|I know a couple of people who have done it. They are committed couples who do it to strengthen their sexual relationship. They are safe. So far, they're still going strong.
Though I'm not a threesome type of guy (the person I"m with is more than good enough for me) I say whatever floats your boat. Just make sure it's something that you both really really want.
|My wife and I have had and MFM. Before we did this, we wrote out boundries and expectations that cannot be changed without discussion. Our relationship is NOT based on sex, it is based on love. Our MFM experience was great for both of us. Men, if you are not secure with yourself and your ability to satisfy your wife/gf on your own, don't go there. Seeing my wife being the sexual womwn she wants to be and living her fantasy is and extreme turn on especially for her. An MFM is done strictly to satisy the wowman. I really feel sorry for those people that are unable to communicate fantasy with their life partner due to insecurities. Our marriage is stronger than ever. We do not plan to make this our lifestyle, we only plan to do this when the occasion is right. We choose our partners carefully and, insist on STD testing. If they don't want to provide it, they don't get touched. If they do, they still use a condom. You will not have a better sexuak experience in your life if you choose to have a threesome but only if you are ready for it emotionally.|