im in a relationship with a girl that i love very much, it could be considered my first real relationship since i lost my virginity to her at age 28 (i know i know, LOSER). she told me that when she was in college she had a threesome with another girl and guy and that she had experimented with anal sex. id like to try both these things myself, but now she doesnt want to do either of them. she didnt like anal apparently and because we are in a committed relationship she doesnt want to do the threesome. i feel kinda cheated cuz theres other dudes out there that got to experience these things with her, but i cant. its frustrating. any thoughts?