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Q: Im Pregnant ... Now What...
asked by: worriedauzzi on November 19th, 2007
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Usually the most happiest moment of a womans life ... but not for me ... i'm pregnant to my XBF!!! oh i don't know what to do!!! I'm strongly against abortion and i would never give up my baby! But if i tell him i duno what he would do ... he might i duno kick me in the stomach or be really happy .. he is unpredictable!! And a man promiscuous person!! I am two months pregnant!! What can i do. I can't handle this .. no one will ever want to marry me. i was ment to be married first! now look at me having a child 2 weeks before my 21st. The worst part is we really did use a condom because i made sure i didn't want to have his kids.
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ANGELOS MAMA
replied on November 19th, 2007
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Wow.
You really need to let him know though.
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ANGELOS MAMA
replied on November 19th, 2007
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Re: Im Pregnant ... Now What...
worriedauzzi wrote:
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Usually the most happiest moment of a womans life ... but not for me ... i'm pregnant to my XBF!!! oh i don't know what to do!!! I'm strongly against abortion and i would never give up my baby! But if i tell him i duno what he would do ... he might i duno kick me in the stomach or be really happy .. he is unpredictable!! And a man promiscuous person!! I am two months pregnant!! What can i do. I can't handle this .. no one will ever want to marry me. i was ment to be married first! now look at me having a child 2 weeks before my 21st. The worst part is we really did use a condom because i made sure i didn't want to have his kids.






you used a condom,but still got pregnant? Hmmm
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worriedauzzi
replied on November 19th, 2007
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i know ... when we were going out i got pregnant but had an abortion. and now this is just so weird.. this baby is due the day i aborted last year. i know i should tell him i just don't know how. i wish everything could just be more easy.
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worriedauzzi
replied on November 19th, 2007
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i can't have another abortion i cannot go through it all again.
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ANGELOS MAMA
replied on November 19th, 2007
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then tell him
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worriedauzzi
replied on November 19th, 2007
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il call him 2mrw ... see after we broke up ... i moved away like 3 hours away ... which makes everything all the more harder
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young Girl
replied on November 19th, 2007
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shouldnt have had sex with him then
theres always a chance of pregnancy even if you used a condom

so i pick choice number 3: deal with it
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worriedauzzi
replied on November 19th, 2007
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yeah well im sure everyone has had accidental x sex ... you know when your drunk and still inlove with him ... yeah i know i shouldn't of had sex and now i have his child in my belly
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browngirl
replied on November 19th, 2007
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the_girlfriend wrote:
shouldnt have had sex with him then
theres always a chance of pregnancy even if you used a condom


lol Neutral Neutral I would hope that that would be obvious.
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young Girl
replied on November 19th, 2007
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worriedauzzi wrote:
yeah well im sure everyone has had accidental x sex ... you know when your drunk and still inlove with him ... yeah i know i shouldn't of had sex and now i have his child in my belly


uh no. nope. never had "accidental" sex
stop getting drunk then maybe?
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worriedauzzi
replied on November 19th, 2007
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well i don't get it WE USED A CONDOM ... i was so careful about it ... and now LOOK .
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worriedauzzi
replied on November 19th, 2007
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ok sorry girlfriend ... didn't know you had never done anything regretful before.. but thanks for the sympothy
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young Girl
replied on November 19th, 2007
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ive done regretful things but seriously look at what youve done and now your stuck in this position
youre going to have to tell him
if hes got a problem then tell him to kick rocks

but can YOU take care of this baby? have you thought about adoption?
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worriedauzzi
replied on November 19th, 2007
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i could never give away my baby. i don't know .. im broke .. but i duno
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young Girl
replied on November 19th, 2007
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so your broke? and your going to bring a child into it? wouldnt you rather give the child a better opportunity at life if you cant provide for him/her?

and i dont get it
in your first post you said your strongly against abortion...but youve had an abortion before? :/ hmmm
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worriedauzzi
replied on November 19th, 2007
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thats why im against it ... as in for myself .. don't care about if other ppl do it its their choice... but what i went through the first time ... it made me so depressed i could never face it again. ok i'm going to the doctor's now .. i guess il call my xbf
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young Girl
replied on November 19th, 2007
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worriedauzzi wrote:
thats why im against it ... as in for myself .. don't care about if other ppl do it its their choice... but what i went through the first time ... it made me so depressed i could never face it again. ok i'm going to the doctor's now .. i guess il call my xbf


yeah see the doctor and then talk to him and figure out whats going to happen

but if your broke seriously please think about this
dont bring a child into something like that. if you cant provide thats not fair for them
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shelley27ky
replied on November 19th, 2007
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Ok I got a problem with the poll question shes posted I mean come on. If you are really thinking about killing yourself you need to get some help.

There are people out there that you can talk to, and you have many choices on what you can do, about being prego but really please talk to someone. Your POLL just makes me think you are asking use what way you should kill yourself or try to hurt yourself to were you could lose the baby.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE GO TALK TO SOMEONE YOU NEED SOME HELP WITH DEALING WITH ALL THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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young Girl
replied on November 19th, 2007
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shelley27ky wrote:
Ok I got a problem with the poll question shes posted I mean come on. If you are really thinking about killing yourself you need to get some help.

There are people out there that you can talk to, and you have many choices on what you can do, about being prego but really please talk to someone. Your POLL just makes me think you are asking use what way you should kill yourself or try to hurt yourself to were you could lose the baby.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE GO TALK TO SOMEONE YOU NEED SOME HELP WITH DEALING WITH ALL THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


whoa! you need to calm down lol
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