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February 2nd, 2010
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Not even 98.7% of all women menstruate. I'm at a loss for finding any behavior that that much of a single gender does. Please illuminate what you're referring to.
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replied February 17th, 2010
Here is why we have MFM threesomes.
My wife's sex drive and stamina are very high and mine is very low. One of the best ways I have found to satisfy her in bed is to have MFM threesomes with our friend and share her with him. I know that I can't satisfy her in bed like she deserves, does that upset me, it did before we started having MFM threesomes but not anymore. My wife deserves to be satisfied in bed as much as she satisfies me in bed, MFM threesomes and sharing/trading spouses with our friends is how I accomplish that. This arrangement has been working for the 4 of us for several years. His wife has a very low sex drive and stamina like me. We (his wife and I) are happy knowing that our spouses are taking care of the each other's sexual needs and not going else were. I Love my Wife very much and will do anything for her and I know she Loves me and would do anything for me.

That is why "we" enjoy "our" MFM Threesomes.
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replied March 6th, 2010
Aww!! Larry, I loved reading your story Wink Now that is true love. I to love my husband and I know he loves me, that is why I couldn't have a MFM relationship without him. We have so much love n trust for eachother.
I am sort of like your wife, I have a strong sexual drive, and my husband well he does sometimes, but when we first had a MFM experience he stayed hard for hours?? He said it was something that just really turned him on, to see another man penetrate me. He was just as shocked LOL!
We have had about four real experiences since, three with the same first guy. But one night he asked me to do something crazy! He dropped me off at a local night club. He parked the car by himself, waited a few minutes and then entered the club alone as I did (true story). I was wearing a small tight sexy black dress with a cute thick white belt, he insisted I wore stockings so I did Along with very sexy four inch heels.
The whole idea was for me to go into a bar (club) and act single and get picked up on all night while he watched. Sounds crazy, but we actually done this before when we would go out together and we would separated eachother to use the restroom and when returning ok da watch the other from a distance to see how many guys/ girls try to talk to us LOL!
Well as the night went on and a hand full of men aproached me, bought me drinks, made conversations with, my husband would be text messaging me asking me questions on who I liked? or who he thought would be a good fit for a MFM night. All along telling ms how sexy I looked Wink
Ok so as it turned out there was this one guy let's just say his name was Ricardo. He was about 6' tall, Latin American looking, very gentlmanly looking, some gray hair. Very handsome!
we must have had a few drinks together while sitting on the sofa in the lounge area. He was getting a little touchy feely rubbing my knees feeling my stockings.
My husband was getting turned on watching. He text me and told me to ask him to give me a ride home and to invite him in for a cocktail?? That wasn't the plan!! We were just sopose to find someone for a MFM experience another night maybe? But aparently my husband had other plans. My husband left the night club emidiately and went home. I left with Ricardo about 20 minutes after.
While Ricardo and I were driving back to our place I get another text from my husband telling me that he took down all our pictures in order to make the place look like a single womans place. He said he was hiding in the dark on the top of the stairs. I knew what he was up to and I was game LOL! He wants to have fun then we'll have some fun! LOL!
Ricardo and I walked in and sure enough, No signs of any man or husband living there. I asked Ricardo what he'd like to drink, he said Red Bull n Vodka which I had. We sat on the couch I turned on the tv and right away soft porn pops on? LOL! My hubby had set it to Adam n Eve channel. I laughed so hard I couldn't stop my self. Ricardo was such a gentlman. He got closer to me and we started fomenting on how the man and woman were making love. He would say "he's going to fast, he needs to slow down" and I would say "yeah he needs to go slow but real hard" then we got to talking about sex and stuff. The next thing I remember we were kissing real sexy! He had his hands all over me and I couldn't resist touching him through his pants, that and cause I knew my husband was watching.
we ended up on the floor, a perfect spot for a great veiw from the top of the stairs LOL! Ricardo said to me "stop me at anytime ok" and without any hesitation he reached up my dress pulled off my pantys and went down on me Smile His soft tongue was all in my wet p**sy, he was even licking my a**.
After about 15 minutes of him giving me oral, I seggested we both get naked Smile As he was standing up taking off his pants I couldn't resist the oportunity to give him head in front of my husband. I have to admit he had an exstremly beautiful c*ck, well endowed and nicely trimmed. After sucking him for a while we then F**KED each others brains out!!! All on our livingroom floor while my husband watched from up stairs.
After about an hour Ricardo went home. We kept in touch and I told him I was married and how my husband was simply away that weekend and that I was just being naughty. Ricardo still wanted to see me, but I don't do anything without my husband. So I asked Ricardo if he'd like to meet my husband? He was shocked at first but then came around Wink He then came over for dinner twice, had beer with my husband and watched sports getting to know him a bit. Then one late night we text Ricardo and asked him if he'd ever try a threesome? He replied "yes, with who"? we responded "why us of course LOL"!! He wrote back "yeah right! I don't Believe you" we responded "come over" Ricardo came to our house that night, it took a while for him to feel comfortable. We even played the dice game to break the ice. You roll two dice and what ever it says you have to do to the oposite sex. (suck lips, blow any part of body, lick cheek) you get the idea Wink
We had the most exciting time ever!! I love my husband for allowing me/us to experience excitment in our marriage. You have to love and trust and open up doors for one another. Make magic happen! We don't revolve our marriage around sex and threesomes, but it is something we both enjoy and it excites me to excite him, it excites him to see me excited!! I hope this story helps someone, anyone. Love, Michelle
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replied June 30th, 2011
Yes it is the pure ability of how "it excites me to excite him, it excites him to see me excited!!" as you have written that drives a fantastic orgasmic threesome lust pile, we too do not do this all the time, but when it happens it is worth every drip, as we go over and over again 4 or more times for each man.
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replied March 8th, 2010
our first time
my husband and i had our first threesome with a man from a bar and it was very exciting.We started just by sitting on our couch talking then hubby started kissing me and touching then ken started in by touching my leg.That first touch made me so wet i couldn't stand it.Soon enough we were all naked and i had a strange man inside me and hubby was watching.They both switched on and off i was in my glory and never wanted it to end.The highlight was when i was giving oral to hubby and ken was inside me when i started to have a orgasm we all came at the same time.I had cum running down my throat and my legs at the same time.Since then we haven't do it but still talk about it and it makes our sex life more intense
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replied June 19th, 2010
mfm 3some
My wife and I have done this close to a dozen times with the same guy. He's pretty well hung (much longer than me) and, according to my wife, VERY good orally.

She says she does it for me, but she also enjoys it as well. So much, in fact, she's been with the guy without me there (but with my permission).

I don't love her any less. It feeds our sex lives and keeps things spiced up as we near 50.

That said, we haven't done this in close to 7 years.
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replied July 20th, 2010
i also have a fantasy of having 3some of my wife and even a ganbang of her. i know that we will love it and we want it badly. i will let u know how it feel in few days.
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replied August 2nd, 2010
I am a sixty-plus year old heterosexual married man. Aside from what I am about to relate, I am a clean-cut, moderate kind of guy. When I met the woman who became my wife thirty years ago, I fell head over heels, snd I'm still deeply in love. We were very open with each other sexually from the moment we met, and we were playing with a male friend within two weeks. We've continued to have male friends who have also shared our bed through our entire dating relationship and marriage. We've truly limited our partners, most of them last for yesrs, and they're mostly serial relationships. We use protection until many months into a relationship, but then, if we trust a man and he wants a monogamous mfm relationship, we'll all test. Before I met her, no matter how I tried, I could never be faithful. Now I am the definition of the word, and its totally natural. I have not cheated on her or been with another since we've been married because I don't want to. I love being with her, she fascinates me, and our fun with another man is certainly wild enough to keep me satisfied and at home. She wants it too. Assuming we're in a relationship, she enjoys the kind of man who just comes up to her and takes her, and I love to watch it happen. It turns us both on. In the past few years she's found something new, double vaginal penetration, and she truly craves it. I love it too. Now I don't know about others, but in our case, I feel mfm threesomes have been extremely beneficial to our marriage. It keep us from roaming and keeps it fresh and wild. I feel it works because we are very open and honest with each other. It good for us, it's made us closer, and our marriage stronger.
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replied August 4th, 2010
is my husband normal to watch porn & obsess about threesomes
i am a 32 year old woman with the same man, now husband for 8 years. my question is: is this normal, or a red flag?
he seems to be obsessed with threesomes. he watches threesome porn late at night on the computer most every night, and he has talked to me on numerous occasions about wishing to have one with me. i am hesitant, but i also really would like to make him happy, so i leave it that if the right person came along, i would give it a try.
it's his main sex fantasy, and i think he sees it as his only way to be non-monogamous and still feel true to his marriage vows. we have sex once or sometimes twice a week, and although we both get off, it's bland. he never says anything. obviously his sex drive is high because he jerks off all the time. is he addicted to porn if he's watching daily? am i right to be concerned about this obsession with a third?
thanks in advance for your comments...
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replied August 12th, 2010
All in all, if you are right with it, if she is right with it, and the 3d person feels like she's not destroying anything, do it. A lot of people here might think it's wrong to "share" your wife, but ignore that. its all about sexual desire. Have fun if you want!

Highly suggest you do not push it thought if she really doesn't want to.
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replied September 3rd, 2010
I agree with Fudge101 and some people here.
Im new here, so hello everybody Smile

I love my wife so much. We have been together for 10 years as a couple and for three year in marriage.

We have a great sex, and we are satisfied with eachother, but somehow stopped having sex so often. After she gave a birth to a baby, after months passed, we hardly had sex.

I always liked porn movies. She didnt in the beggining, but now she enjoys them very much, especially mfm movies. We never spoke about threesome, but during a last couple of months, I intensified my fantasies about her, and I must say, mfm idea is a real turn on for me.

I got encouraged and mentioned, indirectly during sex during last couple of times, while we were wathing some nice mfm threesome, that I imagine her giving me a blowjob while being f...ed. She asked how is that possible, at two places at the same time, while i didnt answer. I repeated my statement and she asked again, and when I said, well, like she is doing (pointing at mfm on tv), she instantly got off.

After I mentioned later, she said that she does not rememberm and when I explained, she stated that she likes mfm movies and that she didnt knew what was I pointing at (mfm with her).

I should probably leave it as a fantasy (it helped, because I now want my wife more that anything and I have constant sexual desire for her), but somehow, just for pure pleasure, I would like to share her and watch her enjoy one more dick. She will probably not agree (i cant think of a person i would share her with, except imaginary, faceless one) and go into fight with me, because she is just not used to those kind of talk and things, but DP and mfm movies turn her on, and I would swear she wanted me to tell her how i imagine her being filled by two men (me and another).

What should I do? Maybe I should just try with a dildo or similar sex toy, and that in combination with my, I must say, great dirty talk, could be a winning situation for both of us. I just cant get enough of her Smile
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replied November 29th, 2010
Threesomes
My wife and I started with the MFF and MFM question. I love my wife dearly and recently she has started fantasizing F****** other men and being with women as well. She is extemely kinky and enjoys a good wild hard session. Any men or women game to join us
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replied November 29th, 2010
Threesomes
My wife and I started with the MFF and MFM question. I love my wife dearly and recently she has started fantasizing F****** other men and being with women as well. She is extemely kinky and enjoys a good wild hard session. Any men or women game to join us
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replied December 9th, 2010
marvel wrote:
I know a couple of people who have done it. They are committed couples who do it to strengthen their sexual relationship. They are safe. So far, they're still going strong.

Though I'm not a threesome type of guy (the person I"m with is more than good enough for me) I say whatever floats your boat. Just make sure it's something that you both really really want.

Thanks you for the post.


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replied December 25th, 2010
MFM is good for the right people
My wife and I have had and MFM. Before we did this, we wrote out boundries and expectations that cannot be changed without discussion. Our relationship is NOT based on sex, it is based on love. Our MFM experience was great for both of us. Men, if you are not secure with yourself and your ability to satisfy your wife/gf on your own, don't go there. Seeing my wife being the sexual womwn she wants to be and living her fantasy is and extreme turn on especially for her. An MFM is done strictly to satisy the wowman. I really feel sorry for those people that are unable to communicate fantasy with their life partner due to insecurities. Our marriage is stronger than ever. We do not plan to make this our lifestyle, we only plan to do this when the occasion is right. We choose our partners carefully and, insist on STD testing. If they don't want to provide it, they don't get touched. If they do, they still use a condom. You will not have a better sexuak experience in your life if you choose to have a threesome but only if you are ready for it emotionally.
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replied February 24th, 2011
my g/f and me are thinking about having MFM threesome seriously . we like it and search for a suitable guy . Anyone need to contribute ?
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replied March 1st, 2011
My wife and I have done this and had a great time. WE were very careful, did some 'dating' to meet prospective candidates and then gave it a try. Every time wasn't great but we did have some great times. Sort of like our sex life. We have been married for many years and see this as an extension of our sex life.

Sex is a blessing. I love seeing my wife with another man and am eager to do it again. We have met several men, tried this a couple of time, and have one 'friend' that we see a couple times a year for this activity. My wife is very pretty, sensual and we have a great relationship.
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replied March 10th, 2011
I've been a swinger for years. My advice is be careful and don't try to force her into it. It has to be something that you both want to try. If done under the right frame of mind it will make your marriage much stronger and you will feel a deeper loving conection to one another. MFM threesomes are a lot of fun and she will have several explosive orgasms and so will you. If you force her into or if you rush her, it will damage everything. All contact with the other guy should be directly through you and you only. Some guys might try to get sneaky and try to contact her direct. AFF.com is a good place for you both to start and do some window shopping. Once you do have a threesome, make sure to take time to make love one one as a way of reminding one another of how much you love each other. Do not have a threesome or any type of swinging as a way to fix a relationship or a bad sex life. You need to have a STRONG foundation already full of love, respect and trust. Swinging only works if you are already in a healthy relationship. A bad relationship will only get worse. One last thing, make sure she feels safe and loved during the threesome. Remember its all aboht her and making her feel good. Good luck and enjoy.       
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replied March 10th, 2011
I've been a swinger for years. My advice is be careful and don't try to force her into it. It has to be something that you both want to try. If done under the right frame of mind it will make your marriage much stronger and you will feel a deeper loving conection to one another. MFM threesomes are a lot of fun and she will have several explosive orgasms and so will you. If you force her into or if you rush her, it will damage everything. All contact with the other guy should be directly through you and you only. Some guys might try to get sneaky and try to contact her direct. AFF.com is a good place for you both to start and do some window shopping. Once you do have a threesome, make sure to take time to make love one one as a way of reminding one another of how much you love each other. Do not have a threesome or any type of swinging as a way to fix a relationship or a bad sex life. You need to have a STRONG foundation already full of love, respect and trust. Swinging only works if you are already in a healthy relationship. A bad relationship will only get worse. One last thing, make sure she feels safe and loved during the threesome. Remember its all aboht her and making her feel good. Good luck and enjoy.       
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replied March 21st, 2011
Re: MFM is good for the right people
shape49 wrote:
My wife and I have had and MFM. Before we did this, we wrote out boundries and expectations that cannot be changed without discussion. Our relationship is NOT based on sex, it is based on love. Our MFM experience was great for both of us. Men, if you are not secure with yourself and your ability to satisfy your wife/gf on your own, don't go there. Seeing my wife being the sexual womwn she wants to be and living her fantasy is and extreme turn on especially for her. An MFM is done strictly to satisy the wowman. I really feel sorry for those people that are unable to communicate fantasy with their life partner due to insecurities. Our marriage is stronger than ever. We do not plan to make this our lifestyle, we only plan to do this when the occasion is right. We choose our partners carefully and, insist on STD testing. If they don't want to provide it, they don't get touched. If they do, they still use a condom. You will not have a better sexuak experience in your life if you choose to have a threesome but only if you are ready for it emotionally.


my husband and i have had mfm fantasy for years. we've just started going to bars to try to find someone.my problem is he wants me to find a guy go up to him alone and proposition him;he doesn't do anything to initiate or give me encouragement. when we go out i always dress real sexy and love gettin naughty on dance floor. i'm a real sexual woman,but i need for him to tell me how hot i look and how turned on i make him when being naughty.this is not me just wanting to have sex with another man it's something that's supposed to be shared between us.today i thought of checking what people were righting about their expeiences and told him;but now he's staying on computer searching threesome personals instead of us doing it together. he makes me feel it's really not about how much he loves me and wants to give me this pleasure but just something for him
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replied April 17th, 2011
Wow, so many conflicting replies...All I can say is my girl and I love each other very much, we always have done and always will and yes, we have had a mfm threesome and loved it.. would we do it again? yes, we would, we took our time, found the right guy, had safe sex, fulfilled both our fantasies and loved it and are closer now than ever. Im not saying its for everyone, it probably isnt so be open and I mean open, 100%. discuss it over and over again, take your time and have fun Smile
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