Hi guys, I am married for over 15 years and I live my wife to death.
I have this fantasy to see my wife have sex with another guy. We talk about it during sex and turns her on.
Never had a MFM threesome, dont know how to find a male partner to join us.
What should I do?
If you find a good way to find one, let me know. We are interested in trying it but not sure how to go about it. My husband & I have been together for 11yrs and I love him more than anything, but we are interested in trying this.
I have used the adult dating sites and it worked best for my wife and I, set up your meeting and remember you don't have to do anything with the person you meet if they do not appeal.
But there is a lot of people advertising on these sites good luck in your search...
I think all these answers from people saying "you should never do it" or "why did you get married?" is laughable. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and to give it on this board I suppose. But the only answer is "to each his own."
I went to a religious college, and would have NEVER believed in swinging as the right thing for me (hotwife dating is what I call what we do - I date the hubs watches).
However, I have been married 13 years, middle class life with kids, and swinging for 2 years. GREATEST thing I could have ever chosen. Some people play golf, we swing.
obviously, if you swing with friends or workmates, that is a mistake.
We choose partners outside our social circle, we keep it private (like ALL of our sexual activity); we establish the health of our partners; we have a gameplan on establishing the safety and sanity of the partner; and after that, we go at it.
My life has been enriched by the experience and has not taken one second away from our family, and has not diminished one aspect of our own one-on-one sex life.
Not for everyone, never thought it was for me. But the argument that your marriage would preclude an interest in other parties for sex is silly. YES - monogamous sex is the traditional path for the vast majority of people, and what is right for them. But don't knock my choices as being anything less.
Yes I and my wife have had several MFM experiences, they have been some of the horniest times of our relationship.
We are still together after 25 years and going strong, I wrote a book on the subject called the threeway collector by Avid Tallstory.
We have no diseases or have had no issues in our relationship doing MFM threesomes.(Lucky I guess)
I/we welcome threesomes, with the right men, I am not in any way gay, I just love to see her go wild with men, I would like to see her have more then one extra at a time but that hasn't happened yet.
For super exciting sex with your wife allow her to have sex with another man or two and you.
Thanks for listening to a dirty alpha male..
Not to judge, each to their own, is best with MFM threesomes
100% truth and a well commented situation, I agree it is not for everyone, and if it was then the world would be a boring place.
I can't believe how horny having a threesome makes both of us, we don't do it all the time, but when it happens it is well worth doing, my next fantasy to be attempted is having more then a threesome, I would like to see my wife having myself and two or three others at the same time..
Thank you for NOT judging me as I would not judge you.
If you are curious to know what it would be like you could roll play the fantasy together to let you know how the experience might be, but on a less intense basis. We did this first and later had a 3 way, it really is similar. First, take time to agree on a guy that you may use to roll play in bed together and choose someone that you both know or are familiar with. This is so you both can picture him with you as you are doing it. Then when ready, sit next to your wife as she begins to stimulate herself by masturbating. Touch her some but not too much. The guy needs to watch his wife or GF independently and not interfere as much as possible. As she becomes more stimulated, she needs to openly say the 3rd guy's name and what she wants him to do to her while she is masturbating. The key is for you both to look at each other while she is saying theses things as much as possible. This may be a little uncomfortable, but is really similar to the feeling of what it would be like together with the other guy actually there. If she gets excited and feels like not holding back, now is the time to say whatever comes out. This would allow the guy to know what it may feel like if she is excited while with the other man, including any jealous feelings the he may feel as he hears and watches her. This may sound just like regular sex play, but there are things in this that are similar to the actual experience. The fact she openly calls out the other guy's name as well as tells what she wants to do to the the guy and he to her as she pleasures yourself, will present many of the same feelings you both will feel during the actual encounter. The more you immerse yourself in it, the more realistic it can be to the actual experience. The key is to have her do it verbally and physically in front of her husband or BF and as you sit there to feel the experience as well. After it is over, you should talk to see what was felt. Some will love it and maybe decide that they want to try more, while most should just decide to keep things in this play stage. This turned out to be mentally close to the actual experience.
Me and my wife had our first mmf threesome a few weeks ago and we loved it and we both beleive it made our relationship alot stronger. We had talked about if for almost a year and we both very turned on about the idea, we had a mff threesome first and enjoyed that very much too, it takes a strong trusting relationship to let another person join your sex life and after the mff threesome we know we had a strong marriage. We found a guy and went out for a few drinks to meet him and we talked and got to know eachother, me and the wife both felt good about the guy and went back to the hotel and had a good fun night, It was something we both can see ourselves doing again.
How dangerous can a threesome mfm with your best friend be?
My girlfriend and I have done threesomes with strangers many times and our relation gets even stronger. Now my best friend (male) finds her very attractive, I can tell. Now when the three of us are alone in my place, our chats get hotter. The three of us agree but still we need to talk.I know him since I was six, now I'm 40, so he is very close to me, like a brother to me. I'm sure about myself not being jelous, that wouldn't happen. I just wonder what his reaction might be later on.
Hi I m male 30 11 years of my marriage I will also wants threesome mmf wid my partner I talk to my wife she didn't agree but I convince her I m looking good partner for join us if any wanna join us reply me any wanna join us and give us great fun welcome.
My wife and I would talk about it during sex and she would say she was open to trying it out with another guy. Finally, after some drinks we had a good friend of mine come over and I asked him if he wanted to take part in a threesome with my wife. He was reluctant at first but decided to go ahead with it. It was great, sensual and we went at it all night. My wife said it was the best sex she ever had. We get together about once a month and try new things. It's never been weird but that's because we have a strong relationship and understand it is a physical act and not emotional. We have no boundaries, everything goes, and this eliminates any jealousy. Sometimes I fall asleep and awake to find my wife still engaged with my friend. It really turns me on. Before this, sex had gotten boring after 15 years of marriage. Now, when I have sex with her alone, I imagine her doing us both and it really turns me on. All I can say is, don't knock it till you try it!
this is natural,everybody have a fantasy,iam 34 y married male,wife 33 y old,my wife is 5.11'' tall and big boned women (235 lbs)she is taller and bigger than me,we both are open minded couple,we have lot of fantasy in our sex life,after three years of marriage we explored fantasy in bed ,she love to talk about one of my close friend during sex time now i have no problem iam joining with her ,she like his physical status,they are around same size,she is saying when she standing or talking with my friend she feeing more comfortable,i know while we speaking about him she is becoming good mood and wet,and iam several time noticed they both kissing very hardly,i dont care about that,i understood her fantasy ty,and i dont know they ever had sex or not
We are a well to do family with grown up children in a south Asian country. My wife is smallish and very attractive for her fifty years of age and has the look of a young lady of thirty five or less.
Few years ago, a tall young man just over half my age (60) started visiting our farm for business but has gradually become a family friend. He started it all by being very helpful to us. And, we accepted him as a friend and even helped him financially when his business faced problems. We had even gone on trips and holidays together at times with his wife and children as well. Neither he nor my wife gave the slightest indication that they had an affair. They were so discreet, it took me several years to find out the young man had been the secret lover of my beloved wife.
I learned about their affair through a unanimous phone call. When inquired, both had denied it and continued the friendship as usual. After a while, my wife tried to avoid sex with me on various pretexts and started to behave lasciviously whenever the young man is around. I felt she is in love him.
I was so furious and jealous, many heated arguments followed. I gave her the choice to choose either him or me but not both. It appeared as if she had given him up and the young man stopped visiting us. But I knew they talk to each other over the phone and felt they meet somewhere.
So, I just couldnt stop thinking about the sexy ways young man must have had sex with my bellowed wife during all those years. On and off, my mind continued to criss-cross the ways
Whenever my mind engulfed with those hallucinations, I realised my penis is erecting hard and staying. Whenever I thought of her moans and she reaching her orgasm, I realised my penis tip is getting fully wet get the urge to masturbate. I started to enjoy their sex play so much, I had to visualize the manner in which my wife had sex with the young man and the joy and the bliss she enthralled to stimulate myself whenever I wanted to have sex with her. Imagining the young man is penetrating her while we perform 69 and vice versa gave me an immense pleasure.
After few weeks of these episodes, I desperately wanted to witness her enjoying and experiencing multiple orgasms for real. And I told her about it and proposed we have a threesome as in my hallucinations with her former lover.
I expected her to be enthralled and confess about her sexual gratification with the young man. I expected her to tell me how she achieved many orgasms and ecstasy as never before while he penetrated her. I expected her to tell me that her love for him had been a lust to reach that bliss and nothing more.
To my surprise, she rejected it and denied having any relationship with him. But I kept telling her how wonderful for me to have sex with her and her young lover and watch her reaching orgasm.
May be she wasn't sure she would reach that bliss she had with him in a threesome or if I am around. I convinced her that my desire and satisfaction is to watch her reaching single orgasm but multiple orgasms. Can any of you help?
I would certainly like my wife to have a 3some. She needs it bad. I can't satisfy her much anymore and she is hungry for a good hard screw with someone who is well endowed...it would be strictly for sex. I would enjoy watching her go at it and finally see her get off. She deserves a good lay now and then.....
I m male 30 married 12 years ago n my my wife is age of 30 we have good sexual relations but now I wanna threesome mmf sex we r looking for threesome partner where we find a threesome partner we don't have threesome it's our 1st time I don't know about threesome n my also plz tell me about threesome waiting for ur replies.
You can visit a swinger dating site and connect with other swingers and see if it's something you like. I use the site because they tend to have classier members as opposed to the kind of people you might be a little weirded out by. There's nothing wrong with experimenting!
My wife and I have both decided we want another man to join us. It has always been a fantasy for both of us. I will lay beside her as he takes her and then I will take her last. She loves the idea of hands all over her. We both decided we want it to be someone she knows. The problem we don't know who. She has lots of male friends but my question is how does she approach someone and ask if they want to join us?
actually my wife suggests the idea of an mmf threesome to me when we got out for the night,she is always chatting to other men when she goes outside for a smoke maybe she is canvassing and seeing what other people think regarding her idea.not entirely sure how i would react if she told me that she had chosen somebody to share a taxi to our place.
I know their is different strokes for different folks....but if u constantly need to have threesomes to keep your marriage going, something is wrong! One of u or both of u are not satisfied with each other.Gorgolo1 u mentoned your wife said she had the best sex ever with you friend!!!HELLO WAKE UP CALL next time take notes maybe your friend won't be needed anymore. I have been marrried for 30 yrs and that has neve crossed our minds. U know guys their is other ways to spice up your sex lives without bringing in other males(especially friends)!
hi everyone. new here and thought i would offer my brief story, then ask a question.
happily married for 25 years, started mfm threesomes along time ago. have had 4 different guys in 25 years but some alot more than once. wife started out a little unsure. but soon was happily right in there. there came a point in time where she, not i, was choosing the guys. some of which were my best friends. those went well but we have parted ways since (my friends and i)but my wife and i remain happy, until recently? we had not done anything for a few years, and i brought it up to her again. she was very hesitant, and finally i found i was pushing the issue to hard and we began to argue over it. she stated she was not that type of person any longer and did not want to do it anymore. why i am confused is, she has enjoyed it so many times, we always talked in great detail before and after each event, why would that make her (a different person?) and she says she feels ashamed now of what she has done? we came together more closely than we have ever been during these times. shared feelings that we would have never thought of sharing before. maybe if another woman who has done this before could respond and help me understand? anyone who has help is appreciated!