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Q: Today's World And Stress
asked by: CarolDiane on November 20th, 2007
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If you really think about it, we really all have good reason to be depressed and stressed out.
Look how hard it is now days to find a job. Use to be you just need a high shool deploma to get a pretty decent wage for you work. Now your lucky if you have a master degree and able to find a half way decent job that will pay you enough to just get by. Where it use to take only one person to run a houshold, it now takes two.
Our economy is up and our pay stays the same. I can't remember when I did work, the last cost of living raise I got, it's been that long.
The goals that use to be so easy to achieve, now seems so far away and hard to reach.
I sit here and wonder why depression is on the rise and these are some of the reasons why.
So many of us are single parents, just trying to make ends meet. Some of us have no real skills to make a good wage. Some of us are disable depending on the government to support us tell we die.
Is it a wonder why depression and stress is on a roll.
Kids growing up now have a hard road to walk. Funds for univerisities etc.....who can afford then anymore?
I get depressed just sitting here thinking about all these things. Well they ever get better. We are up against a world that is leading us to so much stress in the work place and being over worked. We come home and snap at the first person we see when we open the door.
Such a shame, it really is. Driving us all to take medications just to deal with everyday life.

Carrie

Would anyone like to add some input to this?
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Georgia59
replied on November 20th, 2007
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Total agreement. Life is hard!! We don't have enough pleasure time anymore.
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Mike East Texas
replied on November 20th, 2007
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Ha, Ha, Ha!
My X use to say, "life is hard, and then you die".

This reminds of the words John Wayne passed on to his son.
If you ever quote this, you have to use a John Wayne accent for it to come accross right

LIFE IS HARD, WHEN YOUR STUPID.

Carrie made too good of a point. Excuse my futile attemp at levety.
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marvel
replied on November 21st, 2007
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I agree with you, Carrie!
I'm not surprised that depression is on the rise, especially in the younger generations. The financial and social pressure that is put on us is really quite great. Though I have no means for comparison, I would contend that debt, addiction and general unhappiness with life are at all time highs, especially amongst the under 35 generation.

Me, for example... I'm $32 000 in debt and not even done school yet. How the crap am I supposed to pay that off while trying to get established in the world (career, family, other educational experiences)? I just look at the bright side of things... it took me awhile to look at things from that angle, though!
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Mike East Texas
replied on November 21st, 2007
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It's getting more, and more that to get ahead, you have to sell your soul. You'll be forced to take a job with a disreputable corporation. They will want you to be desperate before you go to work for them. That is built into the system. That way they can be certain that you will be a team player. Just like all those upper people of Enron. The Devils bargain. Sell your soul to be somebody, or be worthless. Well, my boy. You are on your path. Just promise me that you look for a chance to swindle the Devil. It will be your only redemption.
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marvel
replied on November 21st, 2007
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Nah.
I remain optimistic that I will find what I want, and I'll work really really hard to get there without sacrificing myself and what I stand for. I would rather wait tables 60 hours a week than work 35 at a place that uses me for my desperation.

Wait.. I'm already doing that. I'm on the right path hahaha.
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CarolDiane
replied on November 21st, 2007
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Again!
marvel you are just to darn funny. I myself was a server for awhile making minimum wage. Wait! But, I was never depressed. Hmmmm, something worng with that picture. Somehow we made it. Hey, right now I would'nt mind a job slinging burgers, as long as it was a Toco Bell. Wait! No burger there. Just my all time favorite Mexican Pizza. I'd prbably have to live in tent city here though.
You hit the nail right on the head though. I commend you for being so optimistic. That is the biggest problem now days. Ya look in the local paper for a job and there is always this one criteria you just don't meet. Dahhhhh, a no win situation.
Now if you'll excuse me, I feel the need for a Mexican Pizza. Wait! Dang! They close at 2am. BTW: What the heck am I doing up at this hour anyway? I took my Lexepro, Klonopin and a 1/2 pain pill. Something is not working here.

Carrie
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Mike East Texas
replied on November 21st, 2007
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Marvel, You Are Great.
I am so Negative, I could bring down the great wall of China. If youre ever fellin manic, I am a great seditve.
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marvel
replied on November 21st, 2007
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It's hard to be positive these days. The hard work, pain and dash of hell it takes to be positive (I know it sounds funny, but it's true for me) is worth it, though.
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Mike East Texas
replied on November 21st, 2007
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Stay On Your Roll
Man, I hope everything keeps going for ya. I just responded to MsCarrie about every time I have ever been positive about anything I was bitten on the 'ss.
I still think that my book would be a best seller.
The Power of Negative Thinking.
I can see it now. Up there, on the late night talk shows, the early morning shows.
Noman Vincent Peal - Move Over. Twisted Evil
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CarolDiane
replied on November 22nd, 2007
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Dear Mike
Now ya gotta stop getting bit in the SS. I have been reading all your posts and somehow as negitive as you say you are, I still see a ray of humor shining through in you posts.
You make me smile.

((((Hugs))))
Carrie
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marvel
replied on November 22nd, 2007
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^cheers to that.
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Mike East Texas
replied on November 22nd, 2007
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All Humor Is Sad
Humor is embarrasment, remores, painful, dark, morbid, bitter, shame.
Comedians suffer the most from depression. Thats how they get their material.
"He didn't seem to be the type to kill himself", said the lady. Remember John Balushi? The really sad people out there need your help. They shouldnt be allowed to get any worse. Funny people found a coping mechanism. But it's not well, As my since of humor grows, I worry more, not less. Sadness comes across as humor. Laughing at what, though? With you, At you or just at himself. A self depreciating since of humor. The I can't get no respect, or I was so ugly I.........
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