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Q: Penis Size and Husband's Self Esteem
asked by: bradf on November 17th, 2007
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my husband has major self esteem issues with his penis size. i feel it is fine it measures 4.5inches flaccid and 6 inches erect with a circumferance of 5 inches erect can anyone respond with there thoughts.
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CaseyMoe
replied on November 17th, 2007
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Larger than my fiance's. And all that matters is that you're satisfied! Who else is going to know it's size?!
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lightweight
replied on November 20th, 2007
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6 inches is average/normal! Don't u guys know that if it's too big it hurts? Plus, it's about your connection with each other and how he hits the right spots that make sex enjoyable.
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haille
replied on November 25th, 2007
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I have to deal with a 9 inch plus...it does take some accommodating.

The bottom line is that you are satisfied.

Why does your husband have low self esteem about this.

Oh...by the way, soft, my 9 incher is the same size as your husband's.
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Tracy1969
replied on February 6th, 2008
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If you like it, why does he care? Does he think that you wish it were bigger? 6 inches is plenty. It's not until you get into the 4 inch erections that it starts to matter (just my opinion...and experience).
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Georgia59
replied on February 6th, 2008
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Compliment the heck out of him!! When you see him naked, tell him (specifically) how hot his penis is... etc. He'll stop worrying about it soon. Smile

P.S. the same works for women
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fiona05
replied on February 7th, 2008
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6 inches is the same as my boyfriend's. it is PERPECT, i wouldn't want it any bigger!!!!
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MyLove4U
replied on February 16th, 2008
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my husband is 7 in erect and that still a lot for me. and it's about how well he's good at pleasing you not how big he is. as long as he's pleasing you he should worry. Smile

do other women get the painful feeling when it hits the top? >.< like iti'll break through the cervix?
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mrquestion
replied on March 3rd, 2008
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im a guy btw
we cant help being insecure its just a problem alot of men face
sometimes there is noting that can be said or done to stop uss from being insecure
i am very insecure even though im over 7" but i just think i can always be improved in some way if you want to try n help him feel more secure give his penis alot of atention
make him feel like a stallion when you are having intercourse always tell him he is great (only if he is tho never fake it wont get you anywhere he will just think that is what you like and do it again)
if he makes you orgasm like you never have befor tell him to keep on what he is doing
make sure he knows that he satisfies you but dont over do it
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Reptar
replied on March 3rd, 2008
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No matter what, most men will be insecure about their penis size. They always fear that you may be just telling them that you're satisfied but really not. Continue to tell him how much you love and appreciate that part of his body, it's going to take a lot of time for him to feel okay about it. And 6 inches is above normal, as 5.5 is the average. So your husband is bigger than the average guy Smile
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bill67
replied on May 11th, 2008
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have been really ashamed since in school, showering with other guys, developed late and size when not hard always an issue, never when hard with partners, have been told very long and thick but when not excited was always embarassed
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piku
replied on May 18th, 2008
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Actually, being a man, what i find, that women used to get pleasure first from the foreplay, cunnilingus and annalingus. And after their first orgasm, the second one, i can g ive them pretty smoothly by my 6 inches. None of the girls has ever complained about my size. So no question of loosing my self esteem.
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worrywart01
replied on May 18th, 2008
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my bf is the same way he's alittle over 6..i tell him you know what, say what you want but it works for me! I've never seen another guys and i've never been with another guy..sooooo..its not like he has alot of competition and i'm happy! Smile
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Aunt WeeWee
replied on May 27th, 2008
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Girl.....it aint the size of the boat....only the motion of the ocean!!!!
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scrappers007
replied on May 30th, 2008
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I am a little over 7 inches on a good day...and i want a honest feed back from woman who have no feelings for me or anything....i feel like i could be a bit bigger when im inside her...and she has been with a few other boyfriends before me and they had sex regulary...what do u all think of seven...not if its ok but if its great...and in return ill try and answer any questions from my side of things
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Georgia59
replied on June 2nd, 2008
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that's larger than average. Larger than my vibrator. Smile
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penishelp
replied on October 2nd, 2009
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try a penis extender
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jollyroger
replied on November 16th, 2009
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Penis size is just a mind game that men play with themselves and other men -- and now women are attempting to play it (for whatever reasons they have, none of them usually have anything to do with the actual size of your penis).

Having a smaller penis is only an issue if you're stuck with a woman who has a huge vagina. The real issue is maintaining a good, hard erection...which becomes more a concern with age. But then, it's a completely normal part of the aging process.

So any woman who complains about your penis size is either trying to be cruel because she's mad about you over something else, or is in denial about her over-sized vagina...or just doesn't realize that the real problem for her is she'd like your penis to be harder...and that's a reflection on her, too, when you think about it.
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nopezoner
replied on November 21st, 2009
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my penis is about 9 1/2 inches is this too big ??
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