to him. He doesn't listen or care about what I have to say.

I want to break up, but every time I tell him, (I can say it nice, or be rude about it) he never leaves. We just fight more. And it'll get to late so i'll stop fighting so we can go to bed and we continue the next day and the same thing happens all over again. And when we do fight he calls me names. really mean names. Like pathetic and worthless, and a few others I wont say.

Anyone have any tips so I can break things off but not get the hours of fighting?
Or does anyone have any tips on how to get a little more respect?