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if your husband wanted to arrange a MFM threesome for your what would your thoughts be
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replied November 17th, 2007
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I would think he is pshyco and would look for a divorce.
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replied November 17th, 2007
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It depends on your relationship. Personally my relationship is monogamous and involving other people in our sex life is not an option - therefore I would be exceptionally concerned if he tried to organise somthing like that and I don't think we'd be together much after!

Have you discussed this kind of thing before and agreed to it or not?
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replied November 17th, 2007
well i would think this was something he desire and personally i probably would try it. i wouldnt knock it think about it but if your totally not comfortable about it dont do it because that something u can't take back. what work in someone else relationship doesn't work for everyone. when my husband first told me he wanted to have anal sex. the first thing came to my mind was "is this dude gay?" but then i gave in and found out i enjoy that more than regular sex. so take baby steps. have you tried anal? do you like it? maybe you can let him try having sex with you with a vibrater and his penis. I asked my husband to do that because he wont share me with no other man.
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replied November 17th, 2007
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sorry i had to move this to realtionships forum because it was in womens chat Smile
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replied November 19th, 2007
i'd be really freaked out, but i guess it really does depend on the relationship... wow but i'd be so weirded out by my husband... i think sex is something between the couple and shouldn't involve other people...
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replied July 24th, 2009
Threesomes two men one lady
You really have to experience a threesome to be able to decide, it is very enjoyable but full of hidden traps jealousy etc. Also choosing compatable people is important, our first couple of times was o.k. but not great, then we took off, consider persevering. Must have extra strong relationship with wife or husband
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replied July 24th, 2009
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I would think that he is thinking along the lines of acey ducey....He is looking for the new charge and not me...
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replied July 24th, 2009
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Sorry didn't know what happened to my last reply. I think CarolineEF could be on to something, however a male male encounter was certainly not on my agenda. We swapped around to give each other a fair go, the oral sex was amazing my wife sharing her favours equally. I could go on. The point is, if there are any doubts in your mind, don't do it. Cheers.
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replied September 25th, 2009
bradf, I honestly think your husband could be gay or bi. You would have to be very open minded to allow something like that to happen. But if you do let it happen, then don't be surprised if your husband falls in love with the other guy.
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replied November 7th, 2009
Be careful what you wish for, that's my advice.Many times, I initiated the conversation about trying a 3some(MFM), my wife was reluctant, but I persisted-My interest wasnt purely selfish, I thought it would add spice to our sex life,I found out the hard way that I was more interested in the fantasy of it all, than actually the act itself. even though I initiated the whole thing, i counldnt control the jealousy and the shame,and the dread of thinking i dirtied my wife,cause of something I thought would be fun..(was trying to emulate what I saw in porn movies, but it doesnt work when you love your spouse,)we got over that, and our marrage was strong enough to overcome that,for that i'm grateful,but,bottom line,life should'nt imitate art, especially in this subject,g-luck
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replied January 13th, 2010
I would suggest to start with very soft swing and work up from there.
Take it one step at a time.
Set some ground rules.
Have a keyword just in case one of you become to uncomfortable with a situation.
Let the guy know that you may decide to stop at anytime.

I'm a single male who have been with couples.
The hubby was always straight, and so am I.
Their relationships are still going strong.
It's a matter of separating lust from love.
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replied January 13th, 2010
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I would say that I don't think he's probably thought things out very carefully if he's bringing this up after you've taken vows togather. If he's asking for anything in the marriage it should be open to discussion. Sit down and talk about your concerns and his expectations. Be aware that threesomes are a risk to your marriage. Before you gamble on any behavior that can have unforeseen impacts on your relationship it should be discussed extensively and planned out with explicit communication between you both.
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replied January 14th, 2010
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he4she101 wrote:
I would suggest to start with very soft swing and work up from there.
Take it one step at a time.
Set some ground rules.
Have a keyword just in case one of you become to uncomfortable with a situation.
Let the guy know that you may decide to stop at anytime.

I'm a single male who have been with couples.
The hubby was always straight, and so am I.
Their relationships are still going strong.
It's a matter of separating lust from love.


Or boredom in a marriage.....
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replied January 18th, 2010
threesome mfm
For awhile I've had this Fantasy of my Wife with other Men who are Hung , it's a turn on to me. I have an below average size , never heard her moan or make a sound. the thought of her taking on a 8+ size is a turn on to me. would like my Fantasy into a Reality. but don't know how to convince her.
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replied August 19th, 2013
Just signed on and was lloking through the comments here. It was a GREAT experience for us, wondered if your "fantasies" came true?
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replied November 20th, 2011
I have given this 5 years of thought. I admit I have selfish motivations (I realize I am now bi) but I still love women, and my woman is awesome. I want a committed couple for us to be with and I know I could handle it. We would have to approach it with our cards on the table.
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replied December 15th, 2011
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our threesome came about by talking about my husband having more hands to caresse me with, each step came from that so after a long time we talked about it openly between ourselves,
it also helped that my husband is a voyeur and I'm an exhibitionist,
we made some ground rules, I was to select the guy (with my husbands approval) and try to arrange things from there,
It took us quite a few months to get it going, I must say that the planning was very exciting for us both,
we have enjoyed our threesomes and I dont think either of us wants to stop, Sally
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replied February 3rd, 2013
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MFM threesome can be very satisfying for the woman if all parties have agreed everything thoroughly beforehand. My husband and I have had some tremendous times with carefully selected other guys but you must have a very strong marriage bond. Communication and consideration are keys to success, I like to be pampered and adequately worshipped by my two men throughout the session. I love to be the centre of all attention rather than simply replaying some porn scene. Its not for everyone but is an amazing experience for us womn if handled with love and taken slowly.

Steph aged 46
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