Well a friend of mine and a friend of my mothers gave my fiancee and I a few baby things today. All of them had been used and I knew this before I agreed to take them from them. But they're really dirty and worn out and I don't really want to use them. I just don't want to be rude and don't know how to tell them. It's not that I'm trying to be stuck up or anything it's just that I don't want my baby using something that is far from being in good condition. We're perfectly capable of buying our own baby things and I was looking forward to it. Ugh I just don't want to be mean, it's really nice that they'd give me the stuff it's just not in good shape. A few things I'm gonna use and wash of course but others are just not an option. How do I give them back or not use them without seeming like a witch? Oh, plus they're heavy smokers and all the stuff smells like cigerette smoke. They're are so many random stresses to pregnancy!