Ha ha!! I know I have the same problem. But I know it's because of bc because when I was off for a little while my libido was back! And being pregnant sometimes that just comes with it I had that too. So yeah most of our married life I have had no desire! Just think maybe someday! I don't know try different postions and see if that helps! Good luck!

im 36 weeks 1 day and im the complete opposite
im like a horny toad lol

First of all, you shouldn't just have sex with him anyways or go down on him just to shut him up. Sexual acts should be loving, caring, mutual things.

I'd say trying new positions. Also, if he gets jealous of you needing a vibrator for your clit, maybe you should sit down and talk to him. If you explain to him that having that extra stimulation would make you want to be sexual a lot more, he may change his opinion about how he feels about it. Try using it while you're having sex so you can possibly both get off, or maybe see if he would be willing to give you oral or something of the sort beforehand to get you in the mood

So u never have enjoyed sex? To tell you the truth, I didn't enjoy sex at first either, but it was because me and my bf weren't in sync yet with what we liked yet and i was nervous. I think that you just haven't had satisfying sex, so of course ur desire for it is low to none.
Is your bf not satisfying your desires? If you love him and want to be intimate, tell him what you like, how u want to be touched, etc. But if he's not attractive to u and u don't love him, that's probably why you're not horny for him
Also, don't ever do stuff to "shut him up". Tell him he's not sexy enough and to back off! lol J/k But never feel forced to do anything. But realize that you need to show him affection in some way to make the relationship work

Good Luck!

Thats a tough spot. Maybe you should try and see if this has anything to do with love or emotional issues. Is there something making you shy away from sex, are you afraid of something? Do you even love him anymore? Are you constantly forcing yourself to show affection as well as sex? if so then there are probably more issues other than sex.

Try to look deep in your heart....

I have been with a few guys, and messed around, but never did I enjoy sex. There was no emotional connection between the guys i had sex with. I occasionally enjoyed it, but it was never amazing. So now i'm dating a girl and its amazing. the chemistry, the connection, the feelings are there and EVERYTHING is amazing. Not saying that's the answer to you're problem, but it definitely could be an emotional connection you're lacking.

if you dont enjoy sex much then you should check and see your estrogen lvl vs. your tesosterone lvl. it could be that you are near the middle and just dont get excided about it. also the foreplay might not be good enough. have you just had sex, or have you had some foreplay (to the point were you want it so bad your on your knees begging)

If I read your post right -how can you enjoy something you know nothing about..

What you need is time spent by him in giving you a climax that would change a great deal for him..You have to know what you're missing to be able to give it..

Why couples don't take this time to know one another in such a special way I'll never understand..

Do you have any idea what you want him to do for you? You give him oral sex to make him be quiet--maybe you need to give him a little touch and say my turn..

Tell him if he doesnt want to make investments in batteries that he needs to treat you a little better..If he's jealous of the vibrator then he knows he ain't doing things right..

Give him love letters and stories of what you want..If you are to shy to tell him and he asks at least smile to give him a hint..

Why would you give of your body and have sex with a man when you have no emotional ties to him to start?....Sex is not like shaking hands....It's suppose to be special...This part of the "new bred" I do not understand.....Sex is passion....Without it, go take a shower and get the same results....

Just my thoughts,
Caroline