My mom wanted me to have an abortion but I said I didnt believe in it and she eventually just had to get used to it.

Somebody else plz gimie whatever advice you have! =/

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gaby

My mom is soo excited, she never would have even thought to tell me to have an abortion...She can't wait...She loves it

jordan and jaydyn

Aw! Thats really good, im happy for you.. Its also a lot better for the baby because you wont be stressed so much during the pregnancy.

If I know my parents they'll come around, and I doubt they'll kick me out.

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gaby

My mom was excited it was ryans mom....She wanted me to get an abortion but I said I didnt believe in it and it took her awhile to get used to that fact.

Yeah I say stick to it and say im having this baby and there is nothing you can do about it. I was old enough when I was pregnant so when me and jose told her, she was shocked, she cried and she was very happy. So maybe you might get the same reaction later, just stick to your guns and tell them your keeping it.

Ok, ill stick to my own thoughts no matter what.. And I have many friends taht told me taht if I do wind up pregnant they will open there house to me (one of which mom owns a day care right in the house! So I would get free day care!)

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gaby

I told my mom from the beginning that I was probubly pregnant, well, wen I went to walgreens to by the ept after I was 2 days late , I ended up taking the test in the bathroom of walgreens and it was positive , I called my mom over and told her the test was on the sink, she took a look at the test looked at me and said " baby, your fuc*ed " I never forgot that , and I never will . But she got excited after wards and wanted me and the daddy to get married , so we did and here I am . Its all good .. So far .. Good luck with ure peeps . Lol . 1 luv

My mom is really excited and she has been from the begining... She cant wait to get her hands on her first grandbaby to spoil! The only person out of my family, and from what I know, kevins family that was mad about it was my stepdad, but f*ck him, hes mad about everything lol... But anyways, just stand your ground, and hopefuly your parents will come around and realize its fun bein a grandparent... The joys of having a baby, but being able to give them back when your sick of them thats what my mom told me.. For the longest time she wanted to have another baby but she decided she was too old for that and didnt want to be tied down with another kid when her other two are almost old enough to get out of her hair and leave... She said it a good thing to have kids when you are young cuz then by the time your 40 you can just live your life without kids to be lookin after, then plus you will have more time to live with grandbabys, and possibly great grandbabys.... I dont know, its my moms point of view

Yeah.. You guys are very lucky to have such supportive parents.. The other night when we were out to dinner my mom was like why dont you like abortion and I told her, and im like adoption is always better then that and shes like well what about all tthe kids that are stuck in foster care blah blah blah.. So when I tell her him not getting an abortion and she says well then have an adoption ill just remind her of that =).. But when I tell her im pregnant I have 2 sites im going to show her on why you should support your pregnant teen, and ill also show her a pro-life report I just did .. And stuff like that.. I hope that they'll work =/, theyre going to have to! Lol

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gaby

Bellax I have a better idea...How about not becoming a pregnant teen? You said your not trying to get pregnant yet you seem like your pretty sure that you are in fact going to become pregnant at a young age. At 14 a baby really should be the last thing on your mind and i'm not trying to be rude but I don't believe any 14 year old is ready for a child.
Tanya

I agree!!!

Now im confused too. . Uve been sayin in urposts ur mom suspects ur preg and u been talkin about it and she wanted u to get an abortion. .But just now on aim u said ur mom doesnt know and ur thinkin of how u would tell her. .But if ur mom was a good mom and 'suspected' ur pregnant wouldnt she be the one makin u test when ur 14?!?!?! U just told me ur mom doesnt know ure testing and ur not telling her unless ur preg....

My mom did suspect I was pregnant, but didn't make me take I test. Dont know why..

Im deff not trying to get pregnant bc my bf and I decided not to have sex for a while now, cuz we're sick of worrying about it. Also, I know im always asking questions and stuff, but in an earlier post I stated taht I just like to think ahead and be sure of what im going to do.

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gaby

Tanya I resent that remark! Lol j/k believe me.....No 14 y/o is ready.......I was 14 when I got pregnant n now im 15 w/ a 3 week old baby tomoorow.....And im still not ready!!! Lol......But im doin it......And with minimal help I might add.......Since im always home alone......But I have a supportive mom who helps me out w/e I ask......Trust me......Dont go gettin preggo......I love my son and wouldnt trade him 4 ne thing......But I wish I had waited.......And I got lucky......Easy pregnancy and easy labor and easy baby......But not every1 is so lucky.......Just wait.

Chrissy I didn't mean to offend you at all! I in no way meant that you were a bad mother at all simply that being 14 is so incredibly young and if its possible to prevent a pregnancy then it should be done. How are you and josh doing????

Lol tanya its ok.....We r doing great!!! Sorry to make this short but he smells like pee so im goona give him a bath......Lol. How r you doing???

Lmao you crack me up. That was hilarious! Go wash that poor child! Is motherhood as difficult as you thought it would be?? I'm doing ok lol and the only one that smells like pee here is my cat....And he doesnt like baths

I am in no way trying to get pregnant.. If im not pregnant right now then my boyfriend and I are going to stop having sex for a few months and im going to go on the shot instead of the pill! =)