Me and my boyfriend have been together for 13mnths. I had suggested once what he would think if we moved in together. Mind you I had said this jokingly but he took it seriously. He said he didn't wanna leave his family stranded. A few months later I had to move cause of roomie problems so when I got my apartment I noticed he stayed there everyday for a week, and then it got longer and longer,

We went to his house to pik up a suitcase. I guess he spoke to his folks about him moving but he didn't mention anything to me.lol so we.ve been living together for 6 months now. He jus recently made a career change and is working again. But when we first moved in he wasn't financially stable so me being sweet didn't ask him to help wit the rent. He did help me with groceries, laundry etc when he had extra to spare.

But what's stressing me out now is that I do all the work around the house, cook, clean, take out the trash, laundry etc and I don't even get a thank you for it. When he comes home and the house is looking awesome he won't even say I did a good job or anything. And it bums me out cause ontop of that I still have to pay all the rent, plus I'm struggling to pay the deposit and I'm paying my own bills too.dang! Ontop of that whenever I see something at the store I know he.ll like I buy it for him, little gifts etc, I don't even get flowers :'(

My question is, since I know he.s jus starting a new job and hasn't even gotten his first paychek yet, when would be a good time to ask him if he could help wit the rent? Maybe 3 months jus to let him establish himself? I need all the advice I can get! Please help